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By Loran Joly
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Shame is so commonplace. In fact, some of us are ashamed to take up space.
The author seeks to look at why we feel shame, and what the definition actually could be.
The topic is approached by someone without a Ph.D. or MD degree.
Instead, the author has some other rather unusual experien
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Shame - Loran Joly
Shame
A Western World Problem Which is Still a Big Stumbling Block
Loran Joly
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Copyright © 2023 by Loran Joly
All rights reserved.
No portion of this book may be reproduced in any form without written permission from the publisher or author, except as permitted by U.S. copyright law.
Contents
Dedication
Preface
1.Shame: Some Struggle With Shame Far More Than Others
2.Shame is Likely a Ridiculous Concept - Even Ludicrous
3.How Free Will and Determinism Concepts Play a Crucial Role in Shame
4.Shame is Likely Promoted by Certain Groups
5.Is the Concept of The Criminal
a Shame-Based, Free Will Concept?
6.Once Again, Freedom From Shame is Not at all the Same Thing as Sociopathy
7.Common Shame Messages We Hear a Lot
8.The Phrase Where There's a Will, There's a Way
, Surely Ignores Cause and Effect
9.Yes, Surely, Shame Can Be Placed Upon Us by Our Trusting the Wrong People...
10.Shame and The Stigmas of the Day...
11.Shame Appears to Be Launched by Those Who Use the Approved-Of Defense Mechanisms
12.Shame - final conclusion...
13.A Final Note on This Author's Possible Experiences on This Topic...
Afterword
To contact the author....
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