Psychologies

“My online shopping habit is out of control”

Session one

“Spending gives me a quick fix for isolation and anxiety”

It took time and courage for Shanie to tell me why she wanted coaching. However, sometimes, there are clues from the outset. Shanie shut down the conversation that I initiated about my fees: ‘It’s no problem. I will pay up front,’ she said hurriedly. Her doorbell rang with deliveries several times during our session. I wondered whether Shanie’s relationship with money had anything to do with her asking for help.

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