The (un)Qualified Guide to Finding Love: Embrace Your Journey, Your Authenticity, and Open Your Heart to Lasting Connections

By J J D Smith

Finally, An Honest Guide To Finding Lasting Love For Real People

Do you feel like love is nowhere to be found no matter how hard you look?

That's why I wrote "The (un)Qualified Guide to Finding Love" - to share my relatable journey to an amazing relationship and help you find lasting love in a realistic, sustainable way.

I'm just one of millions of ordinary people without fancy credentials. I'm not a therapist, dating coach or 'guru'. Just an average person who unexpectedly found true love and watched friends do the same.

I don’t have certificates but I do have real experiences that will resonate with you. My scientific background gives me a curious, analytical approach to love.

And now I want to help YOU:

• Love and accept your authentic self first
• Create a fulfilling life you'll love, with or without a partner
• Discover a meaningful, lasting relationship

I'm here as a friend to share advice, not judge or instruct.

I have real-world experience, honesty, and a passion for helping people find authentic love.

Are you ready to embark on a journey to your best love life? Let's go!

Inside The (un)Qualified Guide to Finding Love, Discover:

Powerful Mindset Shifts For Self-Acceptance

• Taking control of negative self-talk
• Overcoming limiting beliefs about yourself
• Building confidence and willpower
• Creating a fulfilling life no matter what


Practical Tips to Find The One

• Small changes that make a big difference
• Traits people find most attractive
• How stopping the search can help you find love
• Places to meet compatible people


Find True Love With Me, Your (un)Qualified Guide!

I don't have certificates or fancy qualifications. But I have real-world experience, honesty, and a passion for helping people find authentic, lasting love.

Join me for a confidential chat about finding real love for real people - grab your copy of The (un)Qualified Guide to Finding Love now!

• Language: English
• Publisher: GSE Press
• Release date: Feb 2, 2024
• ISBN: 9781738507528

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The (un)Qualified Guide to Finding Love:

Embrace Your Journey, Your Authenticity,

and Open Your Heart to Lasting Connections

Dedicated to my Guy Fawkes baby:

Our love will continue to outlast the fireworks!

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Contents

Introduction

Who I Am

Who I Am Not

Chapter 1: The Journey To Love

What Are You Looking For?

Happy or Heartbroken: Where Are You?

My Bus Stop of Love

Chapter 2: Start Small

Be More Yorkshire

Are you in love?

Be More You

I’m Scared!

Chapter 3: Start With You

Self-Care

Authenticity

Being Attractive

Commonality

Chapter 4: Don’t Look For Love

There’s More To Life

You Can’t Force It

Love Will Find You

Chapter 5: Be Open To Love

You Are Already Loved

Embracing Love

Thank you!

Appendix: Ask the Experts

References

Introduction

Welcome to the (un)Qualified Guide to Finding Love!

Who I Am

I have a unique perspective to share, partly because I’ve crammed a lot into the years that I’ve been on this planet so far. Thanks to my scientific background, I have a curious mind and an analytical approach. While I don't have fancy credentials or letters after my name, I do have real-life experiences that I hope will resonate with you.

This book is my chance to share what I’ve learned about finding love with you. I’ve been married for over 15 years, so you might not think