Shugyo Fit
By Rodney King
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Shugyo Fit - Rodney King
Shugyō Fit
The Balance between Fighter & Artist
I'm full of fire, full of anger, and full of hate.
I'm haunted by the dreams that keep me up late.
I'm full of love, full of happiness, and full of joy.
But I still am confused if I'm a man or just a boy.
—from the poem My Native Warrior,
by Mikela Jones (age 18)
Shugyō Fit
The Balance between Fighter & Artist
Rodney King
Published by Full Contact Living
2016
© 2016. Rodney King. All rights reserved.
No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without written permission from the publisher/author.
ISBN: 978-0-620-68942-7
For information, contact: rodney@coachrodneyking.com
Printed in the United States of America.
Visit:www.shugyofit.com
Dedication
Dedicated to all my students, who kept me motivated, inspired, and truthful over all these years.
Contents
Introduction 01
You Have Always Been Fighting Yourself! 03
Bringing Balance to The Force 07
Putting ‘Art’ Back into ‘Martial’ 18
Lesson 1: The Warriors Journey 32
Lesson 2: Shoshin: Beginner’s Mind 47
Lesson 3: When Slow is Fast 53
Lesson 4: Wei Wu Wei 58
Lesson 5: Yin Yang 63
Lesson 6: Dvandva 68
Lesson 7: Koru 71
Lesson 8: Shibui 73
Lesson 9: Zen Mind, Warrior Body 76
Lesson 10: Sati 80
Lesson 11: Mantra of Prana 91
Lesson 12: Wei Ji 96
Conclusion 99
About The Author 102
Macintosh HD:Users:rodneyking:Desktop:shugyo book photos:rodney-1.jpgIntroduction
To say that I’ve lived an unconventional life is an understatement.
Growing up on the gritty streets on the South side of Johannesburg, South Africa, in government housing (similar to housing projects in the US) taught me early on that how smart you are means nothing compared to how tough you are. I was bullied relentlessly as a kid, to the point where I had to take ‘secret’ routes from school and within my neighbourhood just to make it home safely.
But home wasn’t safe either. My mother, a raging alcoholic would fly into fits of anger, smashing things against the wall—or more frequently, my head. When I was 17, during yet another one of her drunken outbursts, she kicked me out of the house. Destitute, alone, and with less than $20 in my pocket, I found myself sleeping on a bench in the park where I used to play as a kid.
My future, if I even had one, consisted of a giant neon sign, blinking: FAILURE.
I was destined to become another statistic, eaten up by poverty, poor parenting, and lack of education.
But, somehow, I beat the odds and proved everyone wrong. Although I didn’t know it then, through my passion for martial arts and the lessons learned on the mat, in the ring, and on the streets, I would reach the pinnacle of personal and professional success.
This book is a modest attempt to outline some of these lessons. More than the lessons of fighting, it focuses on the lessons of becoming a martial artist. Through seeing the importance of what is often considered the softer side of martial arts (and sadly overlooked today), I was able to break free from my past, and carve a new path to personal mastery.
- Rodney King, 2016
You Have Always Been Fighting Yourself
For the past two decades, I have been punching people in the face, and those people have been punching me back. When I wasn’t doing that, I found myself rolling around on the floor with sweaty people, where we tried to take each other’s limbs off (metaphorically speaking, of course). As if that wasn’t crazy enough, people paid me to do this to them. If you don’t know much about me, I am a full-time martial arts coach. I have taught special-forces military units, world-champion fighters, and everyone in-between.
In all the years that I have been fighting, my final realisation has been this: I never fought anyone. The only person I ever fought against was myself. Friedrich Nietzsche, the famous German philosopher, wrote In times of peace, the warlike man attacks himself.
I would say, that a warlike man uses violence against others, precisely because he is too afraid to know himself (I guess we are alluding to the same thing). Because he fears his inner demons, he chases darkness on the outside to avoid facing (and bringing light to) the darkness within. If martial arts has taught me anything, it has taught me who I really am, and that who I thought I was, was never who I really was to begin with (how’s that for a bit of Zen?). The experience of martial (meaning warlike
) performance, on the mat against another person, brings to life the truth of who you really are in that moment, or at least that’s what I have been telling myself. It’s true though, if you are afraid, you know it. If you feel anxious, you know it. If you doubt yourself, you know it. But you don’t show any of this to the person in front of you, because staying stoic when you are shitting yourself is a good strategy when someone wants to beat the crap out of you.
In those moments of truth, you can use that insecurity, that fear, that anxiety, as fuel to beat the person in front of you with martial skill, or you can chose to use that fuel to face down your inner opponents with art and turn them into character strengths. This book is about the latter (albeit built on a foundation of the former).
I have realised that my martial art journey has been about what the Japanese term shugyo. This word translates in different ways, and is used differently depending on the circumstance, but for the purpose of this book it is meant to imply ‘determined training that fosters enlightenment’. For the past several years, I have gone from focusing purely on the effectiveness of martial technique in a fight, to seriously becoming a student of the art. I have been criticised for it, too. Pundits of the hard-core reality-based martial-arts world have characterised my approach as new age-y.
This attitude alone points to a kind of institutional cancer within the modern martial arts world. More often than not, the focus seems to be exclusively on the fight, to the exclusion of anything that aims at personal mastery. In other words, using martial arts to do less violence, not just against other people, but especially against oneself seems to be frowned upon. In contrast, I have chosen to find (and then create) a positive expression of modern martial arts—not only for my own sanity, but to help my clients steer clear of the negative side-effects of modern martial art training. Unfortunately, the media celebrate the hype of the fight and ignore the dark underbelly of modern martial arts. Hardly anyone talks about the potential negative psychological and emotional side-effects of training for a career (or even a hobby
) where, trapped in a cage, your sole goal is to beat the crap out of your opponent.
Over the past few years, martial arts has become, at least for me, about transcending the need to fight, both myself and others. From this perspective, we are moving from simply the martial to a more balanced approach in which art plays an equal role. My practice of shugyo fitness has become a way to tighten the slack of my inner game, through tough martial-art training where using my body is the only tool, thus allowing me to polish my spirit (or at least get a slight shine on it). My dojo, the experiential ground for this personal test and transformation, has been a simple padded floor, or what I call the mat
. The mat has been my teacher, my opponent, and my protagonist. I have both loved the mat and hated it (at times, I could