The Real Difference: 2004, #6

By FERDINANDO FREGA

In general, we almost always have the possibility of measuring the differences, and this is what comes naturally to us, respecting our own point of view, always linked to beliefs, educational factors, culture, schooling, and that critical sense common to all which does not he almost never cheats.

But sometimes we don't pay all the attention, and we go hard to say what we think without having the possibility of thinking that we could be wrong.

Yes, the most difficult difference we must encounter is when we evaluate people, without taking many factors into account, but letting ourselves indulge in bar talk, which is never constructive and motivating, as if we were almost having an argument in the courtyard with our neighbor.

We are inclined to want to convince everyone that we are right, when it would take extraordinarily little to understand that we are dealing with people with dry feelings and self-interested roles.

Every lived experience is a reality for many, almost no one thinks that it is the daughter of a story which, when it ends, is never repeated.

Despite all efforts to fight it, ignorance reigns supreme, and its followers never cease to amaze, inventing the idea that chilly water was born before hot water, or the opposite is true.

This book aims to explain to us how some people live in life, within the world of work and in society, and what their disorders are, problems that influence the results daily.

Everyone thinking about how to earn more, about career advancement, about more or less legal solutions to improve themselves, is a people who find their greatest place in the field of public administration, which is a driving force in many nations that have no industries.

Crime finds fertile ground in these places, where all it takes is having a relative to progress in its domain, and that's it.

Real progress is measured through enormous and illegal activities, and in a large part of the world it is considered almost normal, even if it suddenly becomes a real powder keg awaiting the action of justice and no one would like to take the consequences.

For everyone else it is a difficult path, which you can only follow if you have that extra edge, that characteristic of the fighter, which makes you an absolute winner.

• Language: English
• Publisher: FERDINANDO FREGA
• Release date: Jun 4, 2024
• ISBN: 9798227082619

FERDINANDO FREGA

FREGA FERDINANDO (1965) began his professional career as a salesman in Gillette Italy; a journey that lasted 20 years, starting from the lowest roles, as bag holder and assistant, to then move on to manager and be recognized first by the Company and then by the Market, in the role of Top Manager, it was the year 2003. In 2004 he became a Freelancer, as a Business Consultant, Recruiter, Social Communicator, in Romania, Bulgaria, Georgia, Spain, until 2017 and Councilor in the Reggio Calabria Chamber of Commerce. From 2018 to 2020 he actively collaborates with international humanitarian organizations present in various parts of the world to aid and support to needy and difficult populations, teaching social communication at embassies to refugees from some nations. From 2020 to 2021 he created the UNIVERSE FEMININE website, a sentimental, love and affective consultancy project, online only. The investment is considerable, but the Italian investors express their intention of not wanting to participate in the new corporate asset and the activity is considered definitively concluded, recording the first failure. September 2021 he becomes Author, Poet, Writer of Fiction-Non-Fiction, Autobiographical, Creator and Creative Executor, in conjunction with a Psychiatric illness, inherited from his mother, the effects of which lead him happily to cure himself, and to gain the settlement of the Pathology (living without effects) and achieving a better and normal life. He has three adult children, and because of his activity he is always looking for places in the world to live, which can give him the best inspiration, because writing always remains the only means to be able to tell and remember, bringing smiles. He has gained professional experience in the following sectors and managerial positions on: Consumer Goods, Temporary Agencies, Construction, Corporate Security, Fast-food Restaurants, Electronics, IT, Hard Discount, Real Estate, Truck Mechanics, Food Organizational Plans, Writing, Social Communication, Relationship Counseling, Teaching, Charity. There are still many things to do, and even if the time is not enough, he tells us the minutes, our heart and our soul always give us the desire to bring help and a word of comfort to people in need, and I am always offering unique moments, each story is truly unrepeatable.

Book preview

THE LAWYER

I have written many times about this small, reserved, elegant man who was never out of place, whose roots lie in a strict upbringing by his mother, whose family was as a long-time landowner in the areas next to the city of Reggio, Calabria.

He is a criminal lawyer, he comes from a professional school that leaves little room for the imagination, in one of those firms where you worked up to twenty hours a day, and first you decided to take care of the suspect's defense and only then did you take on the task.

It was never a question of money, and this clashes a bit with the profession developed in the big cities, where the concepts of aid and help have become archaic and uneconomical.

His smile is contagious, the joy of having done something good is contained in the successes he has always had, a true Leader.

Unfortunately, he doesn't take all the clients, he has always thought that other lawyers should also live by remaining humble and modest, the characteristic that he manages to develop and does so with great professionalism and correctness.

A note that he certainly would not have wanted me to tell: his propensity for mutual assistance often leads him to go out of his way towards others, dodging professional fees, but it often happens that people do not behave well on time and try to take advantage, because they see it as an act of weakness.

I entered by right into its special classification, of special consultants dedicated to the study of delinquent activity, for me, it is a source of great pride, it gives me the possibility of being able to develop defensive strategies for other needy people in difficulty, with few ideas and little imagination, all strictly free of charge.

Behind a defensive strategy there is always the truth, seen from different angles and looking at the need, whatever the price to pay.

He works throughout Europe, knows three languages perfectly, has great culture, knows history, and is a bit like many: he loves all the women on the planet.

Her philosophy is clear: women are looking for love and security, and someone must always be available to give it.

A Lawyer and his first Collaborator.

THE CAUSE

In 2013, I started working with my sole proprietorship, selling telephony and websites, experience gained from Roman friends who had pushed me towards a profitable market, giving me advice and experiences.

In 2017, I transformed my sole proprietorship into a WEB DESIGN SRL company, the turnover required it and to consolidate banking credibility, hoping for financing to grow and invest, remaining Sole Director, and setting the expiry date of the same at 12/31/2050, I would have been eighty-five years old I could ask to retire. Share capital of 10,000.00 euros, fully paid.

It is an important, serious company, with accounts in order, deposited balance sheets, made up of working people, family men, secretaries, fixed and flying offices, tertiary coordination, including me there are 28 people.

There is no advanced economy in the city, made up of many jobs, but every new thing is experienced as something illegal, shady, no one asks themselves what the market is, their thoughts are limited to themselves, lack of culture, a sometimes poor education, contribute to ensuring that these people maintain a negative and spoiled attitude, despite everything being legal and documented, with invoices, tax returns, accountants, auditors, lawyers, all of this, every time, has an additional cost, and margins are increasingly reduced.

The non-payment of important invoices for an amount of 175 thousand euros creates serious suffering for me, and the difficulty in recovering the money from customers placed in controlled administration first, and in the odor of Mafia and seizure later, which they emptied before the company coffers go away.

It happens in Calabria but also in Sicily, no one is immune, the law takes its course, but we are the first to pay; all this puts me in serious difficulty, I'm worried, I have the responsibility of many people who manage to live thanks to me, I really live in a state of need, I have to prevent these people from dying of hunger.

But the reality is that I will never be able to collect again, because in the end they fail, having structures that the Judicial Authority itself has established are supported by illicit proceeds, no economy, no investment, these close the companies and after a few days they reopen with lent names just fifty meters from the old companies.

A FIAT television advertisement, which offers cars without a down payment and subsidized payments, gives me an intuition that will soon become a new opportunity: to resort to the purchase of new cars, to create a distribution sales organization and deliver directly to small and medium-sized shops, avoiding inventories and downtime, and shortening the sales chain, increasing margins.

I buy seven Panda cars, for a total cost of 80 thousand euros, but then the seller increases the final bill to 107 thousand euros, citing the lack of two Pandas and the inclusion of two new Fiat Tipo’s.

I filled all the cars with the goods I had available and created seven