Six Disturbing Signs Your Mother In Law is Out to Destroy Your Marriage

By Johanna Sparrow

Everyday millions of couples go from dating, engagement to marriage and what is supposed to be wedded bliss, a time for lovers ends up being a nightmare for the mother of the groom. From the moment the daughter-in-law is introduced to her future mother-in-law, mom has assessed everything about her from the mints she pops in her mouth, the size shoes she wears, the outdated or whorish clothing she wears, to the things that cause her to break out in hives. Having a mother-in-law who is sweet and loving one minute and makes you feel like a true daughter, only to find out, mom has been saying things behind your back to your husband is confusing for many daughter-in-law’s who end up missing mama’s deceptive, manipulative, controlling, seductive, entrapping and betraying ways. Good old mom is not going to let her son out of her sight or allow another woman who happens to be his wife control him. A mother-in-law that is a six lays down the law early on, which many daughters-in-law tend to ignore. My intentions are to teach you how to manage your mother-in law, so that she does not destroy your marriage

• Language: English
• Publisher: Johanna Sparrow
• Release date: Mar 27, 2016
• ISBN: 9781311066152

Johanna Sparrow

Antoinette M Watkins writes under the pen name Johanna Sparrow, she has been writing for over 17 years and has published a variety of books from children's books to self-help books dealing with relationship, personal growth and conflict issues. She uses her expertise, knowledge and experience on a system she's created and used over the years dating back as far as 1995 in improving relationship issues, called the (HBCCR)© Heart Bruised Conscious Connection Renewal codes which we either have or don't have inside of us. When she is not writing self help books she writes Novels and Novella under the pen name SPARROW.In 2015 Johanna Sparrow will release for the first time her powerful and inspiring HBCCR system she's created for the rest of the world in hopes that we all can find a common goal or ground within our daily connections. She has researched and studied over the years connections between human to human and human to nature interactions in which she concluded in her research how understanding ones connections and disconnections in life is the essential step code and laws for love, happiness and tragedy, governing and guiding us in becoming life's greatest or worse creation to ever exist.

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Six Disturbing Signs That Your Mother-In-Law is Out to

Destroy Your Marriage

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JOHANNA SPARROW

Six Disturbing Signs That Your Mother-In-Law is Out to Destroy Your Marriage

Copyright © 2016 Johanna Sparrow

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DEDICATION

This book is dedicated to my family and friends.

CONTENTS

Introduction

Chapter One: Deception

Chapter Two: Manipulation

Chapter Three: Control

Chapter Four: Seduction

Chapter Five: Entrapment

Chapter Six: Betrayal

Chapter Seven: Focus on Family

Chapter Eight: Talk to Each Other

Chapter Nine: The Needy Daughter-in-law

Chapter Ten: No Name Calling

Chapter Eleven: Trust Yourself

Chapter Twelve: Let in the Good Things

Chapter Thirteen: Reinventing a New You

Chapter Fourteen: Where to Seek Help

Chapter Fifteen: How Does It Feel?

Chapter Sixteen: Start with Friendship

Chapter Seventeen: Relationships

Advice

About the Author

Personal Prescription

Introduction

Every day millions of couples go from dating to engagement to marriage. What is supposed to be wedded bliss, a wonderful time for the lovers, ends up being a nightmare for the mother of the groom. From the moment the bride-elect is introduced to her future mother-in-law, Mom assesses everything about her from the mints she pops in her mouth, the size shoe she wears, the outdated or whorish clothing she chooses, to any other little thing Mom dislikes and that causes her to break out in hives.

A new bride thinks she has a mother-in-law who is sweet and loving and makes her feel like a true daughter, only to find out Mom has been saying things behind her back to her husband. This can be devastating for daughters-in-law who have missed the clues to Mama’s deceptive, manipulative, controlling, seductive, entrapping and/or betraying ways. Good old Mom is not going to let her son out of her sight or allow another woman (who happens to be his wife) control him. A mother-in-law that uses one of the Six Signs lays down the law early on, which many daughters-in-law tend to ignore.

There are some mothers-in-law you just can't give your power over to, or be nice to, without being taken advantage of. A mother-in-law who operates as a Six is dangerous from day one. Mom can easily deceive the smartest and brightest daughter-in-law if the new wife does not have a healthy relationship with her own mother.

My son will always choose his mother over his wife.

If I can't make him stop, what makes you think you can, when I am his mother?

My son is out of control sometimes, and it will take me, as his mother, to calm him down.

I need for us to get along so that my son stays in my life; I can't have my son not talk to me.

These are just some of the crazy and selfish things you may hear her say. Controlling your happiness and your husband is her ultimate desire. My intentions are to teach you how to manage the relationship with your mother-in-law so she does not destroy your marriage.

CHAPTER ONE

DECEPTION

There is nothing like having the perfect mother-in-law, especially when your own mother is not nice to you. Your job as a wife and a woman is to bond with your husband, not your mother-in-law, but many mothers-in-law don’t understand this. My mother sat me down a long time ago when I was a teen and laid out the ground rules on what I should and should not expect from a mother-in-law; I never forgot them. Below is a list of what she said to me.

• Don’t call her too much in the beginning of your relationship.

• The more control you give her, the more she will rule your happiness and take over your relationship.

• If she doesn’t call you, don’t call her. This teaches her that you are your own woman.

• Never take the backseat if your future mother-in-law gets in your car with you. Put her comfortably in the back.

• If you are not careful, she can have your husband mad at you and fighting with you when he gets home.

• Don’t tell your mother-in-law everything that goes on in your relationship and family.

Those are just a few of the rules my mother taught me over the years, and even more so when I got engaged. Having five brothers made me listen to every word she said because she was crazy about her sons. This list could go on and on, but I want you to know the most important things