Altar(Ed) Girl: One Woman’S True Story of Confronting Clergy Sexual Abuse
By C.M. Morgan
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Feeling spiritually lost and emotionally worn out, C.M. found her soul and her long-lost self during her six-month hiatus traveling throughout Australia. Finding and embracing forgiveness proved, once again, that our history is not our destiny.
Through the power of love and guidance from friends and complete strangers, she celebrates her victories, while realizing the power of confronting the demons and trusting oneself.
C.M. Morgan
This is the story of a profound experience in C.M. Morgan's life. By facing her fears and sharing her story, she learns, among many other life lessons, that forgiveness is the path to acceptance and self-love. Her experience with finding her perpetrator and five-year litigation against the Los Angeles Roman Catholic Archdiocese regarding childhood sexual abuse should be shared with all - survivors and non-survivors alike. C.M. lives in Minneapolis with her wife, newborn baby, and their dog, Morgan. They also venture to their part-time home in Pahoa, Hawai’i, several times each year.
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Altar(Ed) Girl - C.M. Morgan
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ISBN: 978-1-4525-8891-9 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4525-8892-6 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2013923107
Balboa Press rev. date: 1/14/2014
Contents
Chapter One
Chapter Two
Chapter Three
Chapter Four
Chapter Five
Chapter Six
Chapter Seven
Chapter Eight
Chapter Nine
Chapter Ten
Chapter Eleven
Chapter Twelve
Epilogue
I dreamed of being an altar boy…
not an altered girl.
Chapter One
Spring 2010 — Los Angeles, CA
I’m in Running Springs, California for two weeks to help my Pops recover from hip replacement surgery. This is the same guy with whom I stopped talking in my late 20’s. Now I’m making his lunch, helping him down the steps with his walker and driving him to doctor appointments. I live in St. Cloud, MN and for the past year I Skype with my dad most every Sunday evening. I have my lovely partner Ashlynn to thank for the consistency of these weekly phone calls. I really did not think my dad cared one way or the other, he wears his logic on his sleeve and his emotions are tucked away in a drawer somewhere in downtown businessville. But after the first few video-chats, Ashlynn noticed that he really likes talking with me, that it’s good for me to have this relationship with my dad. I believe her and so, now I’m back here in California assisting with his recovery.
On any given Sunday afternoon, she would ask, Hey, you gonna Skype with your dad tonight?
The first few times she did this, I could not understand why she was asking, I was suspicious… of what, I don’t know. Why did she care if I talked to my dad? She told me that my dad looks forward to these chats. I was honestly puzzled, having never had a solid, enjoyable relationship with my father since my teen years, and I never had a partner who truly cared about my relationships with my biological family. Then one day, it happened – I got a text message from my Pops! My 78-year old dad was texting me from his little flip phone mobile, Hey u pops here Skype later?
With the biggest smile on my face, I about cried.
He lives in the mountains with my wonderful step-mom Marilyn, works full time in private practice as a clinical psychologist and had been trying to manage the painful degeneration of his right hip joint for about eight months. A doctor finally managed to see that it needed to be replaced and so he got the surgery last week. My Pops - who never needs any type of pain medication, hasn’t imbibed in alcohol or smoked anything in over 25 years, ran more marathons than I know about and still rides his Harley Deuce, now in trike form - had to get surgery. It is his first serious surgery and so I cancelled work for a couple of weeks to help him out. It was an odd choice for me to make on so many levels and of course, Ashlynn was completely supportive.
She keeps suggesting that I write, so I finally attempt the feat. She suggests that I write my story
and my inner cynic replies quickly, Everyone has their own story, who cares about mine?
Then, when I slow down and sit quiet, I become aware, once again, that it’s just my ego blabbering on. I’ve learned that ego likes to swing in an algebraic sort of way with its I’m greater than/less than (but not equal to) you
formula. Stating that my story is not important, which I know is a false, self-defeating thought, keeps me in a moment of focused attention from others who will then say, No, really C.M., you should write…
And so it goes, avoiding attentive care to my soul for fear of becoming too self-focused keeps the focus on my fear. So I just let go and let love take the reins.
I am not even sure how to write this story. Do I continue in a chronological manner or just do the stream of consciousness, rapid writing method. My brain wants to control the process: Attention! All thoughts will now proceed in a calm and orderly manner! I keep a watchful third-eye on any memories or ideas that might stray out of line, then watch them run wild through my hands as I type and I learn that it truly is good to write your story.
In the quiet moments, when I sit long enough to feel my own heart beating, I go deep inside and find the true self. Stepping up and to the right of my ego lives all that beautiful spirit/core/fire/unearthly unself of pure light energy and love. Thesaurus describes the antonym of ego as humility, meekness and servility. Humble, yes. Meek and servile? No and sometimes. I’m often just one of the masses holding the massiveness of all one-pure-love. I’m okay with the idea that my presence is just one in the crowd. When I’m stuck in traffic on the freeway, I acquiesce to the knowledge that I am part of that traffic slowing me down. I am part of that long line causing me to wait in a long line and I find it somehow comforting, a reminder that I am one of us. We’re all one of the same universal light just walking around in different bodies. The human part is just a soul delivery system… or maybe it’s the other way around, I can’t remember.
Sugar, the pint-sized Chihuahua scratches at my chest and even though she’s already sitting cozy in the crook of my arm she wants more, wants to go deeper in order to get more comfortable. I mean, don’t we all want that, just in reverse? I prefer to get more comfortable before I go deeper and for the past few years, I kept trying to snuggle my way toward stability so the depth would be easier to digest, so I could breathe without a regulator, so I could think and not feel but it just didn’t happen that way, not for me, anyway. So I try to listen to my guides instead of my