The Passion Plan: A Woman's Guide

By Lisa Hayes

There are so many women living in dissatisfaction in their romantic (or not so romantic) relationships. The challenge appears to be that it’s “tolerable.” It isn’t that bad. So, even though the relationship doesn’t have the juice it once did, lots of women don’t do anything. Maybe they don’t do anything because it’s not painful enough. Or maybe it’s because they don’t know what to do. If you’re settling for a less-than-juicy relationship, you aren’t alone.

It’s a quiet epidemic our society. Relationships flatline and no one addresses it. Over time—months, years, decades—some end in separation or divorce, and others continue on for years as ice cold, empty marriages between former lovers.

This book is written for women who want to improve their relationship with their man. This material is not a couples’ process. It’s not about including your man in the rehab of your passion. It’s about being willing to get in there on your own and patiently allowing him to get on board or not as he sees fit. This does not require his participation on any level; however, these processes usually inspire his cooperation.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lisa Hayes
• Release date: Jun 25, 2011
• ISBN: 9781466091603

Lisa Hayes

Lisa Hayes C.Ht. is the author of the book, How to Escape from Relationship Hell. She is also the host of The Relationship RX Show. For more information and resources about marriage and relationships visit www.escapefromrelationshiphell.com or subscribe to her FREE newsletter Relationship RX.

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Foreward

By the time I got to the second page of this book, I knew I was reading a winner. By the time I was through the 4th page I knew that ANYONE who read these words with an open mind and an open heart would probably never look at relationships the same way again. Relationships, especially romantic, seem like the most important experience in our lives, and I understand that because I know my relationship is especially important to me. Yet, at the same time to really work on our relationship vibration, to really transform the way we look at our love life, our partner(s), our husband or wife we have to do something different. Something that we may have never done before. Truth is we have an inner relationship to our relationships! Its a pattern that may have been there for decades, since we were little children our understanding of relationships, our belief system around relationships and our whole relationship paradigm was formed. What we may have never done with our relationships before is learn how to look at them somewhat dispassionately while we focus on healing ourselves. I know at first that may sound somewhat counter-intuitive, especially considering the title of the book!, however, I assure you it is not. It is not something we need to do forever, yet, it can give us that space to heal, that time to just ‘be’, so our emotional state can find homeostasis and we can re-charge by using the ancient techniques that Lisa discusses in this book. Then our Pure Passion can emerge as a Phoniex from the fire and ashes, clean and liberated from all the negative emotional states we have been carrying around with us for years.

The information in this book if actually practiced on a daily, weekly, monthly and annual basis will completely transform your current love relationship and if you stay consistent it will actually heal your past relationships as well. We often think of our past as this person, that time, etc. however it is all One. We are the summation of all that has happened to us and all that we have attracted into all our lives. Therefore when you resent someone, your lover, in the present you are bringing, unknowingly, past resentments forward into the present moment. This clouds our judgment, blocks our hearts and hinders us from being the beautiful, vulnerable, trusting, patient, conscious beings that we all are at the core. Lisa Hayes has been studying this information before I truly fell in love for the first time, well over 20 years ago. She has made it one of her life’s missions to help women(and men) understand the truths about our hearts, our lives and our relationships and how they all work together to create what we see. In this short but deep piece she has highlighted so many of the important factors into attracting into our lives The Journey to Wholeness. We do this by releasing the past, letting go of the pain, forgiving deeply and artfully so we can begin living in the present moment, awake, and ready to experience all the love, light and beauty that is raining down on us constantly if we have the eyes to see, the ears to hear and the heart to receive this divine abundance. Fact is, men and women think, feel and live differently. Therefore, we often go into life with certain ideas that the opposite sex does not have, bringing our stories, fears, pain, damaged and un-trusting hearts with us and what do we get? More often than not, pain. The passion, contentment, joy, and serenity