The Making of a Cowboy Doctor
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A true story about a doctor who as a young man, developed fierce independence. His goals became not only to be the best doctor he could be but to be his own boss. It's also the story of a healthcare system that became hostile to that independence, such that to continue as an independent doctor became riskier over time. This is my story. I'm that
Kyle Ver Steeg
Kyle Ver Steeg is a recently retired general and bariatric surgeon in private practice for 40-years. Except for his educational requirements, he has been an Iowan all of his life and lives with his wife and family on a 40-acre tree farm outside a small community in north-central Iowa. He received his B. S. in Pharmacy at the University of Iowa and his Doctor of Medicine degree at Northwestern University Medical School in Chicago, Illinois. His internship and residency in general surgery was done at the University of Iowa in Iowa City and Scott and White Hospital in Temple, Texas.
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The Making of a Cowboy Doctor - Kyle Ver Steeg
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Contents
Introduction
The Early Years
The Undergraduate Years
Applying to Medical School
The Med School Years
The Residency Years
Starting Private Practice
Harrowing Experiences
The Scrub Nurse
Competition and Character
The Golden Years of Medical Practice
Massive Bureaucracy and Vested Interests
Cowboy Doctor
Scrambling to Find a Niche
The Cowboy Rides Again
Ride ’em Cowboy
Tough Hombre
Some Rough Riding
Chasing a Costly Mirage
The Mouse Tattoo
Cronyism and Payback
And the Cowboy Rides Away
Epilogue
To my wife and soul mate, Phyllis. Without her love for nursing and tireless help in our doctor’s office, my career would have suffered and this book would have never been written.
Introduction
This is a true story about a doctor who, as a young man, developed a fierce independence. His goals became not only to become the best doctor he could be but to be his own boss.
It’s also the story of a healthcare system that became hostile to that independence, such that to continue as an independent doctor became riskier over time.
This is my story. I’m that doctor who, at times, had to risk it all just to be my own boss.
Chapter 1
The Early Years
I was born in 1946. My white privilege
was growing up in a two-parent family with traditional middle-class values. These values became instilled before I was even aware of it. I was the first son of a college athlete and a high school football, basketball, wrestling, and baseball coach. He reportedly once told his football players that he had a bad dream about me marching in the band rather than playing football. As it turned out, his dream was prescient.
I was too small to excel at football, too short to play basketball, and I was quick but not a winning sprinter. My dad still wanted me to try many different sports, though, since my adult size was still to be determined.
He told me things like, If you want something badly enough, you’ll have to give it everything you’ve got.
Also, Do you know why kids in the ghettos will often become exceptional at what they do? Because they’re hungry for success. They will practice, practice, practice.
Often, he would say I was spending too much time doing lapidary work in which I had developed a keen interest on. He told me I should be outdoors, practicing sports to develop the skill.
Dad also gave me a chemistry set and a microscope at a young age. No electric train though. Oh no. That was wasting my time watching a train go round and round instead of developing a skill.
When I was in sixth grade in Kansas City, I went out for Little League baseball and was terrible at batting. So my dad softened up a baseball and began throwing me pitches behind the house every day for a long time until I finally got it and started hitting the hell out of the ball. I became the star hitter for the Little League team that summer. The value of practice became internalized at that point. I had experienced success with it—just practice, practice, practice.
This achievement orientation spilled over into music (my dad’s nightmare), specifically drums. Gene Krupa was my idol.
Academically, I struggled. Concentration was a real problem. Daydreaming was constant so that I wouldn’t hear much in class and couldn’t read more than a sentence or paragraph before I would then lapse into daydreaming, having to read the same paragraph over and over again. The exceptions were in science and math, where actively solving problems would keep my attention. Understanding something was much easier than memorizing something boring. I still wonder how I managed to pass history, civics, social studies, and literature during junior high and high school.
Around my junior year