The Art of Majoring in Minor Things: The Leadership Challenge
By Jules Ciotta
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Effective leaders need to encourage their workers to share their thinking, even to be free to assertively disagree. Horizontal communications make it possible for leaders and subordinates to avoid roadblocks in their relationships.
Team building is more than a nice phrase; it is essential to make the staff more efficient. It encourages everyone to put aside personal interest for the good of the team. It gives priority to values, integrity, and honesty as a way of life in the work environment. It recognizes the importance of making a life to effectively make a living.
Remember, were not what we think we are, but what we think, we are. Horizontal leadership is a win-win for both sides.
Jules Ciotta
Julian (Jules) J Ciotta is President of Mo/Com Associates, an Atlanta based human relations, consulting and training firm. For the past several decades, he has specialized in motivation, communication skills, psychological assessments and team building. He uses the hands-on approach to learning. His dynamic, shirtsleeve style provides an enthusiastic, supportive climate where ideas are sparked, confidence is awakened and positive thinking becomes the focus.
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The Art of Majoring in Minor Things - Jules Ciotta
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CONTENTS
Introduction
Preface
Chapter 1 It’s Mindset That Matters
Chapter 2 Communications – Getting The Message Across
Chapter 3 Managing By Wandering Around
Chapter 4 Conflict Is Inevitable
Chapter 5 The Organization’s Personality And Direction
Chapter 6 Accountability Is Vital To Success
Chapter 7 Team Dynamics
Chapter 8 Goal Setting
Chapter 9 Managing Time Effectively
Chapter 10 Making Decisions And Solving Problems
Epilogue
To Trish, my wife. The best thing that ever happened to me. Thank you.
INTRODUCTION
Jules Ciotta is the son of immigrant parents, the oldest of three sons, growing up in a lower income family in an Italian and African American neighborhood.
Survival was the family’s primary objective where doing good enough is good enough. One didn’t have to be a high achiever. As long as one got by and didn’t disgrace the family that was good enough.
Jules was the first person in the larger family that completed high school. Later, his two brothers and he would go on to complete advanced degrees.
What was highly important to the family and most families in the neighborhood was honesty, values, and integrity. Qualities that are missing in today’s world. Doing something because it was the right thing to do.
Everyday media reports of cheating, lying, stealing, and taking advantage of those in lessor situations in life prevails. Even legal behavior can be wrong because it takes advantage of others in lesser positions.
The thought of writing a book on the inefficiency of management has been on the author’s agenda for several years. Experience as an organizational psychologist working with many companies of all sizes, for over 30 years, gives him insight into the positioning of leaders in past and present work environments. The engagement in competitive sports and being an officer in the military helped the author realize that being good enough was not good enough.
Also, Napoleon Hill’s book, Think and Grow Rich
was life challenging for Jules. The position that whatever the mind can conceive and believe becomes reality
is significant. Simply stated, "we’re not what we think we are, but what we think, we are.
The increasing loss of values and character among today’s management has made him recognize that he didn’t have a choice. Managing by the art of majoring in minor things, saving the derriere, cover-ups, and putting out fires are the modes of getting things done today. These approaches are not limited to business leaders but are found among management in education, government, family, religion, and even the military.
Lack of accountability is the major problem in the world today. We’ve gotten away from doing the right thing
because it’s the right thing as in the past. One has to guard against letting the ego prevent him/her from being participatory when engaged with others.
This work provides skills that leaders can benefit from but more importantly, it highlights the need for each of us to be bolder in not tolerating mediocrity, holding others (even our management) accountable and not compromise our character and values. We need to do the right things regardless of the consequences, as reputation and integrity demands no less.
PREFACE
There are many books dealing with effective management, perhaps more appropriately referred to today as effective leadership. Sometimes differentiating between management and leadership in itself can be confusing. The manager is one who says, There’s what needs to be done, go do it.
Whereas the leader takes the position, There’s what needs to be done, let’s go do it.
The difference of involvement is critical. There are many aspects to what management is and much written which gives rise to this confusion and it is confusing because it’s difficult to effectively lead another. Oftentimes, it has been thought that because an individual has been effective in doing a job while on the line or as a member of the staff he/she will also be effective in a supervision or leadership role. The difference between effectively doing a job on the line and being effective in leading others is so diverse that there is no guarantee of success. There is an entirely different set of rules relative to one being effective in leading others. And this is the crisis that faces business.
The concern