Backlash

By Sereena Nightshade

Names of individuals in all of this authors books are fictitious names. Real names are not revealed.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jan 10, 2014
• ISBN: 9781493154357

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Copyright © 2013 by Sereena Nightshade. 144115-GROO

ISBN: Softcover 978-1-4931-5434-0

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Rev. date: 06/24/2014

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Someone Once Said: I will place a weak lamb before each of you and if you slay it or neglect it till its life force subsides I will know your true heart. If each of you keep this lamb safe and nurtured and well all men shall profit and all men shall be saved by the grace of this one being fulfilled in the multitudes of the lambs placed everywhere before all of mankind.

By Sereena Nightshade

Whoever saves one life, saves the entire world.

By Itzhak Stern

I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.

By Nelson Mandela

Courage is the most important of all the virtues, because without courage you can’t practice any other virtue consistently. You can practice any virtue erratically, but noting consistently without courage.

By Maya Angelou

Courage is being scarred to death… and saddling up anyway.

By John Wayne

Courage is huge and failure to protect is the ultimate deal demolisher.

By Sereena Nightshade

The police think that just because he didn’t kill you he didn’t somehow end your life… Then again the he wasn’t really the only one or the one who did it as it always has so many layers.

Author: Unknown

PROLOGUE

The segments in this book regarding How to Make Any Good Woman Go Bad, as well as, How to Make a Man Go Bad, and all similar materials are included due to repeated inquiries from others, typically males regarding their inability to understand what was/is wrong with the repetitive results of their attempts to find/create a reasonably functional relationship. For whatever reason the males this writer has known, met, interviewed, etc. make the same relationship mistakes in endless repetition. They do so despite information regarding why their outcomes are always the same. Males it seems are oftentimes incapable of altering their shopping focus and technique in order to meet as well as choose someone worthwhile.

Females, on the other hand, frequently alter their shopping style/focus/parameters/etc. though in many cases they also wind up with similar or progressively worse results. This phenomenon is much harder to unravel/comprehend. However, it is a common reality for women. One can only conclude that many women are indeed predator magnets. Thus the traits this writer has identified for what creates a predator magnet are listed in many of this writer’s books, including Backlash. Traits that create a predator magnet are those listed herein as well as many other similar characteristics. Female readers are advised to utilize their own intelligence to determine how other similar traits/life experiences/backgrounds/physical appearance/etc. may be relevant factors in the overall package that makes them a predator magnet. Methodology to alter the predator magnet appeal is not something this writer has been able to uncover. In actual cases of too many decent/good/high-quality women, even when they change their shopping techniques/pool of relationship prospects/location for finding or being potentially noticed by a quality mate/dating behaviors/etc. this writer has observed how such females remain what they are (i.e. predator magnets). This persists even in scenarios where the women went so far as to practice and master altered body language, conversational statements and even their physical appearance. The obvious conclusion is that for many women predator magnet status is not a reality that is easily shucked-off and it is also not a reality that is always their fault or due to making the same mistakes.

The cases of males and females are thus typically not comparable. Males make the same or very similar errors in endless repetition and then wonder why the bad end results are the same or worse. Many men also quickly become bitter/jaded/closed-off to quality. In this the average male commonly concludes that ALL women available to him/within his reach/in his league, particularly the nice woman right in front of him are bad just like the witch he has recently divorced and lost everything to. The common man who experiences terrible relationships may state, Nice guys finish last, while these same men are in truth not nice guys at all or not nice guys anymore. Those particular males are oftentimes the polar opposite of nice men or they permit themselves to embrace what is not quality. They are the epitome of certain character flaws that nix out quality women for the most part and when the rare remaining quality woman comes into their sights they overlook her. What many of these men seek in constant repetitive fatally flawed loops is the evil mean mommy woman/the mommy dearest version of a romantic partner. The masculine loop is perplexing. Reality remains what it truly is. As bizarre as it may be, in too many inexplicable scenarios, women, on the other hand, change it up in every imaginable manner yet they still suffer the same or worse end results in too many cases. What too many females face is the reality that once they wise-up or alter variables to avoid predators, because these women are still quality, they actually become more desirable to the most sophisticated covert predators. Moreover, many of the characteristics of the predator magnet female cannot be changed without the person undergoing a complete personality and inner-core make-over (i.e. the nice generous woman changing herself/becoming a narcissistic sociopath). Humans in general are not that malleable.

Other written material in these pages is along the lines of what I wished to write about aside from lists in response to the pleas of others who this writer posits cannot be educated, enlightened or rescued. The variables of the self are one half of the perpetual equation, but the variables of the world, as well as all of its puppets/pawns/minions to the predator are a steadfast other that cannot be altered. With the exception of proofs, every coin has two sides, including the figurative coin that make up what is each and every human being, the human condition, person-in-the-world and the world as it consumes the innocent/naïve/helpless/defenseless or made helpless/defenseless. These factors too are filled with fatally flawed loops, some of choice, others innate and others yet crafted via the behaviors of predators.

By Sereena Nightshade

Contents

Memorial

Get It

The Achilles’ Tendon

Cards

Air Courier Maybe

The Price

The Package

Memorial

The Mite

The Secret of Man

Every Coin

Judgment/Evaluation

Early In It

Early In It

How To Turn Any Good Woman Bad

Shimmer

How to Turn Any Good Woman Bad Part Two

How to Make a Good Man Go Bad

How to Make the Average Man Go Bad

The Kind of Woman to RUN From Like the Plague

Who & What the Predator is – The Sociopath or Sociopath Type Abuser

Le Menu

How Many Too(s)

The Claire

Reflections

Beady Little Thing

Look

A Sheer Pity

The Agenda

Somewhere

Ay, Carajo!

Pill Dreams

Blizzard

Hell’s Films

Narrow

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Above: Photo of Sereena Nightshade taken June 2013.

Memorial

Sometimes within a memorial is not a monument or remembrance of a person one loved, but an acknowledgment that this person never existed in the first place. What existed was in truth merely a façade.

Sometimes within a memorial is not a monument or a remembrance