Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-step Relationship-saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating
Written by Robert Weiss
Narrated by Timothy Andrés Pabon
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About this audiobook
Robert Weiss has spent over twenty years in the treatment of sex and intimacy issues. He's helped both cheating men and their betrayed spouses move through the horrors of infidelity. In Out of the Doghouse he shares his expertise, illuminating the ways in which men can move beyond their usual feeble efforts to smooth things over. Saying "I'm sorry" and trying to "buy forgiveness" with flowers and jewelry may temporarily calm the stormy seas of infidelity. However, these actions do nothing to re-establish intimacy and trust-the key components to help the distraught woman feel better about her relationship over the long-term and get over the cheating.
The simple truth is, men and women are very different when it comes to intimacy and relationships. While men are able to compartmentalize things like sexual infidelity, women typically view cheating as an affront to their entire relationship. They think, "If he is lying to me about sex, he's probably lying to me about everything." For betrayed women, trust just flat-out disintegrates. And without proper guidance, men have little hope of restoring it. Weiss provides exactly the needed guidance in Out of the Doghouse, helping men move past the usual infidelity roadblocks that result from cheating in ways that will not only save a damaged relationship, but restore intimacy to make it better than ever.
Robert Weiss
Robert Weiss, PhD, LCSW, is chief clinical officer of Seeking Integrity LLC, working with sex, porn, and substance/sex-addicted men. He is an expert in the treatment of adult intimacy disorders and related addictions. A clinical sexologist and practicing psychotherapist, he has created intimacy focused clinical treatment programs in the US, overseas, and for the US military. He serves as a subject matter expert for major media outlets including CNN, NPR, The New York Times, and Newsweek, among others. He is the author of ten books, including Prodependence, Sex Addiction 101, and Out of the Doghouse. His Psychology Today blog, “Love and Sex in the Digital Age,” has over 20 million readers to date, and his podcast, “Sex, Love, & Addiction,” has more than 600,000 downloads since its inception in 2019.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I loved it and hated it at the same time. As someone who has caused the betrayal I found it very helpful in pointing out areas I thought I was covering off on and failing. Which wasn’t the most pleasant time, but a much needed time. Now the road to recovery and healing.
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