The Wesley Challenge Participant Book: 21 Days to a More Authentic Faith
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In The Wesley Challenge Participant Book small groups or whole churches will spend three weeks working through 21 questions that will engage their physical, spiritual and emotional lives and their relationship with God and others.
With fast-paced emphasis on graphics and short content bits, the challenge will inspire us to a new kind of commitment—one that is more authentic, vulnerable and soul shaping resulting in thousands of people who have a renewed passion to discover deeper levels of commitment to God and others.
Additional components for a three-week study include a comprehensive leader guide and a DVD featuring author Chris Folmsbee, and a youth study guide.
Chris Folmsbee
Chris Folmsbee has served as a youth pastor for nearly 15 years, and now serves as a volunteer youth worker in his local church. He currently leads Barefoot Ministries, a youth ministry training and publishing company located in Kansas City, and is on staff with Youthfront. Chris is the author of several books including his most recent, Story, Signs, and Sacred Rhythms: A Narrative Approach to Youth Ministry. He lives in Overland Park, Kansas, with his wife, Gina, and their three children, Megan, Drew, and Luke.
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The Wesley Challenge Participant Book - Chris Folmsbee
The Wesley Challenge
The Wesley Challenge:
21 Days to a More Authentic Faith
The Wesley Challenge
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CHRIS FOLMSBEE
the
WESLEY
challenge
21 DAYS TO A MORE AUTHENTIC FAITH
The Wesley Challenge
21 Days to a More Authentic Faith
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Scripture quotations are taken from the Common English Bible, copyright 2011. Used by permission. All rights reserved..
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MANUFACTURED IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
Dedicated to the amazing people of The United
Methodist Church of the Resurrection. I am grateful for
the opportunity to serve you as we all strive to become
deeply committed Christians. Enjoy the journey of
knowing, loving, and serving God!
CONTENTS
Foreword
Introduction
Relationship with God: an Upward Focus
Is Jesus real to me?
Am I enjoying prayer?
Do I insist upon doing something about which my conscience is uneasy?
Did the Bible live in me today?
Did I disobey God in anything?
Do I pray about the money I spend?
Do I give time for the Bible to speak to me every day?
Relationship with Self: an Inward Focus
Am I proud?
Am I defeated in any part of my life?
Do I go to bed on time and get up on time?
Do I grumble or complain constantly?
Am I a slave to dress, friends, work, or habits?
How do I spend my spare time?
Am I self-conscious, self-pitying, or self-justifying?
Relationship with Others: an Outward Focus
Do I thank God that I am not like others?
Am I consciously or unconsciously creating the impression that I am better than I am? In other words, am I a hypocrite?
Do I confidentially pass on to others what was told to me in confidence?
Am I jealous, impure, critical, irritable, touchy, or distrustful?
Am I honest in all my actions and words, or do I exaggerate?
Is there anyone whom I fear, dislike, disown, criticize, hold resentment toward, or disregard?
When did I last speak to someone about my faith?
Notes
Acknowledgments
FOREWORD
If you visit Lincoln College at Oxford University, and you ask around, you’ll be shown a second-floor room, overlooking the green. Step inside and you’ll find a room intended to capture the birthplace of Methodism. Here John Wesley, an instructor or fellow of Lincoln College, would meet with a handful of undergraduate students, including Charles, his younger brother, to study Scripture, to pray, to read and reflect upon other works on the Christian life, and to encourage one another in their pursuit of the Christian life. John would later call these meetings, the first rise of Methodism.
The meetings were not an end in themselves. They were intended to so shape the soul of participants that their everyday lives were changed. And changed they were. This small band of Christians sought to, in the words of Wesley, have the love of God shed abroad in his heart by the Holy Ghost given unto him.
They sought to love God and love their neighbor. Their faith moved beyond the walls of the university, and it was seen in their service to the poor, visiting the prisoners, and love for their fellow human beings.
It’s been said that among the most important things leaders do is ask the right questions. Wesley had learned from others the value of asking questions of one’s spiritual life. Among the best-known advocates for the practice of critical self-examination through probing questions was the sixteenth-century priest, Saint Ignatius of Loyola. His daily examen
continues to guide the spiritual life of millions of believers. Wesley and the early Methodists developed several sets of questions aimed at helping Christians grow deeper and to become all together Christian.
Among the practices of those earliest Methodists was the asking of one another a series of twenty-one (or twenty-two) questions intended to strip away pretense, expose the motives of the heart, and lead toward a holiness. The truth be told, I had read these questions on several occasions, but I had not spent much time thinking about them. But one day, Chris Folmsbee, with whom I have the privilege of serving at The United Methodist Church of the Resurrection, came to my office excited about an idea. He said that he believed the questions asked among the Oxford Methodists might have value for Christians today.
Chris was not the first to suggest this, but he was the first person I knew to be so passionate that he began to map out a plan to help our church, and other churches, reclaim these powerful questions. He asked if I would consider setting aside three weeks in our church’s calendar to preach on these twenty-one questions. He had already grouped Wesley’s questions into three broad categories which would form the basis of the three weeks of sermons. He and his team prepared twenty-one daily readings to go along with each of the questions.
Our congregation was energized by this three-week emphasis. We had thousands who were reading and reflecting upon the daily question and devotional that was prepared to go with it. Our small groups and classes met together to ask each other the questions and to ponder their meaning. The small group I am in used the material and found it to be challenging and refreshing.
At the end of the three weeks, I felt we’d moved our congregation forward in the Christian life. We were more cognizant of our own shortcomings, had a deeper desire to become the people God wanted us to be, and had invited the Holy Spirit’s help in forming us into authentic Christ-followers.
The truth is that the pursuit of these questions through the study you hold in your hand is not something that is once and done.
Wesley and the Oxford Methodists continued asking these questions over and over and over again. My hunch, and hope, is that you will return to this book again and again as you seek to become the Christian God intends for you to be.
Adam Hamilton
INTRODUCTION
I’ve spent the better part of my adult life looking for consistent ways to develop my spiritual life and continuing my journey of becoming a deeply committed Christian. I’ve tried and tried to develop disciplines or habits that help me live into God’s intention for my life—to live a whole life, a life of total love for God and others. This pursuit has led me to be steadfastly aware of my relationship with God, my relationship with myself, and, of course, my relationship with others.
I am sure you have also figured out in your spiritual journey that in order for something to become a pattern or habit, you have to work to simply do it. Whatever it is—prayer, fasting, simplicity, solitude—you have to consciously and consistently act over and over again for a desired virtue to become a way of life.
This is not just true in the spiritual life. For example, a baseball player must repeatedly hit balls off a tee or in a batting cage for hours and hours to develop the muscle memory that leads to hitting in a game. A pilot must fly a certain number of hours so that the necessary reading of the instruments and the proper turning of the dials and flipping of the switches become second nature in order for the pilot to make quick, correct decisions. Would you want to fly with a pilot who doesn’t have the mandatory flight time recorded? Preachers or public speakers must practice the fundamentals of effective communication skills many times before they would be considered one with
the art of speaking or preaching.
This is true of all people in all stages of life. My son, for example, who is currently thirteen, is an expert at video games. He didn’t get to be an expert by playing one game, one time, if you know what I mean. To master a craft or skill we must do three things—practice, practice, and practice—and we must be disciplined to do it regularly.
To develop a guiding set of personal life virtues (or Christian practices), experimenting with ideas and exercises is necessary. We don’t value something because we say we do. We value something because what we do shows that we value it. I