How to Handle Bullies
1/5
()
About this ebook
When we think about bullies, we usually conjure up a mental picture of a bigger kid stealing lunch money from a smaller kid. Or maybe the "jocks" yanking a wedgie on a freshman.
If you're a woman, the picture will change a bit to portray the "popular" girls laughing at another girl as she passes them in the high school hallway. Whatever the scenario might be the underlying message is perfectly clear.
It's always someone having to be "more than" someone else. Maybe you experienced bullies in school and have your own painful memories. If you are a parent with school age children then this fits right into your wheelhouse.
A bully always has to be "better than" anyone else. He/she always has to be "more than" anyone else. A bully must always be "in charge" or at least appear to be in charge.
It's interesting that while we can all agree that the majority of us can relate to any of the above mentioned scenarios, we fail to see how that "bullying technique" has carried through to our adulthood.
Stop for just a moment and think about your current work and social life. How is your situation at work? Is there that one obnoxious person that insists upon being the center of attention? And, does this person do so at the expense of others?
Or maybe the occasional golf partner who is always making excuses for his poor performance. Maybe it's that the course is not well maintained or that other player distracted him or her.
You see, bullies are everywhere. And sadly, we give them their power! Yes, we actually feed their need for control and allow them to hold sway over our words and deeds. What a waste of our time and energy!
Are you ready? Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired of bullies holding power over you and those you care about? We aren't talking about the playground here, folks. We're talking about real life. Isn't it time to take control?
You Can Do It!
Yes, you can. Put at end to bullies having control over your life. How can I do that, you ask? We have the solution for you. While it isn't the end all and be all at least you can learn how to hold your own and not abandon your principles.
Ask yourself these three questions:
1.What if you could protect yourself from bullies?
2.What if you were able to learn how to deal effectively with a bully?
3.What if there were a way to learn the basics quickly and painlessly?
Well, you can and it isn't as difficult as you may believe.
How to get started!
You can find lots of books and other information that might help. However, when it comes to actually applying the knowledge you gain most instructions fall short of helping you.
What you need to know is exactly how to apply the knowledge by someone who has been there and done it. Someone who won't just feed you theory but give you real life information that will get you from here to there quickly.
What you need is our guide called "How to Deal With Bullies!”
Related to How to Handle Bullies
Related ebooks
Anti-Bullying: Quick Methods to Deal with Bullies Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow To Handle Difficult People: A Complete Guide To Dealing With Annoyingly Crazy and Difficult People Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStaying Power Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Little Book of Dating for Marriage Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDon’t Lose Your Cool Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSingle Father, Better Dad: How I Survived Divorce and Thrived Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Power of Faith When Tragedy Strikes Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAge is Just a Number Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStreet Smarts Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBullying & Harassment of Adults: A Resource for Employees, Organisations & Others Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStreet-Smart Ethics: Succeeding in Business without Selling Your Soul Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsIt's All about Relationships: Building a Life that Matters Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSuccess Is an Attitude Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCharisma Secrets: Little-Known Tools To Positively Influence Those Around You And Make Real Connections With Others Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow to Handle Tough Situations : Finding Inner Strength To Survive The Toughest Crisis And Life Challenges Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow to Survive Peer Pressure Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsConfide: the New Psychology of Confidence: How to Power up After Experiencing Depression Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsRelationship Breakthrough: Achieve Massive Success In Your Relationships That Others Would Kill For Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsExit Strategy Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5How To Talk About Guns with Anyone Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPerception is Reality: Become a Winner in the Workplace Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWHO R U?: Tales of a Survivor Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhere There Is Life, There REALLY Is Hope Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Do You Work with the Living Dead?: How to Survive Among Lifeless and Negative People in the Workplace Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWounds Caused by Gossip Attitudes and Conflicts in the Workplace: How to Deal with Difficult People and Situations on the Job Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBrainpicking Robert Greene: His Key Ideas About Power: Understand The Concept, Tactics, And Subtleties Of Power Plays Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Negotiating For You
Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Emotional Vampires: Dealing with People Who Drain You Dry, Revised and Expanded 2nd Edition DIGITAL AUDIO Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Ask for More: 10 Questions to Negotiate Anything Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Art of War: The Definitive Interpretation of Sun Tzu's Classic Book of Strategy Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Never Split The Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It : by Chris Voss | The MW Summary Guide Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsYou Can Negotiate Anything: The Groundbreaking Original Guide to Negotiation Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Collaborating with the Enemy: How to Work with People You Don't Agree with or Like or Trust Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5NLP: The Essential Guide to Neuro-Linguistic Programming Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Think Like a Lawyer--and Why: A Common-Sense Guide to Everyday Dilemmas Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Fundamentals of Theatrical Design: A Guide to the Basics of Scenic, Costume, and Lighting Design Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Getting to Yes with Yourself: (and Other Worthy Opponents) Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Mediator's Handbook: Revised & Expanded fourth edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Influence and Persuasion (HBR Emotional Intelligence Series) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Summary of Influence: by Robert B. Cialdini | Includes Analysis Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Car Buying Revealed: How to Buy a Car and Not Get Taken for a Ride Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Summary of Getting to Yes: by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton | Includes Analysis Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMaking Conflict Work: Harnessing the Power of Disagreement Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Bargaining with the Devil: When to Negotiate, When to Fight Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Secrets of Power Negotiating, 25th Anniversary Edition Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Go Do Deals: The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Buying & Selling Businesses Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Summary Guide: The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene | The Mindset Warrior Summary Guide Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Technical Theater for Nontechnical People: Second Edition Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTo Sell Is Human (Review and Analysis of Pink's Book) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Reviews for How to Handle Bullies
1 rating0 reviews
Book preview
How to Handle Bullies - Stephen Dyson
Smashwords License Statement
This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each reader. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to Smashwords.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author
About the Author
Stephen Dyson was the target of bullying and other mean tactics early in his working life.
Stephen said that was a very difficult time with after-effects which continued to hold him back and affect other parts of his life for a long while afterwards.
Stephen said," I realized that bullying was a problem which affected thousands of people seriously and also reduced their ability to do their work.
It also often had a serious impact on their efforts to maintain their relationships at work as well as in their social activities and their family.
Stephen said, I wanted to share the knowledge I gained from people that helped me and other people who shared their experiences and knowledge with me through the years.
He added, Some people need professional help to deal with their experiences and get back on track. Some bullies do too!
"But, I believe that this book can help people learn more about