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Why In-Law Relationships Can Be So Challenging

Tough conversations provide opportunities for pain and conflict, but also for growth and healing, “Dear Therapist” writes.
Source: Bianca Bagnarelli

Editor’s Note: With Lori Gottlieb on book leave, Rebecca J. Rosen, the editor of “Dear Therapist,” is filling in as The Atlantic’s “Dear Therapist” archivist, pointing readers to some of Lori’s most beloved columns.

A marriage is the union not merely of two spouses but of two families—each with its own beliefs and ways of being in the world. The resulting’s “Dear Therapist” columnist, Lori Gottlieb, receives many, many letters about in-laws and the various challenges they can present.

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