I Love You, I Hate You, But I Need You: How To Love Unconditionally for Someone Living with Borderline Personality

By Austen Lennon M.D.

Begin The Life-Long Loving And Healing Process With Someone Living With Borderline Personality Today

Borderline personality disorder is an extremely serious mental disorder of impulsive actions and usually has a chain of unstable relationships. You can see the disorder with marks of ongoing mood instabilities and other instabilities such as behavior, self-image, and function. The person with BPD has very high anger, depression, and anxiety episodes that can last from a few hours to a few days.

Are you living with someone suffering from Borderline Personality? Do you crave for your relationship with the person to return to a healthy and happy one? Are you looking to love this person unconditionally regardless of the condition that he or she is unintentionally putting you through?

Discover how you can begin the healing process through first treating them as unique and capable individual persons. Learn the ways you can affirm and validate the feelings of your loved one going through this debilitating condition. It is not so much a set of rules and guidelines as it is a way of life. At its heart is a belief that he or she is enough and doesn't need to be anything more than he or she already is. It begins with the emotional health of you and your partner or loved one to get through the tough time and daily challenges the relationship will bring you.

       

In "I LOVE YOU, BUT I HATE YOU, BUT I NEED YOU" You Will Learn:

• What Borderline Personality Disorder Really Is
• How To Identify If Someone You Care About Has BPD
• What Triggers and How One Gets This Disoder
• How To Provide Loving Guidance 
• To Treat The Sufferor As Valued Family Members Who Can Contribute To Decisions And Whose Input Is Valued 
• How To Cope With BPD in 5 Steps 
• Learn How To Accept Yourself If You Are The Sufferor of BPD 
• Advice On Providing Genuine Encouragement and Support Without Flattery
• How To Build Self-Esteem and Confidence To Face Challenges 
• To Develop A Deep and Meaningful Connection Between You And Your Kid(s)

And so much more...

***Bonus***

• Cutting Edge Treatments And Cures 
• How To Build Strong and Sustainable Relationships 
• Stories About People With Borderline Personality That Have Overcome It All

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• Language: English
• Publisher: Austen Lennon M.D.
• Release date: Mar 23, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393081562

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CONTENTS

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What Is Borderline Personality Disorder

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Borderline personality disorder is an extremely serious mental disorder of impulsive actions and usually has a chain of unstable relationships. You can see the disorder with marks of ongoing mood instabilities and other instabilities such as behavior, self-image, and function. The person with BPD has very high anger, depression, and anxiety episodes that can last from a few hours to a few days. You can have BPD in correlation to having mood disorders, anxiety disorders, eating disorders, substance abuse, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and suicide. Most medical professionals will agree with each other on the fact that the name Borderline Personality Disorder is misleading to the average citizen, but sadly a more accurate term does not exist yet.

There are many signs and symptoms of people with BPD, the most common that you will see is extreme mood swings. You can also see efforts to escape or avoid real abandonment or imagined abandonment. An unusual pattern of unstable relationships with your friends and family. It can sway from extreme closeness and love to hatred and anger. You will see them having a wrongly portrayed version of themselves or their self-image. You will also see many reckless behaviors such as spending outrageous amounts of money, abuse of substances, driving recklessly, and binging. Cutting and suicidal thoughts also show up in people with borderline personality disorder. Mood changes are regular with mood swings that last for a few hours to a few days. Many people with BPD observe a strong feeling of emptiness, uncontrollable anger, inappropriate comments, and having stress-related paranoid thoughts. Most people also feel cut off from themselves, as if they are observing themselves from outside of the body and slowly losing touch with reality. Any of these symptoms can be triggered by the minuscule events.

People with borderline personality disorder can see the anger in others while they are showing a neutral face and can also hear the anger in people's words more usually than people without BPD. Some of the symptoms above can also be traced back to other mental issues, and to people who don’t have any mental issues, so do not just assume someone around you have this disorder and go get a doctor’s diagnosis. A suitable medical professional needs to do a thorough assessment to see what outcome is appropriate.

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Borderline personality disorder affects 5.9% of adults during one stage of their life. That equates to about 14 million Americans having BPD. You can see a connection of mental disorders within the patients with multiple diagnoses. About half of the people with Alzheimer’s disease have borderline personality disorder. With others, like schizophrenia and bipolar disorders, are set around 2.25% of people. In psychiatric hospitals, about 20% of the patients are affected by it. In all outpatient treatments with mental health, BPD affects 10% of those patients. It is a theme to see this disorder around, possibly people you know could have it and no one knew. It seems like a small percentage because only 1 out of 20 people are affected you will still be around that 1. It is best to talk to your doctor if you have concerns beach being undiagnosed will hurt you especially with BPD. You need other's help to get more control of yourself, by treatment or by expressing all of those emotions. You can get past the spot that you are in now. Out professionals tell you that if they are engaged in any type of treatment that they are trying to help better themselves, and that is all they need for a good outcome. You can’t figure out everything on your own, you need a new perspective on it. You have been the only one analyzing your brain for all of these years so it will be a change to have another by your side doing the same. They care about you and the outcome you want to also get to. They will listen to whatever you have to say and they could even respond with something that

Reviews for I Love You, I Hate You, But I Need You

[Sara Fontaine · Rating: 1 out of 5 stars]

While this book may have useful information, I couldn’t get past the first few pages. It is very poorly written and the sentence structure and word selection make it seem like it was written by a child.

[Karen Bufford · Rating: 1 out of 5 stars]

Horrible! This MD is making it okay for already exasperated people to suck it up and be there for an abusive borderline family member or friend. It is NOT okay for people to behave badly and blame it on someone else. It is also Not acceptable for anyone to have to endure threatening behavior like suicidal threats or overlook self1injury. I am not being cruel but some people need to experience loss when they emotionally highjack another person’s life. I work in the field and need to say lol, where did these statistics come from? MDs do not have to study statistics and it shows!