How to Fall in Love with Life

By James Chilson

This describes the feeling of love and how to bring it into anyone's life wether they wonder if they have ever felt the real thing before or they have and want to bring it back but for all the ingrediants of life. Includes examples designed to help readers actually feel what love for life feels like and how to reproduce that feeling at will.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Publishdrive
• Release date: Sep 8, 2023

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Copyright

© 2023 by Jim Chilson

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form, including but not limited to mechanical, photographic, or electronic processes; nor in the form of voice recordings; nor may it be stored in a retrieval system, transmitted, or otherwise copied for public or private use other than by reviewers quoting brief passages in articles for review purposes.

Contents

Introduction

Ever Wonder What Love Is?

Some Definitions of Love

The Symptoms of Feeling Love:

The Search for Love

Why Love is So Hard to Find?

What Is Love?

How Do You Feel Love?

How to Find Love

From the love perspective.

The Big Love

The Power of Fear

Fear kills love, but love can also kill fear.

Where does real love come from?

How to Find Love

How to Experience Love Now (and maybe forever).

Five-Minute Exercises

How to Love a Person

How to Love a Pet

How to Love Nature

How to Love the Source (God)

How to Love Yourself

How to Love Strangers

How to Love Food

How to Love Sports

How to Love Movies

Love and teaching

How to Love to Complain

How to Love Your Car

How to Love Music

How to Love Your Job

How to love money

How to Love Politics

How to Love Your Enemies

Not living in love.

11 ways to jumpstart love.

The Way of Love

How to Protect the New Love You Enjoy

About the Author

Disclaimer

This book is written to show what worked for the author to open his eyes to love. It might not be for everyone. It is written as a positive personal experience but anyone feeling negative emotions should consider whether to continue reading or not. The author is not a medical professional and leaves this choice to the discretion of the reader.

Introduction

Everyone is looking for love, but we are looking in the wrong place. We are looking for it outside of ourselves thinking that will satisfy our thirst. But how can it when both the source of our thirst and the solution to our thirst are inside us?

Love is actually very simple but to feel it you have to think on a higher plane. If all you want is some kind of relationship and think that could fill your empty spaces that thirst for love then that is a lot more complicated and is less likely to satisfy because it will keep pulling you down to a lower plane, a lower way of thinking. A lower vibration.

If you want that - a relationship like most everybody else - then stay on the earthly plane and learn from your friends, family, soap operas and gossip.

But if you want to feel love, universal love, think higher. Think selfless. Relax and allow it to come.

That is the end goal – to learn to live in love. But first learning how to recognize and experience love for the first time, or to experience it again and at will and to stay in it and feel it grow is the purpose of this book.

Are you in love right now?

You might very well be, and not know it.

This book is made to help people experience love. Or to help people realize they are experiencing it right now and may not realize it.

We are talking about universal love, of which all kinds of love stems. If you want to attract someone to you, this may not be the book for you. Although you will attract people to you.

If you want to feel what universal all-encompassing love feels like and have that feeling with more and more things, if you want to feel happy and thankful constantly, if you want to feel happy to be alive and stop letting fear influence your emotions, then this book might help.

This is not the kind of book you are supposed to read and then shelve. Even if you like the book and talk about it, the goal is to guide people to actually feel love. And that is why there are some simple exercises at the end to bring you closer to the experience.

There are three things that can help you feel love now with this book. That’s it. It is not difficult.

But if it is merely read and the exercises are not attempted, then the author has failed in his goals to spread the feeling of love.

So, this book is not meant to be an intellectual exercise alone. It is meant to show one way to actually feel something that can only be felt to be understood.

First, I will give some background info and some basic ideas on love that I learned, then explain the three simple things we need to feel it and then we are going to attempt to feel love using things you already love or like a lot.

Love cannot be manipulated to get what you think you want. Love is another entirely different way of looking at the world and dealing with life. It is freeing. Liberating.

You will need to trust the process and not try to influence the power toward your desire. Trust it and practice patience and self-restraint and it will guide you to what is best for you and it will lead you to a world best described as heaven on earth.

This is a book that can help you feel love for everyone and everything else first. It is not a book focused on getting someone else to love you, or a book that will tell you how to find love outside of yourself. Instead, it will show you how to coax the love already within you out into the light. The love within is well camouflaged, maybe hiding out of fear of the unknown or of getting hurt.

Love is something you can control. All you have to do to control it is to shut and bolt he door and think up any number of rational excuses such as it doesn’t exist, it doesn’t exist for me, I am too busy and don’t have time for it, I have trust issues, I could get hurt, etc.

You could use any one of a number of excuses and avoid it, or you could trust and believe and learn that all those love songs were right.

By trust issues, I mean we are not going