Struggling Sandy HAUNTED by her ex!

‘SHE NEVER RECOVERED FROM HIS CHEATING’

Sandra Bullock’s leech of an ex-hubby, Jesse James, is back in the spotlight and cashing in on their failed marriage. Yep, the cheating grease and, to get some much-needed attention, he’s dishing serious dirt. In a promo for the show, Jesse, 50, throws himself a pity party, saying, “I started getting off on this Hollywood track with the famous wife and life – it just tore me away from my happiness and what I’m supposed to be doing. It’s like, you know what? I want peace.” Er, so does Sandy, mate! Friends say the actress – who is now smitten with 54-year-old Bryan Randall – is “fed up” with Jesse using what was the most devastating time in her life to promote some silly show about motorbikes. “I mean, she’s won a bloody Oscar! A bike show? Puhlease!” gripes a mate. “And what a disrespectful thing to say... acting like he was forced into marrying her. “He always wanted fame. He couldn’t get a ring on her finger fast enough, but he sure didn’t act like a married man or a father-to-be, did he? What a cad.” Indeed, Sandra, now 55, couldn’t have been happier in early 2010. She and her hubby of five years had just adopted newborn son Louis when she took home the Best Actress trophy for . However, within hours of her triumph, Jesse’s string of infidelities – including a long-term affair – exploded in the press. “The truth is Sandy never recovered from that,” explains the pal. “The only consolation she has is she found out who he really was before Louis really bonded with him. She’ll never marry again, though, no matter how many times Bryan asks.”