Better Than Good: Creating a Life You Can't Wait to Live
By Zig Ziglar
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The Ultimate Challenge: To Be Better Than Good
He has spent his life helping other people to realize their dreams and experience maximum success. Now comes Zig Ziglar's high-impact work that calls you to the passion, purpose, and practical tools that can ignite the peak performance you long for.
In the real-life stories Zig shares, drawn from nearly fifty years as a world-class motivatinal author, speaker, and businessman, you'll discover how others have risen above fear and failure to embrace the quality of life they were meant to have. Their experiences will teach you how to accomplish more than you ever dreamed possible, even as you learn:
- the three pillars of the Better Than Good life
- new discoveries that will motivate you for life
- how to develop a strategic plan that accomplishes your goals
- what often keeps good people from reaching the ultimate level of productivity and happiness
- ways to form better-than-good habits that can take you to new horizons of success . . . and much, much more!
Let the master of motivatin help you clear your mind of failure-prone thinking, as together with Zig Ziglar, you redefine success and take hold of your dreams. Let him inspire you to be Better Than Good!
Zig Ziglar
Zig Ziglar was one of the most sought-after motivational speakers in the United States, and his messages offer humor, hope and enthusiasm for audiences around the world. Many of the books he authored have become worldwide bestsellers.
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Better Than Good - Zig Ziglar
You _____________________________ are about to create the life you can’t wait to live, and that will make you Better Than Good!
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I dedicate this book to my beloved son,
John Thomas Ziglar,
the president and CEO of Ziglar Training Systems.
Of him I am immensely proud.
Contents
Introduction
Part I: The Passion of the Better Than Good
Life
1. A Passionate Journey
2. Inspiration: The Fuel of Passion
3. Stress: The Enemy of Passion
4. Watch What You Think
5. Perception and Attitude
Part II: The Peak Performance of the Better Than Good
Life
6. Develop a Passionate Plan
7. Setting Goals
8. Failure: Life’s Refining Process
9. Better Than Good
Habits
10. The Power of Grit
11. Redefining Success
Part III: The Purpose of the Better Than Good
Life
12. What Is the Purpose of Life?
13. Discover Your Calling
14. People and Purpose
15. Change Somebody’s World One Act at a Time
16. Let Love Be Your Guide
Epilogue: The Promise of a Better Than Good
Life
The Better Than Good
Life
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Introduction
Not being one to shy away from introductions, let me tell you who I am and what you’re going to discover in Better Than Good.
My parents named me Hilary Hinton Ziglar back in 1926 when I was born in Alabama, but ever since grade school my friends—and I hope that includes you—have called me Zig. For decades I’ve been traveling around the world speaking to audiences about getting the best out of life by putting your best into life. Whether in business, personal, family, or community settings, I’ve told millions of people that they can have everything in life they want if they will just help enough other people get what they want.
After seventy-nine years of living, twenty-plus books on motivational subjects, and countless speeches and seminars on living the abundant and fruitful life, I have more than ever to say. I feel like I’m just getting started! And that’s why I’ve written Better Than Good—I’ve got some things to share with you that I believe will motivate you the same way they have motivated me. I’ve connected some dots between subjects I’ve addressed over the years that are creating new levels of motivation for me. And I want you to connect those same dots in your life.
I can’t remember exactly when I said, Better’n good!
the first time, but it was a long time ago. Being raised in the south and then living in Texas, I’ve participated in exchanges like this thou-sands of times:
Hey, Zig! How ya doing?
Good, good. How ’bout you?
Recognize those words? Nothing wrong with them, of course. They’re just the colloquial way friends greet each other everywhere.
But at some point it dawned on me that good
was not an apt description of how I was doing—or how any of us ought to be doing. If we’re going to live life to the fullest, we ought to be doing better than good.
So that’s why when people say to me, Hey, Zig! How ya doing?
I respond: I’m doing better’n good!
The response has been amazing. People literally stop in their tracks to remark on my greeting. Some thank me for giving them a needed lift; others make my greeting their own. The power of words should never be underestimated. When you say, I’m doing ‘better than good’,
that’s a first person, present tense, positive affirmation of who you are and where you are. Just saying you are doing better than good
won’t make it so. But when you understand what it takes to live the better than good
life and apply yourself, your life will truly be better than good.
There are three pillars to the better than good
life: passion, peak performance, and purpose. I don’t think anyone can stay motivated for very long in life without understanding all three of these concepts. And I don’t think anyone will live a better than good
life if he or she is not motivated to do so.
In essence, that brings me to the thesis of this book: the better than good
life is experienced by living with genuine passion, striving for peak performance, and fulfilling one’s God-given purpose. And I don’t mind telling you up front: my goal is to motivate you to want to live that kind of life!
Here’s how we’re going to connect the dots between passion, peak performance, and purpose. I don’t care what the field of endeavor is—sports, business, science, medicine, education, ministry, public service—I don’t believe anyone will perform at his or her peak without passion. Life’s too tough to get to the top without passion. You’re going to fail, be taken advantage of, be disappointed by people you trust, disappoint yourself, run out of resources—almost every day you’re going to encounter a good, solid, logical reason why you ought to give up. And without passion, you just might. That’s why passion is the prerequisite for peak performance.
Peak performance is dependent on passion, grit, determination, and a willingness to do something poorly until you can do it well. True peak performance is influenced by the condition of your physical, spiritual, business, and family life. I address each of these areas in depth.
The third part of the equation—purpose—is something I have come to believe is a key to the whole dynamic of motivation and the better than good
life. For years I’ve recognized that it’s hard for a lot of people to be passionate about what they’re doing because they don’t like what they’re doing! And it’s hard to argue with that reality. There are lots of people who would rather be doing something different with their lives. When asked this question, If obstacles were not an issue, what would you like to be doing with your life?
many people (most people?) don’t say, I’m doing what I know I was put on this earth to do. I wouldn’t want to do anything else.
I admit that’s a problem not easily solved. Because of family and financial obligations, it can be difficult to change course and start doing what you would rather do. Difficult . . . but not impossible. I believe if you truly have a passion for something—and if you believe it’s your God-given purpose in life—you can do it.
And that’s where we get to the discussion of purpose—what it is, how we find it, and the difference knowing one’s purpose can make.
So when you arrive at Part III of this book—The purpose of the Better Than Good
Life—we’re going to talk about some-thing that not a lot of motivational speakers talk about. And I include myself in that list—for the early part of my career, but no longer. I know what affirming my own purpose in life has done for me in recent years. It’s why I said earlier that I feel like I’m just getting started! There are large parts of my life’s purpose yet to be achieved. As a result, I’ve never been more motivated! And I want you to be motivated as well—to live with passion and achieve true peak performance in that which you are convinced is your purpose in life.
I’ve met people all through my life who had passion of a sort. But because their passion wasn’t fueled by purpose, it would come and go in bits and pieces. They were trying to generate their passion out of their own energy day after day, something that’s ultimately unsustainable. Scientists have yet to invent the world’s first perpetual-motion machine—everything runs down or runs out of gas eventually, including human beings trying to maximize their peak performance day after day.
If you had asked me in 1971 what my purpose was in life, I would probably have tried to say something impressive. But you couldn’t have looked at my life and seen a lot of purpose—or at least not the kind of purpose I talk about in this book. Truth be told, my career was going nowhere; my finances were a mess (translation: I was broke!).
But all that changed beginning in 1972. That’s when I discovered what it means to grasp true passion in life—passion that fuels peak performance and leads to purpose for a lifetime.
What happened? Simply, yet profoundly, this: I had an experience that ignited passion in me and convinced me I was uniquely created for a special purpose. (If we were talking together personally, you’d probably say at this point, Tell me what happened, Zig!
You can read more about my experience in the epilogue to this book.) Suffice it to say that Better Than Good is my best effort at bringing together who I am and what I’ve learned over the last thirty-plus years about living a life that is better than good.
I’ve made this book as practical as I can. I’m going to give you ideas along the way that have worked for me (and for thousands of other people) through the years. Things like this: use an electronic notepad or buy yourself a pack of 3 x 5 cards and keep them handy while you’re reading this book. When you read some-thing that speaks to you—an idea, a thought, a plan, a value, a reason, a correction—jot it down. Then carry those cards with you wherever you go. When you have the opportunity—stuck in traffic, on hold on the phone, waiting in a doctor’s office, before going to sleep at night—review your notes. Try this for the next thirty days. Change takes time and constant repetition. Feeding your mind new ideas for at least a month is like practicing scales on the piano—you’re teaching your mind and body how to do things they’ve never done before. In time, you’ll do them naturally. But until then, stay motivated with your 3 x 5 cards or electronic notepad.
I’m convinced that Better Than Good can help motivate you to connect the dots in life, little by little. The end result will be a picture of beauty, purpose, and fulfillment.
My prayer is that you will discover God’s true purpose for your life—a purpose that ignites passion and peak performance. Whether you discover that purpose for the first time through this book, or have that sense of purpose renewed, I believe this book will help you create a life you can’t wait to live—a life that is better than good!
PART I : THE PASSION OF THE BETTER THAN GOOD
LIFE
1 A Passionate Journey
Experience shows that success is due less to ability than to zeal. The winner is he who gives himself to his work body and soul.
CHARLES BUXTON
Blind zeal is soon put to a shameful retreat, while holy resolution, built on fast principles, lifts up its head like a rock in the midst of the waves.
WILLIAM GURNALL
The core problem is not that we are too passionate about bad things, but that we are not passionate enough about good things.
LARRY CRABB
Passion, for all its dangers, needs uncaging if we are to move towards completeness as human beings.
PHILIP SHELDRAKE
Men spend their lives in the service of their passions instead of employing their passions in the service of their life.
SIR RICHARD STEELE
Passion is underrated and underrewarded. When a student with an average IQ performs magnificent feats in the academic world, give passion the credit. When you see an athlete with only average ability accomplish herculean tasks, give passion the credit. When you see a parent provide for his or her children despite physical or educational handicaps and roadblocks—obstacles that would stop an ordinary person in his or her tracks—give passion the credit.
American independence was won because of the passion of our founding fathers. Every religious revival has had passion as its source. The American civil rights movement was fueled by the passion of Martin Luther King Jr. and other civil rights leaders. Passion deserves far more credit than the records of history provide.
I believe passion plays a significant part in all great accomplishments. Who—and Whose—you are will determine whether your passion is noble and generous or selfish and self-serving. Finding and developing passion is a journey, not an event. There is a process you must follow; some find it early, while some discover it much later. A noble passion, when found and developed, produces great joy and personal rewards and offers huge benefits to society as well.
I am going to tell you the stories of two passionate people who came from very limiting backgrounds—people whom, had you and I looked at their circumstances, we might have passed over as incapable of peak performance and success. But we would have been wrong. The passion they developed in their particular fields of expertise illustrates the point that passion is cultivated and developed over time for most people. Reading their stories will encourage you to believe that passion is lurking in you just waiting to be released and give you examples of how to set it free.
A Dream That Wouldn’t Die
Different things motivate different people, but inspiration is critical if we are going to discover what we are passionate about. Author Debbie Macomber’s inspiration came from an unusual source: the death of a much-loved cousin who succumbed to leukemia. They had been especially close for many years, and David’s death had a profound impact on Debbie. After the funeral she said, It seemed as if God was saying to me that I could no longer push my dreams into the future, which I had done for years with a long list of excuses and justifications. I was one of those people who was going to do it when . . .
David’s death showed her that later doesn’t always come, that today is the time to pursue one’s dreams.
Though she didn’t realize it at the time, a defining moment had occurred before David’s death when she went to see him at the cancer center where he was receiving treatment. As a dyslexic, she had difficulty reading the directional signs and finding her way into the hospital. After wandering around in frustration for a while, she stopped a doctor and asked him for directions. His answer changed her life. He said, Go all the way down this corridor and take the first right. Then walk through the doors marked ‘Absolutely No Admittance.’
Debbie says now that she has spent the rest of her life walking through closed doors—because she discovered that day that she could.
High school had not been easy for Debbie and she was unable to secure a scholarship for college. So she did what many young women did in the 1960s—she married and had four children in the next five years. As a stay-at-home mom she dreamed of one day writing books but never thought it would be possible. Today she is convinced she would have continued to do nothing more than dream had it not been for the death of her cousin. She talked it over with her husband and he agreed she should give writing a shot. So she rented a typewriter and put it on the kitchen table, moving it at mealtimes.
In telling her story today, Debbie emphasizes the fact that she has no background that qualifies her as a writer. Her parents were children of immigrants; her father never finished high school and was a POW during World War II. To this day she identifies herself as a creative speller
and affirms she has no credentials as a writer other than the dream she believes God planted in her heart. She believes dreams come from Him and that the only way we have a prayer of them ever being fulfilled is if we turn to Him in faith and belief.
While the kids were off at school during the day, Supermom turned into a struggling young writer. Rejections came so fast,
she said, I [felt] that sometimes they’d hit me in the back of the head on the way back from mailing off another proposal at the post office.
Her list of rejections was impressive, but after five long years she finally got her first book published.
Debbie heard me speak at the Tacoma Dome in 1990. She said my talk blew her away and had a significant impact on her. She realized she had only reached the tip of the iceberg when it came to becoming a successful author. At that time, her books were in the stores for a few short weeks after releasing, and she would joke that they had the shelf life of cottage cheese. Print runs were limited, and there was no possibility she would make any of the recognized best-seller lists.
Debbie Macomber refused to follow the popular trend of writing about immorality and sex in her novels, saying she didn’t want her books to dishonor the standards of the Bible. Each of my stories was what was characterized as a traditional or sweet romance,
she said. After hearing you, Zig, I realized that all things are possible. You made a believer out of me.
At that seminar Debbie bought nearly all of the books and tapes I had for sale—about eight hundred dollars’ worth. She and her husband listened to all the tapes and studied the books. She has told me that she thinks God guided her to the seminar that day to give her the inspiration and encouragement to believe she could pursue her passion of writing—and be successful.
Are you ready for this? Today Debbie has seventy million books in print worldwide and her royalties have risen many times over since she first started listening to those tapes. Her books have been on every major bestseller list, including the New York Times hardcover and mass-market paperback lists. People often comment that they appreciate my clean style—they aren’t afraid to pass my books along to their grandmother or their children,
she says.
Debbie still listens to the tapes she bought in 1990, and when I’m in town she comes to hear me. Not long ago she took The Redhead (that’s what I affectionately call my wife, Jean, when I’m talking about her—I call her Sugar Baby when I’m talking to her) and me to dinner. She says God has given her a means of imparting positive words and messages to her readers through the power of stories. I believe her assessment: God has given
is the foundation of the passion for what she does. Once she took her eyes off making those all-important sales figures and focused on her message, the one she believed God gave her, she started achieving the success she had been seeking.
Debbie considers attending our Advanced Training Program to be the most important thing she did along her journey to success. She knew the course was demanding, fun, and thought provoking and offered twenty-four weeks of follow-up. However, as much as it appealed to her, her life was too busy. She fought the battle of balance as many people do, and trying to fit in one more thing seemed counterproductive. But she did it anyway and found a means for creating the balance that had eluded her.
Today she has precious grandchildren and structures her time to be with them. Her entire family traditionally spends the Fourth of July together. They’ve even taken an Alaskan