Our One Word: Creating Spiritual Joy and Depth
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Women live uniquely demanding lives as providers, managers, caretakers, and, amidst those many roles, both chosen and cast upon them, the individual spirit sometimes loses her voice. To awaken this voice, Martha Bourlakas began a group for women in the Diocese of Southwestern Virginia called “Our One Word” to pray about and observe the secular, holy, and personal significance of one word each week. This simple goal affects participants in profound ways, and now Bourlakas shares their practice with the rest of us in book form. She provides a structure and resource for those who want to start a group, as well as meditation for anyone who wants to expand her or his own spiritual horizons. The book encompasses words Bourlakas has offered to groups in the weekly format and at weekend retreats. Each chapter focuses on a different word, such as Joy, Heart, Change. There are brief quotations from religious texts, literature, music, etc. that explicate the word, combined with her own perspective. Our One Word offers a way for individuals or groups to cultivate a hospitable, constant presence, modeling the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives—a way to celebrate, pray, just be.
Martha Johnson Bourlakas
Martha Johnson Bourlakas has a master's degree in education from Vanderbilt and an MFA in creative nonfiction from Spalding University, Louisville, Kentucky. She has been leading Our One Word groups and retreats for two years and has witnessed the power of this experience for women. She resides in Southwestern Virginia with her bishop husband, three daughters, two dogs, and one cat.
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Our One Word - Martha Johnson Bourlakas
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The method in these pages is my framework for Our One Word workshops and retreats. Many participants and I have found these words and resources to be remarkable catalysts for story-sharing, problem-solving, and action. I intend for this book to be a guide for your own Our One Word sessions, groups, and retreats. This is all intended to be a beginning to a larger, deeper, more meaningful conversation within ourselves, with each other, and with the Holy Spirit. Some days, all we can do is begin.
Although each chapter is not exactly the same, the general, consistent structure is that of a story, with a beginning, middle, and end. With this structure, I want us to reflect on our own life stories—the ones that may have already ended and the ones that are still unsolved mysteries. We begin with as complete a definition of the word as possible from the comprehensive online Oxford Dictionary. Although we all generally know what words mean, it’s interesting to consider how definitions can become distorted when they are not contemplated. We may miss the alternate meanings or nuances. Different meanings can point us to different understandings.
After the definitions, we look at spiritual sources for the word. I come from a Christian perspective, so I include references to the word from the Bible. Although I am less informed about sources from other religious traditions, I try to look to those sources too, when possible, in hopes that we expand our learning from and communication with each other. Although I include specific Bible verses, I do not assume that these verses are ever taken out of historical context or removed from the limitations of human interpretation. I do assume that the most primary messages of the Bible and the life of Jesus are that life is not meant to be easy or simple. Despite this, because of this, we must love, love each other. We desperately need each other.
After the spiritual sources, we look at the use of the word within our culture—in literature, poetry, song, plays, movies, sometimes even commercials. As God, the Word, became flesh and lived among us in Jesus Christ, so do our own words and stories live and walk and work in this life, in this culture, with all its creative chaos and fleshly imperfection. In this world, not some soft, pillowy escape, we must seek the grace and truth in each other that mirror the eternal grace and truth of God. In the symbolic reciprocity of words in the Spirit and words in the world, I pray we experience God’s presence, especially in the most human of moments—in our arguments, in our illnesses, in our loneliness, in the dark alleyways of our lives.
All of the suggested activities are intended to fuse creativity with internal and spiritual questioning and seeking, but I am flexible (at least in some areas). Heck, I am not even sitting there with you. Where I suggest writing, go ahead and draw. Where I suggest drawing, go sit in the dirt of your garden and map some stones. The goal is to push yourself creatively—to work away from saying, I am not a writer or I am not an artist—into an awareness that we are all creative beings in some way. Creating and recreating is the joy of the Holy Spirit. She doesn’t care if we draw with stick figures, dance, or sprinkle glitter. Within Our One Word, you have time. No one will grade your work, judge your work, send it to your mother, unless, of course, you want to send it to your mother. Try these exercises and let me know how they go.
We end each word chapter with a prayer, many times from Women’s Uncommon Prayers, an Episcopal source written by and for women. Truthfully, there are times that Our One Word group discussions are so rich and lively that I forget to pray in the end before it’s time for everyone to go eat dinner. It works as both an excuse and a truth to claim that the conversation, the laughter, the tears, the forgetting is all an important form of prayer. We sit together, exposing ourselves with full vulnerability to God. The ending prayers in these chapters, which my editor, Nancy, has made sure I have not forgotten, are intended to be the reflective prayer of each word and session. The way we balance conversation with quiet questions: Where was God in this moment, this story, this lifetime? Where am I with God?
Our One Word should lead you to ask many questions of each other and yourself. One question I ask groups over and over after each session is, What surprised you? I want to know if there is something about the word, quotation, or activity that catches you off guard or leads you to something new. The surprises of the Holy Spirit sometimes leave us basking in a soft bath of multicolored confetti. Other times, She leaves us flat on our asses, scraped up, scrambling to get off the unforgiving concrete. If we pay attention to the anger, confusion, joy of even a small surprise, we can awaken, change,