Letters to Jacob: Mostly About Prayer
By John Julian
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Letters to Jacob - John Julian
You know, giving spiritual advice by mail is a little like marriage by proxy—it is sometimes the only thing possible, but it is certainly the least desirable of all options. Ideally, I think, these sessions ought to involve exchange, questions and answers, experimentation, and the chance for me to sense intuitively what is going on with you spiritually, to hear not only what you say but the tone of voice in which you say it, and to pick up on your affective signals which are often more revealing than any amount of substance. But we are in a situation now where it is either by mail or not-at-all. So, we’ll have to do the best we can with what we have.
I want to warn you ahead of time that you are going to hear a lot of personal views from me—often at loggerheads with popularly accepted opinion. But please be assured that these are not mere flights of fancy on my part or simply private preferences. I will do my best never to lay an opinion on you unless I can show you that it is backed by reason, common sense, and experience.
I promised to write to you about contemplative prayer—and I will—but I think there must be some considerable backfilling by way of addressing prayer more generally first—that is, to talk about what most people mean when they speak of prayer. So I think we will spend a little time in high school and college before we get to post-graduate work!
You already know that I believe firmly that most of what passes for personal prayer is so immature and undeveloped as to be either irrelevant or dangerous or both. By and large, the parish experience (which is how almost everyone encounters the Church) tends to train us almost exclusively in ethics. The majority of sermons or lectures one hears are about ethics/morality or theology. And serious ascetics—that is, deep concern about matters of prayer, meditation, and the spiritual life—are typically left on the back burner or, indeed, sometimes actually opposed or ridiculed.² As a result, the majority of Christians—even those who would be called committed
and active
are still praying (if at all) at a fairly immature level. Indeed, the very words they use (and their prayers are inevitably said
) are usually either those learned at their mother’s knee or found in The Book of Common Prayer or on some Hallmark card! But God is great and God is good
or Now I lay me down to sleep
don’t really pass muster as adult, responsible prayer.
But Christians can’t be blamed for their ignorance because generally they have never been taught any better. (I heard recently from an honest layman who said, Look, when I go into a church, I simply kneel down and count to sixty and then I sit in the pew—I don’t know what else to do.
) But we really do need finally to ask the unpleasant question: when you speak those recurrent common words—I will pray for you
—what do you mean? Usually those words mean something like, I will ask God to make things better for you
—which has some odd implications because it seems to suggest that either God doesn’t know what’s best for you unless I tell him, or God has not been paying attention to you until I remind him, or God is more impressed by my words than by yours alone. (I know that I am being flippant here, but unless we face these implications, there’s no point in talking about these things at all.)
That phrase—I will pray for you
—can be redeemed. It can mean I will declare to God that I stand in solidarity with you in your pain/trouble
or I will be with you in your need
or I will offer to you whatever grace I have
or even, possibly, I will try spiritually to bear some of your pain myself.
And I think you should notice that this kind of intercessory praying
has more to do with my relationship with the sufferer than with God. It recognizes the human (and mystical) bond that exists between myself and the sufferer—that we are limbs of the same body, united both in joy and pain—and that my prayer simply recognizes and makes palpable what already exists.
So, you and I are going to do our best now to escape from the prayer trap. I’m going to ask you to suspend all other judgments and put your specific relationship with God on the front burner—ahead of service to others, liturgical prayer, theological study, the pursuit of virtue, penance for sin, and all such. I would point to Jesus’s words in Matthew’s Gospel: "Strive first for God’s own realm and its righteousness, and then all other things will be given to you as well."³ Later on you can sort out your priorities among those other things, but for now, and for our purposes, do me the favor of putting your prayer life—your life with God—in the very forefront.
So, I didn’t scare you off yet, and you are game to go on.
All right, now we will get into some different (and difficult?) properties of prayer—that is, different from the way most folk understand it. Prayer which does nothing but ask God for something is, in one sense, simply futile—because it can have no effect whatsoever on the perfect God who is entirely changeless.
Admittedly, that’s a subject that could fill several volumes of theology, but it points out the fact that the way we pray to God depends entirely on what we believe about God. And, as Michael Mayne put it: If anyone ever gives you a clear and precise notion of who God is, you may be sure it is false.
⁴ God’s very changelessness is part of that indescribability. Scripture agrees:
The Lord spoke to Malachi: I, the Lord, do not change. …
⁵
The prophet Balaam said: "God is