A Successful Marriage: The Husband's Making: God, Sex and You, #5

By Zacharias Tanee Fomum

This book is the fifth in the series ''God sex and you." From an impeccable knowledge, understanding, and mastery of the Scriptures, the author, Professor Z.T.  Fomum, argues convincingly that, as the king of the household, the prophet, and the priest of his wife, a man is solely responsible for the success of the marriage according to God's bidding.

The need arises for the husband to put his 'self' under control, to love his wife as Christ loved the Church, to have a supreme goal, and to pray and fast for her.

Every man is to love his wife using God's evaluation system in the Bible. Many marriages fail because the partners are using personal, traditional, customary, or modern evaluation systems.

This book can make you wise onto salvaging and saving your marriage, for those who are married and providing a solid foundation for those who will marry one day.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Books4revival
• Release date: Apr 15, 2015
• ISBN: 9781513086941

Zacharias Tanee Fomum

For FREE books from Zacharias Tanee Fomum: https://books.bookfunnel.com/ztf-free-ebooks. Professor Zacharias Tanee FOMUM was a man of uncommon spirituality, a leading voice for revival, a workaholic, a prophet-teacher, and a world-shaping spiritual genius. He was a bestselling Christian author (with over 350 books, over 10 million copies in circulation in over 100 languages) and a professor of Organic Chemistry (with over 160 published scientific works of high distinction (earning him the award of a Doctor of Science degree from the University of Durham, Great Britain). His books and the millions of people he influenced in more than 40 years of Christian ministry continue to impact the world with the Gospel today. He founded Christian Missionary Fellowship International (CMFI), a missionary movement that has planted churches in more than 120 nations on all continents. He believed in a life of simplicity and with the support and dedication of his wife and their seven children, his all—time, money, heart, and soul— was dedicated to spreading the Gospel. He carried out exploits for God through the making of disciples for Christ, planting of churches, building spiritual leaders according to the model of the Bible, and serving the body of Christ, especially as a teacher on prayer. Learn more and read exclusive excerpts at: https://ztfomum.org

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A Successful Marriage

A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

The Husband's Making

GOD, SEX AND YOU

BOOK 5

ZACHARIAS TANEE FOMUM

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Unless otherwise stated, the Scripture quotations in this book are from the Revised Standard Version of the Holy Bible, the British Edition.

CONTENTS

Preface

1. A Successful Marriage

2. Putting Self Under Control!

3. The Secret of Happiness In Marriage

4. Loving The Wife as Christ Loved The Church

5. In Conclusion

Very Important!!!

Thank You

About the Author

Also by Z.T. Fomum

Distributors of ZTF Books

PREFACE

This book, A Successful Marriage: The Husband’s Making, is the fifth in the series, "God, Sex and You." The other books in this series that have already been written are:

Enjoying The Premarital Life

Enjoying The Choice Of Your Marriage Partner

Enjoying The Married Life

Divorce And Remarriage

A Successful Marriage; The Husband’s Making

A Successful Marriage; The Wife’s Making

Life-changing Thoughts On Marriage

The husband is called upon to be the king, the prophet and the priest of his wife. The extent to which he fulfils these roles determines the quality of his marriage. As the head, the success of the marriage will be determined by him. Also, as the head, the failure of the marriage will reflect the extent to which he has failed. This means that the secret to a successful marriage is with the man.

God has commanded the man to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. The love with which Christ loves the church is a supernatural one - God’s love. No husband can love his wife naturally in a sustained way. Natural love does not last. If the husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church, he must receive God’s supernatural love from the Holy Spirit and pour that love on his wife. Because the love of God poured out into the heart of man by the Holy Spirit is unceasingly available, it is possible for a man to receive that love and love his wife with God’s love unceasingly and increasingly. This will provide a solid foundation for a successful marriage.

The message in this book was first given to married couples in the church in Yaounde. It was then compiled from the notes taken and completed from the cassette recordings. The author added only slight touches to what was written from the spoken message.

The next book in this series is going to be, "A Successful Marriage: The Wife’s Making."

We send this small book out with prayer that it be used by the Lord of the church to bring blessings to the unmarried, to those contemplating on marriage and to those who are married.

We also send it out with prayer that the Holy Spirit should use it to correct and bless many marriages, so that the Lord may be exalted in Christian couples and His purpose in marriage fulfilled.

Zacharias Tanee Fomum

P.O. Box 6090

Yaounde, Cameroon.

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A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

Today we shall tell you something new. The Lord had to keep us for four more days in Congo so that I hear His voice. I want us to ask God for faith to believe His Word; for that is our need. We are going to prophesy the Word. Lift up your hand and say, God, give me faith to believe Your prophecies.

The first thing we want to say is that the man is the prophet of his home. His wife is the fruit of his prophecy each day. Your wife is the fruit of your prophecy. Men, lift up your hands and say, I am the prophet of my home and I have been harvesting the fruit of my prophecies. You have created what you now have by your prophecies. You have been harvesting the fruit of your prophecies. But more than that, everyone here is the fruit of his prophecy about himself. Everyone should put up his hand and say, I am the fruit of the prophecy I have prophesied about myself. What you have said about yourself, God has confirmed it and brought it to pass it. You are the fruit of the prophecies you prophesy about yourself.

Every successful man has prophesied success about himself in his words, in his attitude, and in his thinking. It is very frightful, but also very true. When things have been difficult and you have confessed, I will succeed in spite of the difficulties, you have succeeded. When you gave up, you failed. If you want to change a man, change what he says about himself.

I also want to say this: Every woman is a prophetess in her home. Your husband is what