Chicken Soup for the Soul: Christian Teen Talk: Christian Teens Share Their Stories of Support, Inspiration and Growing Up

By Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Amy Newmark

Chicken Soup for the Soul: Christian Teen Talk provides support to teens who care about their faith and are navigating their teenage years. This book will have fresh appeal to Christian teenage readers and their parents.

Devout Christian teens care about their connection and relationship with God, but they are also experiencing all the normal ups and downs of teenage life. Chicken Soup for the Soul: Christian Teen Talk, filled with 101 stories from Chicken Soup for the Soul’s library, offers support and inspiration for Christian teens with heartfelt true stories about love, compassion, loss, forgiveness, friends, school, and faith.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Chicken Soup for the Soul
• Release date: Apr 5, 2011
• ISBN: 9781611591682

Jack Canfield

Jack Canfield, America’s #1 Success Coach, is the cocreator of the Chicken Soup for the Soul® series, which includes forty New York Times bestsellers, and coauthor with Gay Hendricks of You’ve GOT to Read This Book! An internationally renowned corporate trainer, Jack has trained and certified over 4,100 people to teach the Success Principles in 115 countries. He is also a podcast host, keynote speaker, and popular radio and TV talk show guest. He lives in Santa Barbara, California.

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Chicken Soup for the Soul: Christian Teen Talk

Christian Teens Share Their Stories of Support, Inspiration and Growing Up

by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen & Amy Newmark

Published by Chicken Soup for the Soul Publishing, LLC www.chickensoup.com

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Chicken soup for the soul. Selections.

Chicken soup for the soul : Christian teen talk : Christian teens share their stories of support, inspiration and growing up / [compiled by] Jack Canfield [and] Mark Victor Hansen ; [edited by] Amy Newmark.

p. ; cm. — (Our 101 best stories)

ISBN-13: 978-1-935096-12-2

ISBN-10: 1-935096-12-5

eISBN-13: 978-1-61159-168-2

1. Christian teenagers—Literary collections. 2. Christian teenagers—Anecdotes. I. Canfield, Jack, 1944- II. Hansen, Mark Victor. III. Newmark, Amy. IV. Title. V. Title: Christian teen talk

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Contents

A Special Foreword by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen

~An Introductory Poem~

1. When I Say I Am a Christian, Carol Wimmer

~Finding God~

2. Rescue Me, Matt Rivers

3. A Cross in the Sand, Lana L. Comstock

4. From Packin’ to Preachin’, Gilbert Romero as told to Barbara Smythe

5. How Sweet the Sound, Cynthia M. Hamond

6. Putting On the Boots, Donna Partow

7. Searching and Finding, Abby Daniele Burlbaugh

8. A Father’s Love, Michael T. Powers

9. The Final Cut, Patricia H. Mason

10. Safe at Last, Bethany Schwartz

~Real Friends~

11. People Change but Friendships Remain, Jiseon Choi

12. I Need You Now, Becky Tucker

13. The Friendship Cake, Sondra Clark

14. Being There, Jared Garrett

15. Change Comes to Maxwell Street, Sean Patrick

16. No, Really… Barney Ate My Report Card!, Jenn Dlugos

~Having Values~

17. Making Dad Proud, Josh Nally

18. Truth at a Tender Age, Gerry Dunne, Ph.D

19. Friends to the End, Jenny Michaels as told to Cynthia Hamond

20. Staying True to Myself, Michelle Williams

21. Feeding the Soul, Chela González

22. Meeting God at 30,000 Feet, Caron Loveless

23. The Soft Voice of Forgiveness, Jennifer Martin

~ The Power of Prayer~

24. Building Bridges, Charlie Simmons

25. Our Day to Give Thanks, Michael Manzi

26. One Miracle After Another, Frances Griffin

27. When Daddy Died, Irene Budzynski

28. Praying for Your Enemies, Julie Johnston

29. God Listens to Even the Smallest Prayers, Ray Driver

30. The Days We Prayed, Hugh T. Chapman

31. Roadside Rescue, Christie Rogers

32. Childish Faith, Christina Marie Dotson

~Family~

33. My Superhero, Amy Rene Byrne

34. In God’s Eyes, Candace Carteen

35. My Light, Robyn Robertson

36. One Day You’ll Look Back On This… Laurie Lonsdale

37. A Farewell Gift, Jim Comstock

38. Outstretched Arms, LaDonna Gatlin

39. Our Wonderful Tragedy, Carlos R. Bermúdez

40. The Perfect Brother, Kacy Gilbert-Gard

41. Unspoken Years, Kristin Sester

42. Lessons from a Teenager, Courtney Soucy

43. Wise Guy, Walker Meade

~Growing Up~

44. Choices, Alicia M. Boxler

45. Inner Sustenance, Michele Wallace Campanelli

46. Sweet-and-Sour Sixteen, Ronica Stromberg

47. Dear Child—A Sister’s Message, Danette Julene Gomez

48. My Secret in Silence, Lorelei Pablo

49. The Importance of Conscience, Elisha M. Webster

50. Desperate to Fit In, Colleen Holmes as told to Jake Swanson

51. My Sister’s First Love, Kristi and Jodi Vesterby

~Miracles Great and Small~

52. Sadie Hawkins Day, C. M. Zapata

53. The Accident, Dick and Mel Tunney

54. Mrs. Tree and Her Gentleman Caller, Sean Patrick

55. A Voice in the Woods, Carla Riehl

56. Two Percent Is Enough, Krissy Creager

57. Passing the Torch, Marnie O. Mamminga

58. He Sees, Kristina J. Adams

~Life Lessons~

59. In-VINCE-ible Lessons, Casey Glynn Patriarco

60. Yes, Daddy, I Promise, Nancy C. Anderson

61. The Bridge Builder, Marion Bond West

62. The Mirror, Cynthia M. Hamond

63. Forever Changed, JoLynn Shopteese

64. Michael, Jake Swanson as told to Crystal Kirgiss

65. The Helpful Stranger, Alex Judge

66. Born to Win, Jake Repp

~Tough Stuff~

67. Life Is a Gift, Lindsay Ann Parker

68. The Worst Day of My Life, Jennifer Kerperien

69. Faith of an Angel, Cristina Cornejo

70. Smiles in My Heart, Sara Tylutki

71. Love Lives Forever, Peter Dow as told to Rosey Dow

72. My Most Memorable Christmas, Reverend Robert Schuller

73. Dealing with My Mother’s Death, Amanda L. Poff

~Reaching Out~

74. One Single Rose, Amanda Bertrand

75. Angel, Jena Pallone

76. Troubled, Woody Woodburn

77. The Boy Under the Tree, David Coleman and Kevin Randall

78. Give Random Acts of Kindness a Try!, Melissa Broeckelman

79. Ivy’s Cookies, Candy Abbott

80. Something Worthwhile, Tony Webb

81. An Unexpected Customer, Ashleigh Kittle Slater

82. Mr. Gillespie, Angela Sturgill

83. Coming Together, Jen Ashton

84. Eskimo’s Gift, Arlene Centerwall

~Not Really Gone~

85. Sometimes, Jenny Sharaf

86. Beyond the Grave, Yahaira Lawrence

87. Hi Daddy, Jessica Blankenbecler

88. Here to Stay, Brittany Lynn Jones

89. Unbreakable Bond, Lauren Fritsky

90. Let’s Go Dancing in the Rain, Claire Hayenga

91. Karen, Do You Know Him?, James C. Brown, M.D

92. The White Butterfly, Jennifer Ramon-Dover

93. Angels Among Us, Kerri Knipper

~Love Is All You Need~

94. The Surrogate Grandmother, Pat Curtis

95. The Rest of the Story, Jo Wiley Cornell

96. Many Times Over, Nick Montavon

97. A Different Kind of Friend, Beth Marshall

98. A Forgiving Heart, Gary Flaherty

99. The Day Our Dad Came Home, Pamela D. Hamalainen

100. Love’s Power, Harry Randles

101. A Day That Changed Us All, Jackie Morgenstern

WHO IS JACK CANFIELD?

WHO IS MARK VICTOR HANSEN?

WHO IS AMY NEWMARK?

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

A Special Foreword

by Jack and Mark

For us, 101 has always been a magical number. It was the number of stories in the first Chicken Soup for the Soul book, and it is the number of stories and poems we have always aimed for in our books. We love the number 101 because it signifies a beginning, not an end. After 100, we start anew with 101.

We hope that when you finish reading one of our books, it is only a beginning for you too—a new outlook on life, a renewed sense of purpose, a strengthened resolve to deal with an issue that has been bothering you. Perhaps you will pick up the phone and share one of the stories with a friend or a loved one. Perhaps you will turn to your keyboard and express yourself by writing a Chicken Soup story of your own, to share with other readers who are just like you.

This volume contains our 101 best stories and poems about life as a Christian teenager. We share this with you at a very special time for us, the fifteenth anniversary of our Chicken Soup for the Soul series. When we published our first book in 1993, we never dreamed that we had started what became a publishing phenomenon, one of the best-selling series of books in history.

We did not set out to sell more than one hundred million books, or to publish more than 150 titles. We set out to touch the heart of one person at a time, hoping that person would in turn touch another person, and so on down the line. Fifteen years later, we know that it has worked. Your letters and stories have poured in by the hundreds of thousands, affirming our life’s work, and inspiring us to continue to continue to make a difference in your lives.

On our fifteenth anniversary, we have new energy, new resolve, and new dreams. We have recommitted to our goal of 101 stories or poems per book, we have refreshed our cover designs and our interior layout, and we have grown the Chicken Soup for the Soul team, with new friends and partners across the country in New England.

We have chosen our 101 best stories and poems for Christian teenagers from our rich fifteen year history to share with you in this new volume. We know that your connection and relationship with God are important to you, and most importantly that you are experiencing all the ups and downs of teenage life, with the attendant joys and sorrows of growing up.

The stories that we have chosen for you were written by other teenagers just like you. They wrote about love, compassion, loss, forgiveness, friends, school, and their faith. We hope that you will find these stories inspiring and supportive, and that you will share them with your families and friends. We have identified the 27 Chicken Soup for the Soul books in which the stories originally appeared, in case you would like to continue your journey among our other books. We hope you will also enjoy the additional books for teenagers in Our 101 Best Stories series

With our love, our thanks, and our respect,

~Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen

An Introductory Poem

When I Say,

I Am a Christian

When I say, I am a Christian,

I’m not shouting I am saved.

I’m whispering "I was lost!

That is why I chose His way."

When I say, I am a Christian,

I don’t speak of this with pride.

I’m confessing that I stumble

Needing God to be my guide.

When I say, I am a Christian,

I’m not trying to be strong.

I’m professing that I’m weak

And pray for strength to carry on.

When I say, I am a Christian,

I’m not bragging of success.

I’m admitting I have failed

And cannot ever pay the debt.

When I say, I am a Christian,

I don’t think I know it all.

I submit to my confusion

Asking humbly to be taught.

When I say, I am a Christian,

I’m not claiming to be perfect.

My flaws are too visible

But God believes I’m worth it.

When I say, I am a Christian,

I still feel the sting of pain.

I have my share of heartaches

Which is why I seek His name.

When I say, I am a Christian,

I do not wish to judge.

I have no authority.

I only know I’m loved.

~Carol Wimmer

Chicken Soup for the Christian Family Soul

Finding God

God enters by a private door into each individual.

~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Rescue Me

My high school was in a border town, meaning we got new students who came over with their families from Mexico. Sometimes they’d speak English, and sometimes they didn’t. We wouldn’t normally mingle with these kids. We just sort of stuck with our own group.

Leticia was different. She was one of those girls who walks in a room, and everything gets all fuzzy and slow motion, like in the movies. She had long, dark hair and the greenest eyes I’d ever seen. She smiled as she walked by, and even though it probably wasn’t at me, I took it as a sign.

I’m not usually the lucky type, but fate seemed to be smiling down on me because it turned out she was in most of my classes. The first time she was called on in U.S. History, she knew the answer (which I didn’t), and she spoke in perfect English. I later found out she was from Mexico City and had studied American History at her school there. This totally intimidated me.

On April 11th, I was sitting in U.S. History, totally stressing about a midterm we were having the next day. I didn’t even notice the guidance counselor come in to talk to our teacher, Mr. Huston. When he called my name, I didn’t hear him. Then I looked up, and both he and the counselor had strange expressions on their faces, and they were looking at me. Something was wrong. I figured I was in trouble, but I couldn’t imagine for what.

I followed the guidance counselor down the hall and into her office. When we got there, the principal was there, too. They were both silent for a minute. Then the principal began to speak.

Your father has had a heart attack. The paramedics and doctors did everything they could to save him, but I’m afraid he didn’t make it.

Okay, I said. Well, I’d better be getting back to class. I don’t want to miss the rest of the exam review.

They looked at me, stunned. I didn’t really know what I was saying. I felt like they were telling me about someone else’s dad. I just didn’t get it.

The next few weeks were a blur as we had the funeral and began adjusting to life without my dad. I went back to school after I ran out of things to do at home. Everything felt a little different. I can’t exactly explain how; it just did.

Back at school, everyone was super-nice to me. The teachers didn’t call on me, and they kept asking me to stay after class to see if I was okay. My friends were really weird. I felt like I couldn’t talk to them about the same old things. It was all so strange. My dad was a great guy, and then all of a sudden he was dead. He didn’t do anything wrong. He never hurt anyone. I started eating lunch alone. I just couldn’t deal with listening to the same stupid jokes or talking about random stuff.

About three weeks after I went back to school, I was sitting in a corner of the quad, not really eating, just staring off into space. Are you going to eat the rest of that sandwich? I looked up and saw Leticia standing in front of me.

Huh? I responded. I looked down and realized I hadn’t touched my sandwich. I handed it over.

As she gratefully accepted, she told me, My mom packed me a meat and egg torta. Your tuna fish looks better. She sat down next to me and ate my sandwich. She didn’t say a word to me, but seemed happy to just sit there.

After a few minutes, I grew too uncomfortable. Why did you come over? I asked.

You looked like you could use a friend, she said. I lost my father last year. I didn’t know what to say to her, and she didn’t know what to say to me. I didn’t want to talk about my dad, but for the first time in a while, I felt okay just being with another person.

We started having lunch together on that bench every day. We never mentioned my dad or her dad, except she told me that was the reason they moved from Mexico. We talked about school, TV, movies and other meaningless stuff. I loved her mom’s tortas, and she seemed to like my American sandwiches. I finally worked up the nerve to ask her to go to a movie with me.

I’d like to, she said, but I have to ask you a question first. Are you a Christian?

Huh? I replied.

She told me her dad was a deeply spiritual man, and that it had been very important to him that she associate only with Christians. Basically, she was saying she couldn’t go out with me unless I believed in the same stuff she did. I was confused. She had become my friend, and up till now she didn’t care if I was a Christian or not.

I told her I wanted to go out with her, but I didn’t think I was a Christian and I didn’t think it should matter. Unfortunately, I then said something really stupid. I said, It doesn’t matter to me that you’re Mexican. She looked at me, then got up and walked away.

A week went by. I came to the bench every day with a tuna fish sandwich, hoping Leticia would show up. No luck. But finally one day she was there.

To love the Lord with all your heart, mind, soul and strength, and your neighbor as yourself, means to experience forgiveness and to forgive others as well as yourself. Matthew 6:12. That’s all she said. Then she took my tuna sandwich and started eating it.

So we went back to our routine of daily lunch and sandwich exchange. I didn’t bring up the dating thing again, and neither did she. The prom was coming up, and I really wanted to ask her.

So what does it take to become a Christian, anyway? Do I have to shave my head or go spend the night in the woods or something?

She ignored my sarcasm. No, all you have to do is pray with me.

All I have to do is pray? That seemed pretty easy.

Well, there is one catch, she said. You have to mean it. I mean, really mean it. You have to give up your soul to God. You have to beg forgiveness for all your sins. Can you do that?

Sure, I thought. A little prayer and I get to take Leticia to the prom. Okay, I said. Let’s do it. Where do we go?

How about right here? she responded.

In front of everyone?

Why not? She told me to close my eyes. Then she started to pray. She asked me to invite God’s spirit into my heart. I started to say the words after her and stopped.

I saw this image in my mind of a closed door. I was about to open it and go through. I could see light streaming through the keyhole. We were silent for a long time as I had my hand on the doorknob. Then I turned it and opened the door.

I started to cry. I cried for my father. I cried for my mother and sister. I cried for Leticia’s father. I cried for all the kids who lost their fathers and mothers. I couldn’t stop crying. I felt God’s grace.

Leticia and I went to the prom, and we had a great time. We’re seniors now, and we’re still together. I miss my dad a lot, and I think about him all the time. I still don’t have all the answers. But I owe Leticia a lot because she gave me my faith. She rescued me.

~Matt Rivers

Chicken Soup for the Christian Teenage Soul

A Cross in the Sand

I wasn’t abused as a child. I just felt lonely, neglected and unloved. I don’t think it was my parents’ fault necessarily. I just wasn’t a happy kid.

My family did not attend church. I had never even set foot in one. We weren’t rich, but we had enough money to take a beautiful trip to Florida every Christmas. Of course, my parents loved to tease me about Santa not doing address changes very well. But every year, packages marked From Santa made their way to our motel room.

One morning in Florida, I had decided to play in the warm, white sand with my shiny new pail and shovel. My parents weren’t going to the beach, so I settled for digging in the motel courtyard. I looked at the sandy field, sparsely covered with tropical weeds. I set out to find the best spot to create my sandy masterpiece. I chose a place way out in the middle, sat down contentedly and began to dig.

About four inches down, my shovel clinked on something. I was always dreaming of finding lost pirate treasures or being the first one to find an unopened genie bottle. Therefore, it wasn’t a stretch for me to think I had hit the jackpot. However, my little shovel had uncovered a treasure of a much different sort. It was a small, silver cross. I turned it over and over in my hands, looking at it as the sun made it glow brightly. Etched on the back of the cross were words I could just barely make out: Jesus Christ is Lord. I wasn’t sure what that meant. I never showed anyone the cross, but kept it hidden as one of my prized possessions, only taking it out when no one was around. To me, it wasn’t just a cross; it was a sign.

During high school, I was a typical teen. I sought out fun and trouble, but rarely got caught for it. My life was going downhill fast, but I thought it was perfectly under control, except for the emptiness inside that I couldn’t account for. Sometime during my sophomore year, I decided I wanted to know about God.

Most of the church services I attended with my friends were good, but one was life-changing. As the music began to play, I was consumed, and I felt Him. He was the One I had been searching for. He was the One who had been calling me. The pastor called for those who didn’t know Him to come forward. I couldn’t have stopped my feet if I had wanted to. He prayed, I prayed, and my life was never again the same. I went home and wept with joy. A seemingly lifelong void was finally filled. For some reason, I am quite sure my search began the day I hit metal with my little shovel and found a cross that said, Jesus Christ is Lord. Now I no longer have to dig to find my treasures. All the treasures I’ll ever need are just a prayer away.

~Lana L. Comstock

Chicken Soup for the Christian Teenage Soul

From Packin’ to Preachin’

The more you are aware of God’s unchanging love, the safer you feel in the world.

~Susan L. Taylor

I started running away from home when I was eleven years old. Home was thirteen brothers and sisters, all of whom ran away from our crazy, abusive father by the time they were fourteen. Our mother had been murdered. I was desperate for attention, for a sense of who I was and what I was supposed to be, for a place where I felt safe. The gang found me. They took me in, taught me who I was to be, gave me protection, and filled me with pride and a sense of belonging. What do you have to give the gang in return? You have to give them all of yourself, and you never get it back completely.

The gang became my family for the next seventeen years. It was a family of drugs, guns and jailings, but I belonged, and that was my security. During those seventeen years, nearly fourteen of them were spent in foster homes, jail or prison. When I was twelve, I tried to kill my father. The charge was attempted murder. I was held, without remorse, in the juvenile justice system until I was eighteen. By this time, I was a drug addict.

The next ten years were filled with jailings, carrying guns, not having enough money for my drug habit and constant paranoia. The only women I knew were gang chicks. I knew I would just make more gang members with one of them. I had already gotten a fourteen-year-old girl pregnant when I was eighteen, married her (I didn’t want to add statutory rape to my rap sheet), and then couldn’t keep the relationship together. My life was going nowhere. I was tired. The gang offered me no way out. I wanted to get away, become a member of the middle class. I figured I could accomplish this by pushing drugs in a bigger arena. I walked away from the neighborhood. I can never go back. There would be blood if I did. I know where I can go and where I’m not supposed to be.

Though leaving the neighborhood and the gang was not for honorable reasons, it was the first step that was to change my life forever. I was headed for redemption, although it was going to be a long journey. Too soon, I was serving five years in a federal prison for transporting drugs across the border. But when I got out, the first real sign of change happened.

I met some amazing people through a chance encounter. They took me in, and they loved me, unconditionally. I learned what love was about from these two people. They allowed me to call them Grandma and Grandpa and loved me, just as I was.

I quit the drugs except for Sundays. On Sunday mornings, I smoked a joint and then went to church with Grandma and Grandpa, relaxed and happy. I had no idea where this was all heading. How was I to know that God was not going to leave me alone?

The old ladies in the church knew that I had musical talents. One of them came to me and asked me to lead the morning worship service. I didn’t want to, but I would do anything for those old ladies, so I did it. The next Sunday they asked me to lead the worship service again, and then the next Sunday, and the next. I gave up my Sunday joint. It’s hard to lead a worship service when you’re high!

I still carried a gun, but I was beginning to feel safe. One particular day, I just wasn’t paying attention. I was enjoying a walk at the beach with my baby. I was pushing the stroller, head down, when I bumped into another stroller. I looked up into the face of the one man I had vowed to kill. The last time I had seen him, he had pistol-whipped me, hung me from a balcony and left me for dead. Now we stared into each other’s eyes, instinctively reaching for our weapons. A bizarre coincidence. Two innocents, a moment away