Tell Me How to Be: A Novel
Written by Neel Patel
Narrated by Vikas Adam
4.5/5
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“Narrator Vikas Adam does an excellent job of balancing the angst- ridden Akash with the mourning Renu in this mother-and-son story of love and loss” – AudioFile Magazine
“A beautiful book about a mother and son…I really loved this book.”—Rumaan Alam on The TODAY Show
“My first great read of 2022…[Will] make you cringe with recognition and melt with longing.” —Jennifer Weiner
“This debut novel about an Indian-American family has all the right ingredients: family secrets, love, sexuality, loss, identity questions and remorse.” —Good Morning America
Renu Amin always seemed perfect. But as the one-year anniversary of her husband’s death approaches, she is binge-watching soap operas and simmering with old resentments. She can’t stop wondering if, thirty-five years ago, she chose the wrong life. In Los Angeles, her son, Akash, has everything he ever wanted, but he is haunted by the painful memories he fled a decade ago. When his mother tells him she is selling the family home, Akash returns to Illinois, hoping to finally say goodbye and move on.
Together, Renu and Akash pack up the house, retreating further into the secrets that stand between them. Renu sends an innocent Facebook message to the man she almost married, sparking an emotional affair that calls into question everything she thought she knew about herself. Akash slips back into bad habits as he confronts his darkest secrets—including what really happened between him and the first boy who broke his heart. When their pasts catch up to them, Renu and Akash must decide between the lives they left behind and the ones they’ve since created, between making each other happy and setting themselves free.
By turns irreverent and tender, filled with the beats of ’90s R&B, Tell Me How to Be is about our earliest betrayals and the cost of reconciliation. But most of all, it is the love story of a mother and son each trying to figure out how to be in the world.
A Macmillan Audio production from Flatiron Books
Editor's Note
Stunning debut…
Patel shows his incredible talent of making readers laugh and then cry in his story of one Indian American family and their long-held secrets. In this stunning debut, you can’t help but fall in love with the relationship between Patel’s 28-year-old protagonist struggling with his music career (and sexuality) and his widowed mother coming to terms with her true feelings about her arranged marriage.
Neel Patel
Neel Patel is a first-generation Indian American who grew up in Champaign, Illinois. His debut story collection, If You See Me, Don't Say Hi, was a New York Times Book Review Editor’s Choice and was long-listed for the Story Prize and the Aspen Words Literary Prize. He currently lives in Los Angeles. Tell Me How to Be is his debut novel.
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Readers find this title to be a superbly narrated, exquisitely written and heartbreaking story. The humor and honesty between the main characters are interwoven beautifully. The gripping plot makes it hard to stop listening, and many readers consider it their favorite of the year. The book resonates deeply and is expertly written with perfectly paced storytelling. The characters are well-developed, and even though they make decisions that may be disliked, readers continue to root for them. The story explores the challenges of growing up Indian and gay, and the strict rules and regulations that come with it. Overall, this book is highly recommended and praised for its amazing narration."
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great story about growing up Indian and gay witb their strict rules and regulations
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Can hardly stop listening, such a gripping story. This book is likely this year's favorite.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Superb narration- exquisite prose- heartbreaking story
Humor and honesty interwoven between the two main characters. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Instantly an all-time favorite. I’m floored by the book’s resonance. Expertly written and perfectly paced. Every character, including the sassy sidekick, is fleshed out. Everyone makes decisions that make me hate them, but I never stop rooting for them. Nothing is resolved easy, but it’s all satisfying and beautiful. I’ll be singing this book’s praises all year. Also, the narration is amazing. I’ll be buying a hard copy to mark it up, but the audiobook is a great route. Can’t recommend enough.