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'Help! I Think My Partner Is Trying To Kill ME' is intended to provide a starting point to help you find your feet again and safe spaces. There are tips and tricks I have come to know through my journey and from other's struggles. Stuff I wish I had known much earlier.
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Help! - Old Dad; New Tricks
Help!
I Think My Partner is Trying to Kill ME
by Old Dad; New Tricks
'Help! I think my partner is trying to kill me,' were the words said to me by a well known lawyer. They were a legal badass wrestling with powerful people yet frozen in shock, locked in a bathroom, afraid and unable to see their kids. Each red flag was worse than the last, his partner was consolidating power over their finances, isolating them and establishing a narrative while distracting by playing on deep fears of losing contact with their kids. The way out was hard but they took the first step; realizing they are a smart person in a shitty situation. It happens to the best of us. Odds are your partner picked you because you are smart, high functioning, have high empathy and strive for good. Reconnect and ground with those amazing parts of yourself.
This book is intended to provide a starting point to help you find your feet again and a safe space. There are tips and tricks I have come to know through my journey and from others. Stuff I wish I had known much earlier. The information in this book can be misused to cause long term harm, not only to others but yourself. Do not do that, no matter how strongly you hate someone or desire revenge, it is impossible to achieve and not worth it. When things escalate
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