BOYS & THEIR TOYS
It is rare to meet a gay guy without a fine sense of aesthetics or appreciation for the divine indulgence in owning special possessions. We seldom wish to share our favourite toys in new relationships where some level of trust must be established first. Our relationships are complex due to multiple factors including mainstream role playing that we unwittingly emulate as gay people due to that being our frame of reference since toddlerhood.
Money remains a primary source of conflict, possibly because so many gay men are so sensually focussed when seeking a mate and financial or social status rarely initially play much of a role to determine sensual partnership potential. In most serious traditional straight relationships, the evaluation of
