#Upcycle Your Job: The smart way to balance family life and career
By Anna Meller
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Anna Meller believes it’s high time we #Upcycled our jobs and careers to fit today's lifestyles and meet women's changed expectations. Her PROPEL model offers ambitious working mothers new possibilities for progressing their corporate careers.
In this book, Anna leads you through an evidence-based six step process that supports you in finding the balance you need. Practical exercises enable you to craft a working arrangement that meets your employer’s expectations as well as your own aspirations, and to develop the key skills you need to maintain it.
Anna Meller
Anna Meller is the UK’s leading work re-balance expert. She works with ambitious professional women seeking to balance corporate career with family life. Based on 25 years’ coaching and consulting experience Anna has developed the PROPEL model which forms the heart of this book and which is designed to empower women to make choices that work for them and their employers. So they progress their careers and their employers retain key talent. Anna has an MSc in Occupational Psychology, is a Chartered Fellow of the CIPD and a founding member of the BPS Division of Occupational Psychology’s working group on work-life balance. Her early working life involved a series of line HR roles mainly in Financial Services.
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#Upcycle Your Job - Anna Meller
Introduction
Imagine a younger version of you. An ambitious recent graduate now working in the perfect first job at the start of her professional journey. You’re excited, hopeful, committed to your career. You’ve just bought your first ‘power suit’ which cost an arm and a leg but was well worth it. It’s a fabulous designer creation that makes you feel great when you wear it to those important meetings and interviews.
Fast forward ten years and the suit is still in your wardrobe, still looking great. You’ve taken good care of it, but you’ve not really thought about it recently as you’ve been undergoing some big life changes. Now you’re ready to put it on again – and when you do it no longer seems to fit. Somehow it seems to restrict your movement and doesn’t quite reflect who you are any more. You still like it and remember how great it used to make you feel. So what do you do? You have two choices – discard it or upcycle it.
Now imagine we’re not talking about a suit, but about the corporate career you’ve been developing for the past ten years. Since you became a mother it – like the suit – no longer seems to fit. What are you going to do?
Every year thousands of women discard a corporate career that no longer seems to fit their lifestyle. It’s a decision that could cost them up to £300,000 over their working lives; but it doesn’t have to be like this. In an era where we upcycle other parts of our lives, why not upcycle your corporate career?
When I search for an online definition of upcycling I learn that it means to improve something we would otherwise discard in such a way that we create something of higher quality or value than the original.
There’s been an exponential rise in the popularity of upcycling in recent years. When we upcycle we take an item of clothing or furniture we may have once loved – or where we see the potential for creating something we will love. Where we were once tempted to discard our belongings as they got older, now we’re consciously choosing to transform them into something better.
When we upcycle we’ll often draw on skills passed down to us by our mothers and grandmothers. Then we’ll add a modern twist – perhaps an eco-conscious paint or an up to date restyle of a jacket. And voila! We’re left with an item that reflects our new lifestyle. One that we can love all over again.
For some time I’ve been thinking about applying those same principles to our jobs and our careers. There’s a lot about the corporate world that needs upcycling: cultures based on mid 20th century norms; working practices out of line with 21st century social expectations; models of career progression grounded in outdated stereotypes. We’ll be considering all of these in detail in Part 1.
As a consequence, when we transition to parenthood too many of us discard the careers we’ve been working so hard to build. Sometimes we’re seduced into thinking that something new will suit us better. We believe becoming a mumpreneur is our best choice.
And sometimes we simply feel we have no choice. Intransigent corporate cultures refuse to adjust to the new shape our lives have taken. We cut our cloth according to our circumstances. So we take a step back onto the ‘mommy track’ or decide to take a break until our offspring are ready for school.
These are costly decisions; and in many cases our earnings potential will never recover.
What if I told you there was a better way?
Women started breaching the corporate world in large numbers during the 1960s and 1970s as the economic boom fuelled demand for labour. They encountered workplaces set up for ‘ideal workers’ – organisations that ignored women’s dual roles as both caregivers and employees. For over half a century we’ve been waiting for employers to shift culture and mind-set. And the lack of women in the top layers of the pyramid confirms that progress has been slow – we’re still waiting.
Just as our mothers and grandmothers took things into their own hands, so it’s time for new generations of women to do the same. As an organisational psychologist and work–life balance expert I know it’s possible to restructure your working arrangement in ways that will both make you more productive and support your work–life balance.
The idea is to empower you – as an ambitious professional woman – to develop a personal route map that supports you in navigating both your work–life balance needs and your workplace culture. I want to open your eyes to new possibilities and inspire in you the confidence that you can be a Balanced Leader.
Why this book?
Recent years have seen a steady stream of books by high profile role models sharing their corporate journey. Women are hungry for new role models so that should be a good thing, right? While these books are inspirational the challenge lies in applying their wisdom to our own – often very different – life circumstances.
For the past 25 years I’ve been consulting on work–life balance matters in the corporate world. I’ve supported both private and public sector clients to improve work–life balance policies and practices. I’ve trained and coached women to make those small adjustments that make such a big impact when it comes to finding a balance that works for them. I’ve conducted ground breaking research into the work–life balance challenges faced by professional women. And as I’ve learnt more about the research evidence I’ve shared this with a wide range of audiences.
Based on all this, I’ve developed a practical six step process – PROPEL – that will enable you to create a working and living arrangement that meets your specific work–life balance needs while supporting you to remain on the corporate career ladder: so you get to lean in on your terms. The first two steps will help you pinpoint your own work–life balance Preferences and how you can combine the Roles of parent and employee in ways that support balance rather than creating conflict.
Steps three and four offer practical advice on how to upcycle your job for better balance. You’ll consider the Options open to you – given the nature of your employer’s corporate culture; and the Possibilities for restructuring your work. Step five provides an opportunity to evaluate your Essential skills. And finally, in step six I offer a new model of Balanced Leadership.
Think of it as three projects that will show you how to upcycle your work–life balance, your working practices and your leadership skills.
As with any upcycling project we’ll strip out what’s no longer working; reshape our pared down structure; and assess our current skills and resources. This will result in the clarity of focus we need to create a life that makes us smile.
What to expect from this book
The book is laid out in three parts. In the first I’ve provided a summary of the complex issues that get in the way of women’s corporate career progression and what we can do to change the situation. I hope you’ll find this background useful, but if you’re itching to upcycle your own work–life balance you can jump straight into Part 2 (leaving Part 1 for bedtime reading at a later date).
Part 2 provides you with the opportunity to work through the PROPEL process, understand each step and apply it to your own life. The result is a more balanced life and a new way of thinking about Balanced Leadership.
Part 3 introduces two powerful techniques from the school of positive psychology that you will find useful in navigating a more balanced future. Again, you don’t need to read Part 3 to gain the benefits of the PROPEL model. However, if you’re unfamiliar with the techniques discussed (Appreciative Inquiry and Solutions Focus) you will benefit from understanding the new – and very different – approaches to change taken by them.
I’ve tried to keep the theory to a minimum. But I’m assuming that as a smart and ambitious professional woman you want to know why I’m suggesting a particular approach. And as a proponent of evidence based practice I want to demonstrate why the approach works.
So, before you discard your corporate career join me in the pages of this book. I want to inspire you to upcycle it instead – so you can be your best self and offer your best contribution to the world. You’ll discover how much potential you have to upcycle your life. And the positive impact that will make on your wellbeing and your finances will delight you.
PART 1
PREPARING TO #UPCYCLE
CHAPTER 1
The three things we need to #Upcycle (or why women struggle to lean in)
Introduction
As I was writing this chapter the UK based Institute for Fiscal Studies (IFS) released a report revealing the wage gap in average hourly earnings between men and women had dropped to 20%. The gap has been closing gradually for all but graduate