Becoming "Mom": My Fight Against Infertility
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I have PCOS and it was a long hard struggle for me to conceive. This book tells the story of my journey and how infertility changed my marital relationships (I have two ex husbands) and how it changed my relationship with God.
I saw many doctors before finally finding the specialist who would help me conceive within three months of treatment.
I had doctors who refused to treat me because I was overweight (a common issue in those afflicted with PCOS).
This book includes a few tips to help people who are struggling with infertility.
Having a baby with fertility treatments is a blessing and a miracle. But, it can be a long and painful road with stumbling blocks that seem insurmountable along the way.
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Becoming "Mom" - Bianca Clovis
Becoming Mom
: My Fight Against Infertility
By Bianca Clovis
Smashwords Edition
Copyright 2013 BZ Publishing
No part of this book may be reproduced without the copyright holders consent
This book is based on events as remembered by the writer. Names have been omitted, changed, abbreviated, or nicknames have been used to protect the privacy of those involved as well as of my children. Minor details have been changed to protect the privacy of those involved. This book is only as accurate as the authors memories of the events and others involved may have different recollections.
Chapter 1
I was eleven when I got my period. I was at the mall when it happened. I had just finished lunch in the food court and I had gone into the bathroom. When I pulled down my underwear there was a spot of blood the size of a quarter.
I had older friends so I knew what a period was. I was glad mine had come so early. It made me feel grown up.
The only bad thing about getting my period was that my mom was on a trip for work and I didn’t have anyone to show me how to use a sanitary pad. At least, that was what I thought was the worst of it at the time.
Ten days later I was still bleeding. Not quarter sized droplets but blood that flowed over the edges of my pad and soiled my clothes.
My mom, who was finally home from her trip, called the doctor.
It’s common for girls to have irregular periods at first,
Dr. Z told my mom. Have her keep track of the days she bleeds and if the flow is heavy or light. In a few cycles we will probably see them normalizing.
Eleven was the bloodiest year of my life. I would bleed for four or five weeks. Then, I would have a five day respite before the bleeding began again. After a year it still hadn’t normalized as my doctor had hoped.
We will put her on birth control pills for a few years. It will teach her body what it is supposed to do,
Dr. Z said.
At twelve years old I started taking a little white pill every night before bed so that my body could see how periods were supposed to be. I didn’t really think much about it at the time. I believed my doctor knew what to do and that it must have been a common problem. I was sure the pills would fix it. Once I was off of the birth control pills my periods would be like everyone else’s. I would bleed for a week like my friends. I would then not have to worry about my period for another month.
Of course, that was just the beginning. The first hint that my reproductive system was flawed.
I remained on birth control pills until I got married.
I married my high school sweetheart. We were both eighteen at the time.
I had met Slim at school my junior year. He was a senior. He was tall and rail thin.