I Never Promised You A Rose Garden: A Memoir

By Jonny Oates

“The best book I have read all year. Simply brilliant.” – Iain Dale

“Oates takes you on an extraordinary journey … His is a life lesson that serendipity and courage can change things for good.” – Laura Kuenssberg, former BBC political editor

“Few in political life are as candid about the underpinning of what drives them. A gripping tale of escape and rescue, this is the story of the making of a liberal soul.” – Gary Gibbon, political editor, Channel 4 News

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Aged fifteen, armed with a credit card stolen from his father, Jonny Oates ran away from home and boarded a plane to Addis Ababa. His plan? To save the Ethiopian people from the devastating 1985 famine. Discovering that demand for the assistance of unskilled fifteen-year-old English boys was limited, he swiftly learned that you can’t change the world by pure force of will – a lesson that would prove invaluable in politics.

I Never Promised You a Rose Garden charts Oates’s journey from his darkest moments alone in Ethiopia, struggling with his sexuality and mental health, to the heart of Westminster, where, as Nick Clegg’s chief of staff, he grapples with the compromises and concessions of coalition.

Shot through with a captivating warmth and humour, this heart-stoppingly candid memoir reflects on the challenges of balancing idealism and pragmatism, illustrating how lasting change comes from working together rather than standing alone.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Biteback Publishing
• Release date: Aug 30, 2022
• ISBN: 9781785905889

Jonny Oates

Jonny Oates is a former deputy director of communications in 10 Downing Street and was chief of staff to Deputy Prime Minister Nick Clegg during the coalition government. Inspired by Band Aid and Live Aid, he ran away from home to Ethiopia in 1985 hoping to help victims of the Ethiopian famine. He subsequently worked as a teacher in Zimbabwe and as a political adviser in South Africa’s first post-apartheid parliament. Jonny has twenty-five years’ experience in senior communications and advisory roles in the private and public sector both at home and abroad. He is currently a Member of the House of Lords and continues to advise individuals, companies and charities on communications. He lives in south-west London.