The Female Body and Sex: An Intimate Guide for Men

By Ben Scoria

Do you want to feel more confident with women? Take a guided tour of female sexual anatomy – what you see and feel and what’s hidden inside. There are chapters on meeting new partners, getting to know them, exploratory kisses, making out, intimate caresses, foreplay, sex positions and intercourse; it’s all included. Read this and improve your love-making skills.

Table of Contents
Introduction
1: Her Breasts
2: Her External Genitalia
3: Her Vagina
4: Her Internal Reproductive Organs
5: Her Menstrual Cycle & Periods
6: Sexual Intercourse
7: Avoiding Pregnancy
8: Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
9: Getting to Know Her
10: Getting Physical
11: The Sexual Response Cycle
12: Making Out
13: Caressing her Bottom and Breasts
14: Foreplay
15: Oral Sex
16: Penis in Vagina Sex
17: Sex Positions
18: What Next?

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ben Scoria
• Release date: Mar 29, 2018
• ISBN: 9781370735945

Ben Scoria

Author of “The Female Body and Sex: An Intimate Guide for Men” This was the book I wanted when I was younger. Writing it was fun. Try writing your own guide :).

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The Female Body and Sex

An Intimate Guide for Men

by

Ben Scoria

Text copyright © 2018 Ben Scoria

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Table of Contents

Introduction

1: Her Breasts

2: Her External Genitalia

3: Her Vagina

4: Her Internal Reproductive Organs

5: Her Menstrual Cycle & Periods

6: Sexual Intercourse

7: Avoiding Pregnancy

8: Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)

9: Getting to Know Her

10: Getting Physical

11: The Sexual Response Cycle

12: Making Out

13: Caressing her Bottom and Breasts

14: Foreplay

15: Oral Sex

16: Penis in Vagina Sex

17: Sex Positions

18: What Next?

Introduction

Read this book to learn how the female body works and how to be good at making love. Even if you’ve been having sex for years, it’s surprising how much you can still learn and how much fun you can have learning it.

Women enjoy sex, but they don’t want sex with just any guy. Women value both emotional and physical intimacy. Before a woman has sex with you, she wants to feel comfortable in your company and know she can trust you. She wants an emotional connection.

Every man and woman is different, and what turns couples on when they have sex varies considerably. It’s likely to change during the course of relationships too.

The book opens with a guided tour of female sexual anatomy. It includes what you see and feel and what’s hidden inside. There’s a description of her menstrual cycle. Understanding this is important for birth control and the impact her menstrual cycle may have on your sex life together.

There are chapters on meeting up with new partners, getting to know them and, as attraction develops, breaking the touch barrier.

There are descriptions of the sexual response cycle, kissing, making out, and how to pleasure her with your fingers and your tongue. The final chapters cover penetrative penis-in-vagina sex, with details of how to have sex in some of the more common sex positions.

It’s important that you’re aware your partner’s reactions to what you do. Learn to sense what she enjoys and what makes her uncomfortable. Pick up on non-verbal signals and talk to her. If she enjoys sex, you’ll enjoy it too.

Only engage in sexual activities that you both do willingly and enthusiastically, and that comply with the laws of your country and the country where you’re having sex.

How you use this book is up to you. Read it in the order that suits you best.

It might be fun to read this book with your partner and enhance your love-making skills together.

Read it and have great sex.

1: Her Breasts

A woman’s breasts play an important role in foreplay, when you kiss and fondle them to get her sexually excited. As she becomes aroused, her nipples stiffen and become erect. Some women’s nipples are more responsive and stand out more than others.

Her breasts are fascinating. They change shape depending on whether she has her arms at her sides or above her head. If her breasts are small, they may almost disappear when she lies down.

The primary biological function of a woman’s breasts is to produce milk for her baby in the first months of its life. Her breasts contain milk-producing lobules and ducts that carry the milk to her nipples when she’s breastfeeding. Her breasts also contain fatty tissue.

Fig. 1: Breast Anatomy

The darker area around the nipple is called the areola (plural areolae). Look closely at the right-hand areola in figure 1 and you can see small raised bumps. These are areolar glands. They make oily secretions to lubricate and protect the areola and the nipple. When a woman is sexually aroused or breastfeeding, these secretions contain pheromones, chemicals that signal sexual desire and readiness. During breastfeeding, pheromones attract the baby to its mother’s breast, making it open its mouth, stick out its tongue, and start to suck.

Breast Size and Shape

The genes that she inherits from her parents and the amount of fatty tissue both play an important role in determining the size, shape and firmness of a woman’s breasts. The areolae, the darker circles of flesh surrounding the nipples, can vary considerably in size and color too.

Fatty tissue accounts for much of the breast’s size. Larger breasts contain more fatty tissue than smaller breasts. After a woman gives birth, the fatty tissue insulates the milk producing lobules, keeping the milk warm when she’s breastfeeding her baby.

How firm a woman’s breasts feel depends on her skin tone – how tightly her skin holds the fatty tissue in place. A network of suspensory ligaments runs through the fatty tissue and this also helps maintain her breast’s shape and elasticity.

A woman’s breasts and nipples are one of her erogenous zones, a part of her body that gets her aroused when touched or stimulated. This is discussed in detail in the chapter on caressing her bottom and breasts.

2: Her External Genitalia

A woman’s external sex organs are called her vulva, external genitalia, or external reproductive organs. No two women’s faces look the same, and the same is true of their genitalia. They come in all different shapes and sizes. Also the appearance of a woman’s vulva changes with her state of sexual arousal.

If a woman stands in front of you naked, what you see between her legs depends on whether she has pubic hair and if she’s sexually aroused.

If she has lots of pubic hair, it may conceal her external sex organs.

Reviews for The Female Body and Sex

[Martin Council · Rating: 1 out of 5 stars]

I think my problems with the book are all encapsulated in this: “Getting to Know Her” is number nine in the table of contents. The problem men have with sex is that they forget they are making love with a women, not her body. Starting this book out with “Her Breasts” makes the book sound like an owner’s manual for a blow up doll.