Bright, Catholic and Gay
()
About this ebook
A collection of award-winning writer and activist Danton Remoto’s short essays on popular culture, politics, and other important and controversial national issues.
Remoto has taught English and Literature for more than twenty years and is a multimedia personality: as host of a radio and a TV show and a columnist for a daily and an online news portal. He founded the Ladlad Party List in 2003, whose accreditation was refused by the Commission on Elections.
This led to the historic decision affirming the equality of LGBT rights and opening the door to representation in Philippine Congress.
Read more from Danton Remoto
Riverrun: A Novel Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Happy Na, Gay Pa Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Related to Bright, Catholic and Gay
Related ebooks
Permutations of Love: Looking Glass 2 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsparsetreeforestfire Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Novel of Justice: Selected Essays (1968-1994) Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Lost Language: Stories Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHonor, Courage, Faith: A Corregidor Story Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLost Dogs Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Google Song: And Other Rhymes for Our Times Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChinese Buddhism in Catholic Philippines: Syncretism as Identity Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Bohol We Love Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAround the Bend I Go Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Mga Prodigal Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFifties Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDiary ng Emo Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Head Hunters of Northern Luzon Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsOut in the Pulpit: The Lived Experiences of Lesbian Clergy in Four Protestant Mainline Denominations Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTowards Adult Faith: Essays on Believing Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMythical Beings of Asia: Insignia Drabbles, #4 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Sensual World: What Do You See? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Mystery on 17th Street Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBride of War: My Mother's World War II Memories Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMenacing Environments: Ecohorror in Contemporary Nordic Cinema Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLGBTQ Cincinnati Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsUsok - the Webzine of Fantastic Filipino Fiction (Issue 1) Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTop Ten Pinoy Travels: Philippines Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Politics of Love in Myanmar: LGBT Mobilization and Human Rights as a Way of Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Music Child & the Mahjong Queen Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWomen on Fire Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Filipino Migration Experience: Global Agents of Change Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsComing to Terms: Writings on Midlife by 15 Women Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Biography & Memoir For You
Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Meditations: Complete and Unabridged Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Stolen Life: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Good Neighbor: The Life and Work of Fred Rogers Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Just Mercy: a story of justice and redemption Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Good Girls Don't Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: the heartfelt, funny memoir by a New York Times bestselling therapist Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Billion Years: My Escape From a Life in the Highest Ranks of Scientology Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mommie Dearest Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5The Ivy League Counterfeiter Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Leonardo da Vinci Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Indifferent Stars Above: The Harrowing Saga of the Donner Party Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Taste: My Life Through Food Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5People, Places, Things: My Human Landmarks Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Red Notice: A True Story of High Finance, Murder, and One Man's Fight for Justice Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Jack Reacher Reading Order: The Complete Lee Child’s Reading List Of Jack Reacher Series Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Why Fish Don't Exist: A Story of Loss, Love, and the Hidden Order of Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Seven Pillars of Wisdom: A Triumph Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Alive: The Story of the Andes Survivors Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Working Stiff: Two Years, 262 Bodies, and the Making of a Medical Examiner Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Disloyal: A Memoir: The True Story of the Former Personal Attorney to President Donald J. Trump Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Seven Pillars of Wisdom (Rediscovered Books): A Triumph Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Crack In Creation: Gene Editing and the Unthinkable Power to Control Evolution Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Art of Eating Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Cook's Tour: In Search of the Perfect Meal Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for Bright, Catholic and Gay
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
Bright, Catholic and Gay - Danton Remoto
A Gay Seminarian Speaks
The unfair vilification of same-sex couples who had gone through commitment ceremonies a week ago led some bishops to make callous statements like kadiri
(execrable) and such. This is what we get for falling in love with whom we choose to love? In turn, this has led me to dig into my email files. I found a letter sent to me by a seminarian a few years ago. He is gay and has found peace with his sexual orientation and gender identity (sogi). Let me quote excerpts from his email.
Let me commend you for being a sober voice in the discourse on gay rights in the country [Thank you, ahem]. However, let me chastise you also for your statement on national tv that some priests know nothing about love. Well, let me tell you that priests also know and have experienced loving and being loved. There are honest and sensible priests around, unlike the ones that you see parroting things they know nothing about.
I was talking about non-platonic love, the kind that goes beyond sisterhood and brotherhood. Yes, the one that involves the body electric. So our seminarian is implying that some priests have also gone beyond platonic love? Hmmm, we are entering deeper and more interesting waters here.
He also sums up the stand of the Catholic Church: "Homosexuality is a sin contra naturam, a sin against nature. The classic reference is Genesis 19:1-19, the story of Sodom which, according to classical interpretation, shows an exclusive concern for the sin of homosexuality. However, I find the interpretation too narrow. It seems to compartmentalize and even manipulate the Holy Scripture."
And here, I begin to cheer for this young man who has made peace with himself, with the fact that he is gay but would still like to continue with his vocation as a priest. How many priests are as brave and honest as him? How many go on and become priests, and when they’re already there, throw mud at gay men who openly live the lives they want to lead? These are closeted priests who see mirrors around them, so they throw rocks to shatter the mirrors, not knowing that the shards still reflect their true selves.
Our gay seminarian has visited gay bars and interviewed male sex workers, but he has never touched them. If Earl K. Wilkinson’s controversial book published 10 years ago is correct, there are pedophiles even in the priesthood. But when caught, en flagrante delicto, the higher orders just transfer them to other parishes, as if stink can be hidden if the garbage bin is thrown in another corner of the country.
Clearly, then, our gay seminarian is railing against the hypocrisy that is regnant in the priesthood. Some priests have allowed themselves to become part of the system, while others break the cycle, and in the process, become more real themselves. Perhaps, if they are able to face the problems of sexuality in our time, all of us must move away from a procreational view of sexuality to a more personal and relational one. I feel it’s the trivialization of the personal encounter that’s the central problem for gays and straights alike. Many have adopted a consumerist attitude to sex—the encouragement of cheap and disposable sex, to the detriment of a deep personal encounter that leads to growth. This is the heart of the problem.
So is our gay seminarian pushing for celibacy? I am sorry but I will not go there.
As my Ladlad co-editor J. Neil. C. Garcia put it: Why will God give me a mouth if I cannot use it?
I think he was referring to the gustatory delights of food. But our astute seminarian trains his guns elsewhere. And the Church seems to miss the point. Christians and other people have fallen into the sexist mistake of reducing a person to the sexual act alone. Contrary to the existing myths about homosexuality, gays are not ‘sexaholic!’ Gays are not phallus-centered. It’s about time that the Church takes a look at the truth that gays are discovering in themselves and help it to emerge and flourish. Besides, the Church does not have a monopoly of the truth. And finally, as what you said when you sued the Commission on Elections in the Supreme Court for calling Ladlad ‘immoral’ and ‘abnormal,’ and thus refusing its accreditation—the Church and the State are separate entities, and there is no State religion in the Philippines.
Finally, please allow me to reprint the statement of Ladlad, the party list I founded on September 1, 2003, which is now being run by a new breed of leaders. I am now just a member of this lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender organization, which cnn has called the only gay political party in the world
—again, another first for this country.
The statement against bigotry in the Catholic Church follows.
"Freedom of expression and freedom of religion are not manifestations of mental illness or criminality. These are basic human rights enshrined in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights that not even the Roman Catholic Church can deny.
"The celebration of same-sex weddings speaks of the love of two persons, and this is not an issue for the Roman Catholic Church to interfere in. It is also not a Roman Catholic Church issue to criticize or question the authority of religious leaders of the Metropolitan Community Church, which do not belong to its denomination.
"While Ladlad is nonsectarian, we are calling for respect, respect that Jesus Christ advocated and which is the basis of Christianity, respect for different forms of expression and diverse views. Let us not resort to name-calling, when the issue is simple: Do lgbts in the Philippines have human rights? If the answer is ‘yes,’ then there should be no attacks on them based on their expressions of love and exercise of freedom of religion, especially since they are not violating any law or impinging on the rights of others.
"We condemn in the strongest sense the unfair, discriminatory, arrogant and condescending statements of Bishop Teodoro Bacani [who, years ago, was accused of having an affair with his secretary at the Novaliches parish] and others in the Roman Catholic church. The bishops have propagated once again hatred, bias, prejudice and fear toward lgbt Filipinos. We urge them to step back, as we draw the