The experts
Help! I’m turned on by her past
Q I’m a man in my 50s and I’m very happily married. But recently during lovemaking, my wife called out another man’s name and afterwards she was embarrassed – she’d remembered the boy she lost her virginity to at college, many years ago. Thing is that now, I keep thinking about the two of them having sex together – and I keep getting turned on. It’s certainly brightened up our sex life! But isn’t it all a bit weird?
SUSAN SAYS
A Given your happy marriage and your clearly active sex
