Jesus Lord of Your Personality: Four Powerful Principles for Change
By Bob Russell and Rusty Russell
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In this profound book, Russell and his son, Rusty, deliver answers to four problem areas of our personalities that keep us from becoming what God wants us to be. Using biblical studies, contemporary illustrations, and practical teaching, this book allows us to feel grateful, from being filled with worry to being filled with peace, from bitterness to forgiveness and from depression to joy. The material in this book is perfect for small groups, Sunday school classes, or a motivational sermon series. Whether you are a student, teacher, professional, or parent, you will find this book life changing and richly rewarding.
Bob Russell
God has blessed Bob Russell with a life much different than one he could have ever imagined. As a young man growing up in northern Pennsylvania, Bob had intended on becoming a high school basketball coach in his hometown. During his senior year of high school, however, Bob realized a desire in his heart to enter the ministry. Soon thereafter, he enrolled in Cincinnati Bible Seminary where he graduated in 1965. At just twenty-two years of age, Bob became the pastor of Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, Kentucky. Today that small congregation of 120 members has become one of the largest churches in America, with 18,000 people attending the four worship services every weekend. Bob and his wife Judy have been married for forty years. They have two married sons who live in Louisville and are active at Southeast, and six grandchildren with whom they enjoy spending their time. An accomplished author, Bob has written over one-dozen books. He also has a weekly column in The Lookout, a magazine printed by Standard Publishing. A highly respected speaker, Bob is heard weekly on the Living Word, a nationally syndicated radio program. In his leisure time he enjoys playing golf and is an avid University of Louisville basketball fan. Bob Russell's gift of humor and insight, along with his unyielding commitment to honesty and integrity, will inspire the hearts of those who listen to consider Biblical truths as they relate to life in contemporary culture.
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Jesus Lord of Your Personality - Bob Russell
Jesus
LORD OF YOUR Personality
Four Powerful
Principles for Change
BOB RUSSELL
with Rusty Russell
HOEARD PUBLISHED CO
Our purpose at Howard Publishing is to:
Increase faith in the hearts of growing Christians
Inspire holiness in the lives of believers
Instill hope in the hearts of struggling people everywhere
Because He’s coming again!
Jesus, Lord of Your Personality
© 2002 by Bob Russell with Rusty Russell
All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America
Published by Howard Publishing Co., Inc.
3117 North 7th Street, West Monroe, Louisiana 71291-2227
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Edited by Dawn M. Brandon
Interior design by John Luke
Cover design by LinDee Loveland
No part of this publication may be reproduced in any form without the prior written permission of the publisher except in the case of brief quotations within critical articles and reviews.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Russell, Bob, 1943-
Jesus, Lord of your personality : four powerful principles for change / Bob Russell with Rusty Russell.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN: 1-58229-252-3
ISBN 978-1-451-60497-9
1. Christian life. 2. Gratitude. I. Russell, Rusty, 1967- II. Title.
BV4501.3 .R87 2002
248.4—dc21 2002024273
Italics in scriptures were added by the author for emphasis. Scripture quotations not otherwise marked are taken from the HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. Other scriptures are quoted from The Holy Bible, Authorized King James Version (KJV), © 1961 by The National Publishing Co.; The Living Bible (TLB), © 1971 by Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.; The Message (MSG), © 1994 by Eugene H. Peterson, NavPress. All rights reserved.
DEDICATION
To my wife, Judy, who has always
been a joy to live with!
contents
acknowledgments
introduction
chapter 1. FROM griping TO grateful
chapter 2. FROM worry TO peace
chapter 3. FROM bitterness TO forgiveness
chapter 4. FROM depression TO joy
notes
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
Rusty and I have been blessed with a great support staff, Debbie Carper and Barbara Dabney, which is why we are able to preach and write and keep our sanity. Several preachers contributed illustrations for this book, including Dave Stone and Dave Kennedy on our staff and Mark Jones at First Christian Church in Columbus, Indiana. Our interns Brian Heckber and Herbie Miller worked hard to track down the details of quotes and stories in an effort to do all things with excellence.
We feel honored to be producing our second book with Howard Publishing. It is a joy to work with Denny and Philis Boultinghouse. We look forward to doing another book with Howard, especially if they’ll hire Dawn Brandon again to be our editor! She did a superb job.
Whenever we agree to write a book, our family members know they will be asked to make certain concessions and sacrifices. We both are grateful for our very supportive wives, Judy and Kellie, and for the rest of our family members whom we love so much—Phil, Lisa, Corrie, Charlie, Tommy, and Kimberly. We hope we can model the heart and personality of Christ for each of you. Thanks for loving us even though you know our personalities are still in need of some transformation!
INTRODUCTION
Years ago I walked into the house as the phone was ringing. I rushed to answer it, but just as I picked up the receiver the answering machine came on. I shouted, Hello!
over the greeting and heard my wife’s voice on the other end of the line. Hold on!
I said, and we both waited until the recorded message ended before we started our conversation.
You need to understand my wife, Judy. She has a very steady personality. She’s kind of like Jesus; she’s the same yesterday, today and forever
! There aren’t many ups and downs to her attitude. She doesn’t get enthusiastic about many things, but she seldom goes into depression either. She is consistently joyful, upbeat, and pleasant to be around. She’s extremely easy to live with. And her voice on the phone always has a cheery tone to it.
My personality tends to fluctuate much more often. I can be jubilant one moment and dejected the next. I can be gentle, upbeat, and positive with strangers, but at home I can be boring, anxious, and even morose.
After a brief discussion, we hung up the phone. I didn’t realize the recorder had taped the conversation in its entirety. Several hours later, I noticed there was a message on the answering machine and pushed the replay button. I couldn’t get over the contrast between my wife’s tone and mine. I sounded so glum! So boring!
Judy said a cheery Hello!
and asked, Is everything OK?
Yeah,
I mumbled.
We got delayed at work, and I just wanted you to know I’m going to be a little late,
she said with a lilt.
OK,
I grunted.
Did you have a good day?
she asked, obviously trying to see if there was a quiver of life in me.
Fine,
I mumbled.
Well, I’ll be there in a few minutes!
All right,
I grunted.
When I heard the tone of my voice and my lack of enthusiasm, I couldn’t believe it. I felt terrible! Do I really sound like that? Am I that unenthusiastic all the time? Is my personality that morose and gloomy? What’s it like to have to live with me every day?
I then recalled a chapter in Bruce Larson’s book Dare to Live Now titled Are You Fun to Live With?
I realized at that moment that I wasn’t much fun to be around at times. Even though I’m a Christian and I love the Lord, and even though I love my family, that love seldom is reflected in the way I respond to the people closest to me.
I determined that day to improve my at home
personality. I asked Jesus Christ to become the Lord of my personality. There was no gross sin in my life that needed to be eliminated, but my personality needed an overhaul. Over the years the Lord has slowly helped change my personality at home. I laugh more and am less uptight. I am more focused and less preoccupied. I don’t pout as much, and I’m quicker to tease and have fun.
As a result, my public persona is much more relaxed and genuine. I still have a long way to go, but I’m improving. There’s an old song that says, I’m not what I ought to be, I’m not what I’m going to be, but thank God I’m not what I used to be!
When my son Rusty was in elementary school, he was given a creative writing assignment—he had to complete the sentence I love it when…
He wrote, I love it when my dad laughs.
I was delighted! I want our home to be a place of laughter and joy, not a place of complaining, worrying, moodiness, and bitterness. And I know that whether we successfully create that positive mood in our home depends a lot on my attitude.
What is it like to live with you? Is your personality full of joy, peace, and contentment? Or are you a bear to live with? Do people tiptoe on eggshells around you, hoping not to upset you?
The Bible promises, Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
(2 Corinthians 5:17). Jesus Christ wants to make you a new creature from the inside out. He wants to do more than prevent you from getting drunk, having an affair, or robbing a bank. Jesus wants to be Lord of your personality. He wants to change your attitude. He wants to develop a mature personality in you. He wants to make you pleasant to live with. He wants your personality to be contagious to unbelievers. When you begin to radiate the abundant life in Christ, you are able to make Christ more attractive to your children and to those you meet in the marketplace.
Southwest Airlines has a slogan: We Hire Attitudes.
They describe an attitude as listening, caring, smiling, and saying ‘thank you.’
Wouldn’t you like to be that kind of person—the kind of person people want to be around, whom people want to hire in successful organizations? You might say, I don’t have the energy. I don’t have it in me to be that kind of person. I’m not wired like that.
Well, you’re probably right. But Jesus Christ can transform your personality.
David wrote in Psalm 30, You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, that my heart may sing to you and not be silent. O LORD my God, I will give you thanks forever
(vv. 11-12). Jesus Christ wants to turn your wailing into dancing. But he won’t do it the way you might think. He isn’t going to give you more of this world’s things. In fact, that could be counterproductive. A lot of people