The ADHD Fix
By Dr. Henry Svec and Joshua Svec MA
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In "The ADHD Fix", father and son authors Dr. Henry and Joshua Svec discuss their professional and personal experience with ADHD, addressing myths and testifying to the underlying potential in every diagnosis.
Dr. Henry Svec has spent the past twenty years helping children and adults with ADHD achieve success by developing tools and strategies to overcome associated obstacles. The victories of his son Joshua vouch for the effectiveness of the strategies disclosed in this book, which includes a chapter dedicated to Joshua's experiences growing up with ADHD.
ADHD is a bit like the Niagara River: often out of control, unpredictable, and has a lot of energy. It's not until you see the hydro electric dam that you realize the gifts of that river.
The same can be said of ADHD; it's not until you break down the brick wall of trials and tribulations, that you discover that ADHD comes with its own unique gifts and doesn't have to be an impediment to success. With the right strategies, ADHD can be a pillar of strength and a fount of otherwise unknown abilities.
Dr. Henry Svec
Dr. Henry J. Svec is a registered psychologist in Ontario and licensed psychologist in Michigan. He received his Ph.D from Michigan State University and his B.A. and Masters degree from The University of Western Ontario where he played football for 4 years winning 2 National Championships in 1976 and 1977.
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The ADHD Fix - Dr. Henry Svec
Dedication
This book is dedicated to my father Jindroh (Henry). He taught us by example, through his fight and escape from the Czech Republic, to always battle for what you believe, never quit the fight, and the value of education applied through common sense.
Copyright © 2011 by Henry Svec
Cover design by Yvonne Parks
Edited by Alethea Spiridon Hopson www.freelanceeditor.ca
All rights reserved
No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means including information storage and retrieval systems, without permission in writing from the author. The only exception is by a reviewer, who may quote short excerpts in a review.
Printed in Canada.
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Table of Contents
Foreword
Strategy 1: Release the stigma
Strategy 2: Ask who is pointing the finger
Strategy 3: Get a complete assessment
Strategy 4: Build structure
Strategy 5: Self-task matching
Strategy 6: Build self-esteem
Strategy 7: Getting the right treatment
Strategy 8: Fight depression
Strategy 9: Building social-emotional intelligence
Strategy 10: Learning how to advocate
Strategy 11: Building great relationships
Strategy 12: Exercise
Strategy 13: Parenting your ADHD child
Strategy 14: Accepting your ADHD success
Strategy 15: Putting it all together
Foreword
It was 1974 and I was sitting in the guidance office at Oakridge Secondary School in London, Ontario. Kemper, as he was called, not only dabbled in guidance and physical education, but also coached the golf team. He was laid back, rarely displaying any anger or frustration over the usual pranks pulled daily at the school. He started our conversation that day by asking me how I was doing, what was new, how the football team was looking, and other pleasant chatter. Then he got to the reason for my being pulled out of class.
Since you started here in grade 9, Henry, your grades have been going down steadily— from 85 percent, to 74 percent, to 71 percent, to 68 percent this year. What’s going on?
I had no clue. I thought I was doing very well on the athletic field and in gym, and doing even better socially. I told him I would promise to work hard; he was pleased and let me go. I graduated my final year of high school with a 61 percent and was miraculously accepted at the University of Western Ontario.
I didn’t know it back then, and wouldn’t know it for some thirty-four years, but I had undiagnosed ADHD. I also had a learning disability with some very specific pockets of giftedness. My grades in high school were slipping because not being able to focus, poor organizational skills, and an inability to get my thoughts on paper started to take their toll. At one point, many thought I had experienced mild traumatic brain injury from my high school and college football career, but later experts told me it was ADHD.
Years of trial and error taught me how to overcome academic obstacles. I earned a bachelor’s degree in physical and health education, a bachelor’s degree in education, a master’s degree in education, and in 1988 a Ph.D. from Michigan State University. Wonder what my high school guidance counselor would say about that, or perhaps Professor Hill from the University of Western Ontario who told me in 1977 that I didn’t have the brains or what it took to be in his program. I could tell you many more such stories, but you get the picture. ADHD-oppositional behavior is helpful when you’re surrounded by idiots who keep trying to tear you down by telling you your goals are unrealistic.
As a psychologist, I have spent the past twenty years helping others develop tools and strategies to overcome many ADHD obstacles so they too can achieve success. During that time, I have also learned valuable lessons to maximize my own performance, tools I will share in this book. It has taken me many years to fully understand my own condition. Only within the past ten years, due to ever-improving technologies, have I been able to identify ADHD, various learning disabilities, and gifted behavior.
The most significant development has been the use of neuroimaging, or a brain scan or QEEG that is reviewed by a neurologist and brain physiologist to help identify if neurological or brain patterns exist for types of ADHD. I’ve had many scans done on my own brain by some of the world’s most respected authorities. In the early years when I was training, volunteers were often asked to step up to have an image done. I would insist on being that subject, which has taught me many valuable lessons and also provided me with world-class clinical opinions of my brain. The images provided at different locations with different types of equipment pointed to the same conclusion and confirmed my diagnosis.
The purpose of this book is to help you find your ADHD success, to learn to live with it and even enjoy it and the unexpected gifts it brings. ADHD is a gift that, if nurtured and properly fine-tuned, will allow you to achieve well beyond your non-diagnosed colleagues and friends. You will likely discover that other learning style issues, giftedness, or specific learning disabilities are also part of who you are. Most important is that you will learn how to live with ADHD success instead of failure.
The ADHD fix
is about using proven strategies to eliminate the negative impact of ADHD symptoms on the life of a child, teen, or adult. Traditionally, health care professionals try to find ways to make the individual with ADHD fit into existing environments or structures. The ADHD Fix is about creating strategies or a toolbox
of solutions that if used and modified throughout a lifetime will change the environment to fit the ADHD lifestyle. ADHD is a life-long condition; just like medication, if you stop using these strategies, the ADHD symptoms will again return and negatively impact your life.
Let’s get started.
Strategy 1
Release the Stigma
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Having ADHD can mean many things. You will learn in a later chapter of this book how it is a gift, one that will place you well above others in your classroom or profession. But in excess of 60 percent of those with ADHD (when asked) will state that they feel a stigma or fear of others finding out about their condition. It is a common feeling.
Humans, unfortunately, have for centuries felt the need to discriminate against groups of people that are a bit different from the majority. We have moved forward on many fronts, as education and knowledge overcomes bias and prejudice. The stigma of ADHD can, however, stop someone from seeking out a proper assessment or treatment for their condition. Many adults report they don’t consult with a psychologist or their doctor about their symptoms for fear of this stigma.
Accept the diagnosis
If you or your child has had a comprehensive assessment you will feel more confident in the diagnosis and subsequent strategy plan. For children and teens, do a quick search on the web and read about famous