EVERYTHING* YOU EVER WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT ASS
IN A WAY, BUTTS ARE INHERENTLY QUEER—a functional body part that’s been otherized by mainstream culture for being reclaimed for pleasure. After all, there’s no place in the body that our people have marked their territory on the way we have with the ass. We finger, fuck, feast, and fist, so we have a heightened awareness of the type of care our derrières require. Still, there’s no shortage of myth for us to unpack in an effort to be the best bottoms, terrific tops, and valuable versatiles we can be. So, being kinder and more understanding when it comes to anal sex, and taking care of ourselves, is not only vital, it’s on brand. From painting and douching to STIs and specialized rim chairs, let’s dive deep into booty knowledge so we can optimize our experiences in the rear! By Rose Dommu. Photographed by Sean Santiago
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Poop is a reality of anal sex, so why are some queers so judgmental about it?
IF YOU’RE HAVING ANAL SEX, poop is going to enter the equation at some point, and that’s that on that. But when it comes to maintenance and logistics, it’s largely receptive partners who are left responsible for preparation. Whether you’re fisting, rimming, playing with toys, or attempting to make the missionary position work, anal sex generally requires a bit of forethought. And while that perfectly clear fleet water is what we all aspire to, it’s largely unattainable, according to some anal expertise.
Porn actor Ty Mitchell is a self-described “pro bottom,” and his approach to getting camera-ready is two-pronged:
