Explore your Hidden Talents: Over 40 self analysis module to help you bring out your hidden potential and excel in career.
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With the dawn of the new millennium, the average workplace is becoming more challenging than ever. A better insight into the dynamics of achieving success in one’s job and business is the need of the hour. Success when viewed with a positive mental attitude, is a process.It is a journey - not the destination. Explore your own road to success by analyzing, ecognizing, visualizing and mobilizing processes. Success is the process of managing your greatest asset - You. This impressive Self Improvement book authored by Dr. Aparna Chattopadhyay gives you new ways of energising your hidden qualities, potentials and possibilities of success in your business and career arenas to: *Harness creativity & enthusiasm to work more productively and successfully. *Identify your leadership strengths. * Develop skills of management. *Fix up your priorities. *Balance work and leisure. *Control your worries and energize your life. *Dream your way to reality. *Pack the power of positive thinking into your work life. *Harmonize your conflicts at work. *Learn the psycho-tricks of the trade. *Revitalize and sterilize your attitude against all odds. *Become a team player and strengthen cooperation among associates. *Say Hello to success.
Dr. Aparna Chattopadhyay
Dr. Aparna Chattopadhyay is a Professor in the Indian Agricultural Research Institute, New Delhi. After securing a doctorate degree in Psychology from Delhi University, she began her career with NCERT, Delhi, as a researcher and later devoted herself to analysing the psychology of farmers, youth and women. Apart from conducting research and extensive work in psychological issues, she teaches psychology and guides post-graduate students. The author is also a columnist for the Hindustan Timessince the past five years. A prolific writer, she has contributed several features and articles in leading national newspapers and magazines. Her sensitivity to human emotions inspired her to author What’s Your Emotional IQ? and Unleash Your Hidden Potential, both published by V&S Publishers. She has also written a novel and a book of poems in Urdu.
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Explore your Hidden Talents - Dr. Aparna Chattopadhyay
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Are You A Change Leader?
Interestingly, the only thing that is constant and that we can depend on is the inevitable occurrence of change. Consequently, dramatic economic and technological changes taking place in our organizations during the past few decades have resulted in causing a real challenge for the HRD professionals. It has necessitated not only finding and hiring employees who have basic business skills, but also ongoing job training for managers and employees. New technologies require job re-training and motivational training. Consequently organizations have to spend huge amounts on training. Mc Elwain (1991) suggests that as much as fifty million of the workers currently employed in the US are in need of additional training to develop them on personal and professional levels and to enhance their attitude to work. As a result, many organizations are dedicating larger percentages of their budgets to personnel procurement and development for selecting and training employees to deal with the complexities of the changing technological scenario of today.
Change is inevitable and impermanent. It is inherently neither good nor bad. Most people perceive change as disruptive and to be avoided whenever possible. The key is to recognize that change is neutral, i.e., it occurs, and that it is perceived as good or bad depending on the conditions.
To manage change successfully one must stay flexible and be able to respond to what is going on. The more the change is described as what is presently happening—rather than what should be happening or what might happen next—the easier it will be to work with people in facilitating the change. The change leader’s most important function is helping people to understand that they have the skills needed to implement positive change and are already using them effectively in their lives both at work and at home.
Every changed leader has a unique and distinct style from autocratic, participative and supportive to laissez- faire types. These styles of change leadership are intended to manage change.
Answering the following quiz shall enable you to determine the extent to which you are a change leader. Answer the queries with a True or False answer in case you agree or disagree with them:
Change is best facilitated by developing ownership in the change process.
Change leadership involves helping people to make better choices in light of current realities and then assisting them in taking full responsibility for making these choices happen.
Power is the ability to get what you want, resistance is the ability to avoid what you do not want. Resistance is thus a subset of power, not of change.
People can best work with resistance to change from others by first understanding and accepting their own.
Resistance to change is best dealt with by honouring it, rather than suppressing, avoiding, or minimizing it.
People do not resist change; they resist pain or the threat of it.
In order to bring about change, the change leader should make demand and the group is expected to respond without any negotiations.
A change leader should himself be involved with the change and negotiate the change with the group.
The change leader should not be directly involved in making the change happen. He should focus on how the group is working and make sure that everyone has a chance to speak his views and that the conflict issues are handled together reasonably.
The change leader should create the change and/or implement and then disengage himself from the group.
The vision of change leaders’ employees must precede that of their organization.
It is imperative that before hoping to change one’s employees the change leader must change himself frst.
Scoring
Assign one mark for every ‘True’ response.
Interpretation
9-12: You are an excellent change leader who follows a productive change process and understands the dynamics of organizational change and its phases and intricacies. You are apt at presenting the change as well as working with the resistance productively.
5-8: You are a fairly balanced change leader and tackle the change situations quite smoothly in your organization.
1-4: You seem to lack an understanding of the basics of change dynamics. You must remember that the role of the change leader is to provide a process that will facilitate a specific change easily and effectively with minimum disruption and maximum support from the group. You can even initiate or implement change through a group member and not necessarily by yourself. You need to be more pro-active. If changes are planned and implemented effectively and if they are supported by appropriate training, the results may be measured in terms of greater productivity, higher morale, increased quality and reduced costs.
Are You A Good Manager?
Human resource development and people empowerment have gained increased attention in the recent years and are considered vital for the success of any organisation. Most often environmental conditions and conditions of work contribute to the empowerment or disempowerment as well as loss of skill and motivation of employees. Managers of organizations have thus to devote undivided attention to develop appropriate conditions at their workplace for energising as well as empowering their employees.
Relevant research in this sphere suggests analysis of conditions leading to employees’ sense of powerlessness; implementation of suitable managerial strategies such as information sharing and providing autonomy to employees for enhancing their self-efficacy, creativity and initiative. Organizational factors such as bureaucratic work culture, dominative supervisory styles, inadequate reward system and job design, lack of autonomy and influence, etc. have been significantly correlated to the powerlessness and disillusionment of the employees.
Organisational research further reveals that income and amenities like housing, proper sanitation, drinking water and canteen facilities, medical care, amenities for women, environmental safety etc. have emerged as very significant predictors of life-satisfaction as well. Such objective conditions are also found to be highly correlated to satisfaction, trust and support, supervisory behaviour and peer relations and nature of job at the workplace.
Often managers with high need for dominative/authoritarian influence tend to create interpersonally aggressive and competitive work climate in the organization which creates hostility in the organization instead of promoting team work, participation and cooperation.
Take the following quiz and assess your own dominative vs integrative leadership style as a manager.
As a manager do you make a conscious effort to provide the following opportunities to your employees:—
Opportunity to learn something new, for example, skill and management, technical work, new jobs etc.
Fringe benefits to employees such as education of their children, medical facilities for their families etc.
Good salary scales.
Happy relationships between subordinates and supervisors.
Adequate drinking water and canteen facilities.
Feedback and genuine appreciation of their good work.
Respecting their views and suggestions.
Providing a good variety to them in their job roles.
Good scope for their skills and abilities to be used in their jobs.
Good recreation facilities.
Good influence over decisions pertaining to their own welfare and interest.
Freedom in doing their jobs without interference from their supervisors.
Recognition with regard to their aptitude to do their jobs well.
Providing them up-to-date information about events in the organisation
Scoring
Assign one mark for every ‘yes’ answer.
Interpretation
10-14: Integrative and democratic leadership style.
5-9: Fairly enabling orientation.
0-4: Dominative leadership style.
The Power of the Positive Thought
Your thought is the architect of your destiny. The human mind is like a wireless machine. While light travels at the rate of 1,86,000 miles per second, thoughts travel virtually in no time. Thought is even finer than ether, the medium of electricity. They are dynamic in universal environs. A positive and poised mind emanates harmonious waves of thoughts into the world, which travel with lightening speed in all directions and enter the minds of persons and also produce in them similar thoughts of harmony and peace. In contrast, a negative and unhealthy mind which is full of hatred, jealousy and revenge sends out discordant thoughts that enter the minds of thousands and stir in them similar negative thoughts. When a thought, good or evil, crosses the mind of a person, it gives rise to vibrations in the mental atmosphere, which travel far and wide in all directions.
Thought is a dynamic force, which is supplied to us by food. If the food is pure, thought also becomes pure. He who has pure thoughts, speaks powerfully, and creates deep impressions on the minds of the listeners. He influences thousands of people through his pure thoughts, since thought has tremendous power. It can heal diseases, and transform the mentality of people. Thought can do anything. It can work wonders. Its velocity is unimaginable. If one learns the art of thought culture, one can fruitfully tap thought power for living a dynamic, rich, triumphant, joyous and positive life. Sri Swami Sivanada, the founder of the Divine Life Society of India, contended that mind being a centre of a number of supernormal powers, commands various higher faculties for thought-transcendence, leading man into the domains of Divine Realization and blazes into infinite consciousness. You too can attain refinement and culture by thought discipline and use your capacity for releasing wholesome, constructive and inspiring thought-vibrations for accomplishing grand peace, happiness and realization of God which is the meaning, aim and ultimate destiny of all life on Earth.
Try answering the following questions spontaneously with a ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ to assess your level of thought-culture.
Do you often:
Watch the mindless wandering state of your mind and gradually fix your mind on one affirmative thought only?
Try to purify and sublimate your thoughts by hearing, beholding, talking, and meditating what is auspicious?
Practise mental Yoga to modify, influence and control the subconscious depths of your mind (that is, by taking one evil trait in you and meditating on its opposite virtue such as mercy, love, purity, forgiveness, generosity etc. every morning)?
Discipline your thought pattern to avoid any thoughts of the vices and defects of others and finding fault in order to enable yourself to grow in concentration, Yoga and spirituality?
Remind yourself that as the last thought of a person at the time of death determines his next birth and governs his future destiny (as propounded in the Bhagwad Gita, chapter vii-6), and so you must wean your mind from worldly thoughts and fix it on Lord’s name during your life so that it also becomes the last prominent thought of your life?
Take mental relaxation by closing your eyes for a while and thinking of scenes such as picturesque hills, the cool waters of the sacred Ganges, the beautiful valley of flowers at Kashmir, the magnificent Taj Mahal, the vast expanse of an infinite blue sky, and so on?
Succeed in controlling immediately any tormenting thought from your mind just as you remove a pebble from a shoe that troubles you?
Affirm the positive thought that self-pity and unhappiness are the inevitable consequences of any conscious breaking of relationships?
Affirm and believe that you are on a pretty solid foundation, with an inner strength in handling things with self-assuredness and success?
Scoring
Assign one mark for every ‘yes’ answer.
Interpretation
If your score ranges from:
7 to 9: You are one of those blessed souls who have channelised their thought force positively and have attained victory over their negative thoughts. Your thought is endowed with creative power. You possess the power to help people and heal their tormented psyches. You have tremendous potential for living a full life.
4 to 6: You have a fair sense of control over your thought processes like the wise man who makes an island that no food can overwhelm. Your purified thought revives the entire manner of your life, enriching it positively.
1 to 3: Alas! You have a long way to go in culturing your thoughts. Change the direction of your thoughts by scrutinising them. Do not entertain thoughts of artificial appetites. By your own thoughts you make or mar your world. The inevitable law of reaction is such that whatever you harbour in the innermost chamber of your heart, will shape itself in your outward life. Since your thought-forces are always deep down at work, discipline and improve your thoughts. Your present life has three aspects—physical, mental and spiritual. You are tenaciously attached to the physical. Be above it by cherishing a thought that you are not a body alone, that you are residing in the body for a short period only. Send a steady thought of love and good will to all creations. Happiness and positive life will come bouncing back to you as your special reward.
Are You A Transparent Groupleader?
Research indicates that leader’s self-disclosure or ‘transparency’ is correlated with productivity, creativity and personal growth of his group. The theory of Trust, Openness, Realization and Interdependence (TORI) has been applied to group and team training in industrial, educational and religious systems which revealed that when the trust level is high, the behaviour of the members of the group is more personal, more open, more self - determining, and more independent. When the trust level is low, members’ behaviour becomes more impersonal, closed, ‘ought’ -determined, and more dependent and counter dependent. A study conducted by Dies &Cohen(American Psychologists at Maryland) further revealed that members indicated a preference for a leader who is confident in his or her leadership abilities and emotional stability and who is willing to share positive strivings(personal and professional goals) and normal emotional experiences such as worries and anxieties and feelings of pride, loneliness, sadness, helplessness, and anger.
On the other hand, members expressed reservations about the appropriateness of a group leader confronting individual members, especially early in the group sessions, with such negative feelings such as distrust, anger, prejudice, and disdain, or offering criticism of the overall group experience by admitting feelings of frustration, boredom, or isolation.
The quiz below represents a range of topics that leaders of organizations may share with their group members. The statements are constituted to include external past and present issues and here - and - now attitudes, feelings of