NOT THINKING STRAIGHT: ANSWERS FOR THE STRAIGHT PERSON'S QUESTIONS FROM A GAY MAN
By Joe Tanner
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Discover how to navigate the complexities of a loved one coming out. Gain a greater understanding of how to support them and challenge your own biases in the process. This book is for anyone looking to create more harmony and understanding in their relationships.<
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NOT THINKING STRAIGHT - Joe Tanner
Joe Tanner
NOT THINKING STRAIGHT
Answers for the straight person’s questions from a gay man
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I dedicate this book to my mom. She passed away in January 2019. She was my best friend. I miss her with all of my gay heart! Thank you, mom, for loving me, no matter what. Thank you for showing me unconditional love when I needed it most. Thank you to my siblings and my dad who have been such a great support and source of joy for me in my hard times. I love you all with all of my heart, might, mind and strength.
My family will always be my greatest joy and source of acceptance and love. xoxo
Contents
Preface
1. Why did you choose to be gay?
2. Have you tried NOT being gay?
3. Does God love a Gay?
4. Is God a Man or a Woman?
5. Why do you have to be in your underwear and parade around?
6. How can it be natural if you can’t procreate?
7. You don’t see animals exhibit homosexual acts in nature, so it isn’t natural.
8. Can’t you just be celibate? It’s what God would want
9. I’m fine with gay people, but Trans people…
10. Does being gay make you a child molester?
11. Have you tried sex with a woman?
12. Are you the boy/girl husband/wife?
13. What happened to you to make you this way?
14. Does this mean you are attracted to me (says the troll)?
15. Why aren’t you more feminine?
16. Why can’t you just fit in? (that’s what HE said!)
17. Why did you steal the rainbow?
18. Jesus, Gays, Greece, and Rome
About the Author
Preface
Hi! I’m Joe! I wrote this book because I wanted to provide a resource to all the straight people in the world who are curious about the LGBTQIA+ community. I listed a bunch of questions I have personally been asked by straight people during my journey, as well as statements I have heard from religious groups. My hope is that I will create more understanding and bridge some gaps in people’s understanding. I also hope that it will help gaybies (gay babies–not literal babies, but those brand new to