Balancing Act: Why do women get all attractive if they don't want to be harassed? Glad you asked.

A man named Steve emails me every now and then to take issue with something I've written. He checked in a few weeks ago after I wrote about the #MeToo movement, which was inspired by sexual harassment and assault allegations against Harvey Weinstein.

"The core question you should be asking, Heidi," he wrote, "is: Why do women try to make themselves more attractive?"

I don't think that's the core question we should be asking, actually. But I know plenty of people are asking it - have been asking it for