Filipino Culture 101
By Mark Nelson
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Whether you are planning to retire in the Philippines or you want to really gain a deep understanding of your Filipina girlfriend or wife this book will show you everything you need to know to understand the culture of the Philippines.
Mark Nelson
Dr. Mark Nelson is a founding director of the Institute of Ecotechnics and has worked for several decades in closed ecological system research, ecological engineering, the restoration of damaged ecosystems, desert agriculture and orchardry, and wastewater recycling. He is Chairman and CEO of the Institute of Ecotechnics, a U.K. and U.S. non-profit organization, which consults to several demonstration projects working in challenging biomes around the world as well as Vice Chairman of Global Ecotechnics Corp. and head of Wastewater Gardens International.
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Filipino Culture 101 - Mark Nelson
Filipino Culture 101
Your guide to understanding the Philippines
by
Mark Nelson
Copyright 2016 by Mark Nelson
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Table of Contents
Marrying a Filipina: What You Need to Know
How to Tell if Your Online Filipina Isn’t the Real Deal
Kapal ng Mukha
Hiya
Utang ng Loob
Why do Many Filipinos use Spoons as Knives?
The Filipino Family and Tita Baby
Filipinos’ Peculiar Use of the Phrase For a While
Filipinos Love Nicknames
Distinctly Filipino Naming Conventions
Filipino Gifting Customs
The Balato
system
Filipino Birthday Traditions: The Blowout
Filipino Family Alliances: Godparents
Mano Po
The Ever Present Filipino Po
Tampo
How to Tip in the Philippines
Don’t Get Scammed by Webcam Vixens
Filipino Time
Keeping Cool like a Local in the Philippines
Getting around in the Philippines: Jeepneys
Amor Propio
Delicadeza
MARRYING A FILIPINA: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
If you are in communication with an exotic tropical beauty across the seas or on the other side of the globe, congratulations! Filipinas are definitely enchanting creatures. They know how to treat their partners right and Filipinos male and female are known the world over for the level of care and compassion that they provide.
It is not an accident why Filipinos excel in the nursing field in the United States and in Europe. There are certain elements in Filipino culture that plays a big importance in helping others and caring for others.
A key part of this is a Filipino trait of pakikisama or getting along. There is a certain aspect of Filipino culture that one defined his or her identity based on group identity or how a person goes along within that larger group. This is the reason why Filipinos make great nurses, ship cruise and other occupations that require getting along and providing one on one service.
With that said, if you are thinking of marrying a Filipina, you need to know few things about Filipina and Filipino culture so you don’t get shocked and you avoid misunderstandings down the road. Western culture is dramatically different from Filipina culture in at least 3 separate issues.
Marry a Filipina and You marry Her Family
Unlike in the United States, children leave the home when they turn 18. Either they leave voluntarily or they get booted out. Filipinos tend to remain close with their family all through their adult lives. In fact it is expected for unmarried daughter or son to live with his or her parents until he or she gets married. In fact in many situations due to financial issues, adult children never leave, either support their parents or parents support them for life.
So you have to be aware with this because a key part of a Filipina’s assumption and mentality is that you marry your family when marrying a Filipina. This means that you become part of the family so you become part of the emotional support structure and also become part of the financial support structure.
If members of the family come from the Philippines to visit the States or Europe, guess what? You have to accommodate them and this doesn’t just mean making sure they stay with you a couple of nights you might have to house them for their whole stay while they are over.
So you don’t just marrying a Filipina you marry her family so you need to wrap your mind around that concept so that there are no misunderstandings down the road.
Marrying a Filipina: Children are the Center of the Filipino Family
It is a very common source of conflict among interracial and intercultural couples. Many foreign men don’t understand the fact that once their wife gives birth the center of the family becomes the child. This is a very Filipino culture trait.
The word for family is based on the root word for offspring. The same goes with the word for relatives. It is all based on the word anak. That’s how powerful, that’s how important children are in Philippine culture.
So you have to understand this and you have to remember this when you are marrying a Filipina. Especially once you have