Retirement: A New Adventure
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Just as students need a plan for starting a career, everyone needs a plan for retirement. After a lifetime of work, it is fitting that your later years will be fulfilling and enjoyable. Even if you are already retired, you can still develop a plan. As you read the book, you will find information about how others went from careers to retirement to positive adventures.
A portion of the book relates the authors experiences as he planned for retirement; in addition to the experiences of eighteen retirees who completed a questionnaire about their retirement experiences. Also, in-depth case studies of four retirees are included in the book to illustrate how each person approached their own retirement. Hopefully, as you read through the case studies, you will find a similarity to your own career and life situation. You will see how others have made decisions and plans that may be beneficial to you in making your retirement plans.
Christopher Borman
Christopher Borman lives in Houston with his wife, Ruth. He is Professor Emeritus at the University of Texas-San Antonio. Chris was also on the faculty in Counseling Psychology at Texas A&M University (College Station) for twenty-one years. He enjoys spending time with his three daughters and their families including three granddaughters and one grandson.
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Retirement - Christopher Borman
Retirement:
A New Adventure
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Christopher Borman
iUniverse, Inc.
New York Bloomington
Retirement
A New Adventure
Copyright © 2009 Christopher Borman
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ISBN: 978-1-4401-6802-4 (sc)
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2009936190
Printed in the United States of America
iUniverse rev. date: 09/22/2009
Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Chapter 1
The Longevity Attitude
Chapter 2
Deciding to Retire:
My Experience
Chapter 3
Survey of Retirees
Chapter 4
Reasons for Retiring
Chapter 5
Retirement Experiences
Chapter 6
The Role of Spirituality
in Retirement
Chapter 7
Planning for Retirement—Case Studies
Chapter 8
Making Retirement a
Positive Adventure
Addendum
References
About the Author
Acknowledgments
There are many individuals who contributed to the writing of this book. I want to thank the people who completed the retirement questionnaires. Their time and insights are appreciated. Also, the individuals who sat for the case studies devoted considerable time to this project, and the doctoral students who assisted me in the case studies deserve thanks.
My life has been blessed by having a wonderful family, especially my wife, Ruth. She has devoted considerable time and effort to this book—typing, editing, and revising. Also, our daughter, Claire, assisted in preparing the manuscript.
Introduction
As a university professor in the field of counseling psychology, I have been thinking about and planning to write a book on retirement for several years. With a doctorate in counseling, I taught at Texas A&M University (College Station) for twenty-one years and then at The University of Texas–San Antonio for thirteen years. I am currently Professor Emeritus at UT San Antonio.
Before receiving my doctorate and my university teaching experience, I was a counselor at Technical-Vocational High School in Hammond, Indiana for six years. My interest in career counseling evolved in this position as I found that many students had no idea what they wanted to do as a career. Many of them probably ended up going to work in the local steel mills or oil refineries like their parents. My early involvement with young people making career decisions spurred my interest within the field of counseling to the concentrations of career counseling and career development. I have published numerous articles in areas relating to career counseling. Also, I have become very interested in descriptive research and case studies that describe the career experiences of individuals.
It has been a long and interesting journey from working with high school students to retirees. In this book I attempt to describe actual experiences of people as they planned for retirement and then what they experienced when they retired.
Just as students need a plan for starting a career, I think that everyone needs a plan for retirement. After a lifetime of work, it is fitting that your later years will be fulfilling and enjoyable. Even if you are already retired, you can still develop a plan. As you read the following chapters, you will find information on how others went from careers to retirement to positive adventures. The first chapter deals with the longevity attitude. Research shows that longevity is related more to lifestyle and attitude than heredity. Suggestions are given for developing a healthy attitude.
A major portion of the book relates my experiences as I planned for retirement and the experiences of eighteen retirees who completed a questionnaire about their retirement experiences. Also, I have included in-depth case studies of four retirees. Hopefully, as you read through the case studies, you will find a similarity to your own career and life situation. You will see how others have made decisions and plans that may be beneficial to you in making retirement plans. I hope that you find this book interesting and useful as you plan and/or experience retirement.
Chapter 1
The Longevity Attitude
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In 1998, David Mahoney, a businessman and advocate of brain research, and Richard Restak, M.D., a neurologist and psychiatrist, published a book entitled The Longevity Strategy: How to Live to 100 Using the Brain-Body Connection. They made the point that heredity is responsible for only about one-quarter of the variation in human life spans. The rest of the variation is due to living