All About Two Years
By Tosin Ojumu
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About this ebook
A short ebook from my relationship series and blog: "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" that is all about building an outstanding foundation for an outstanding Christian marriage. This ebook explains the most radical and controversial idea of my writings so far, the "Two Year Theory", that you should get to know someone for two full years before considering them romantically:
“... When discussing with my sister, she made a very obvious point. Namely this: who after all, can afford to wait for two years, checking someone out, in case they might be suitable? Well this is the thing. If you’re in a church, and there are various eligible singles, then it’s not as if you would check one person out exclusively for two years, then angrily cross them off your list, and go on to check out the next person. Rather, in the day to day or week to week interaction of church life, you would be getting to know everyone at once...”
Tosin Ojumu
Hello, my name is Tosin and for many years I have sat down and thought through questions about how to have an outstandingly successful marriage, and what I need to do before I get married to best ensure that successful marriage. Over the next few weeks and months I aim to publish a new ebook everyday from my blog and relationship series "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie." Visit my blog address listed here to see the full list of ebooks as well as video excerpts for each ebook :)
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All About Two Years - Tosin Ojumu
All About Two Years
Copyright 2019 by Tosin Ojumu
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This ebook was previously posted on my blog "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" on 02 February 2014.
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In this post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding the two year theory
. For people who do not regularly follow my relationship writings, what I mean by that is the idea of getting to know someone for a full two years