AGAINST ALL ODDS: I DID IT!

By Joyce Pittman PhD

Against All Odds I Did It! is a black professor’s honest and inspiring memoir that offers readers a heartfelt and authentic look at my journey through life’s trials and triumphs. It is a testament to the human spirit’s capacity for resilience and growth, reminding us all that we have the strength to overcome whatever challenges we face.
The ideal audience for “Against All Odds, I Did It!” are individuals who appreciate deeply personal narratives that dive into themes of resilience, identity, and personal growth. This book appeals to readers who enjoy stories that are both introspective and inspirational, offering insights into overcoming adversity and finding strength in the face of challenges. Given the wide range of themes explored throughout the book, the audience could include:
Readers interested in personal development and self-discovery: This book offers valuable insights into navigating life’s challenges, embracing one’s identity, and finding purpose and meaning.
Individuals interested in African American history and experiences: The memoir touches upon themes of racial segregation, activism, and societal shifts, making it relevant to readers interested in understanding the historical and cultural context of the African American experience.
Educators and students: The author’s journey as a professor and educator provides valuable lessons and perspectives for those working in or studying education, particularly in the context of diversity and inclusion.
Those seeking stories of resilience and triumph over adversity: With its narrative of overcoming obstacles, facing personal turmoil, and finding empowerment, this book resonates with readers who appreciate stories of resilience and triumph.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jun 23, 2024
• ISBN: 9798369424100

Joyce Pittman PhD

Dr. Joyce Pittman, Professor Emerita at Drexel University, is a renowned expert in international education policy and leadership. Founder of Global Education Technology & Research Associates (GETRA), she has significantly contributed to civil rights, social justice, and digital equity. Recognized globally, she leads Global-Teach Connect, focusing on innovative educational research and digital safety for children.

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Against

All Odds

I DID IT!

Joyce Pittman, PhD

Copyright © 2024 by Joyce Pittman.

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Contents

Dedication

Foreword

Introduction

Chapter 1Against All Odds

Chapter 2Self-Discovery

Chapter 3Early Life Exploits

Chapter 4The 1954 Back Door

Chapter 5Coming Alive

Chapter 6The Shape Of School

Chapter 7Social Change

Chapter 8Finding My Voice

Chapter 9Echoes Of Change

PART I THE 60S ERA OF SOCIAL

AND ECONOMIC CHANGE

Chapter 10Segregation – The Protests, Boycotts, Sit-Ins

Chapter 11Beyond Adversities And Boundaries

Chapter 12Growing Up Mystique

Chapter 13Work Ethics: The Foundation Of My Dreams

Chapter 14My Time And The Movement

Chapter 15Love Saves Me

Chapter 16Growing Up Fast: Embracing Early Adulthood

Chapter 17Social Insecurity And Obscurity

Chapter 18Life On My Own

Chapter 19Becoming Me. I Remember!

PART II BUILDING A NEW LIFE IN THE 70S

Chapter 20Motherhood Begins

Chapter 21Journey To Freedom

Chapter 22Marriage

Chapter 23Nurturing Minds: A Teacher’s Journey Of Impact And Growth

Chapter 24Pursuing Dreams: Embracing Growth, Parenthood And Wanting More

Chapter 25Figuring It All Out

Chapter 26Embracing Retirement Life

Chapter 27Weathering The Storms

Chapter 28Starting Over

Chapter 299 Ends And So Do My 20S!

PART III THE NEW ERA

Chapter 30New 80S Era Begins

Chapter 31Young Black, Divorced And Back To School

Chapter 32On The Road

Chapter 33Feeling Empowered

Chapter 34Daring To Dream

Chapter 35Exploring Truth

Chapter 36Seeing Light

Chapter 37Single Parenting Life

Chapter 38Corporate Experience

PART IV THE JOURNEY CONTINUES

Chapter 39Embracing Family Bonds

Chapter 40Achieving Harmony: The Journey To Future Life Balance

Bibliography

Index Of Chapters

Who Am I Today

End Notes

Historical Sources

Dedication

To my beloved sons, Dee and Kenny, whose love and support have been my constant source of strength. You are my greatest achievements and the lights of my life.

To Rose and Yris, my daughters-in-law, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, may you always remember that you come from a lineage of resilience and determination. This memoir is a testament to the legacy of perseverance and triumph that you inherit.

To my dear sisters, who have stood by me through every storm and celebrated with me in every joy. Your unwavering support and companionship have been invaluable.

And to my parents, the late Eli and Maggie Jackson, and Late sisters Rosie, Brendaretta and Jackie whose prayers, wisdom and sacrifices helped to lay the foundation for my journey. Your spirits have guided me, and your love has sustained me. I thank God for all of you and for guiding and sustaining me all these years.

Against All Odds I Did It! is dedicated to all of you, with profound gratitude and love. Your presence in my life has made this journey possible and this story worth telling.

Family Love

A bond that’s stronger than any other,

A love that lasts forever and ever.

It starts with a simple hello,

A hug and a kiss to make life glow.

Family love is a special thing,

A treasure with no price it will bring.

The joy of being near family,

A feeling of comfort that won’t let you be.

The warmth of their love can make all the sadness melt,

Our hearts that much closer as our lives we felt.

A special connection like no other,

That builds us up, again and again and again.

Our family is our foundation,

A love that we’ll never go without.

For no matter what life brings,

Our family always stay strong, and helps us sing.

Joyce Pittman 2023

NIV (New International Version) 1 John 4:12: No one

has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God

lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

Foreword

"Against All Odds I Did It! is a profound and compelling memoir that blends biography, autobiography, memories, stories, and history, all narrated by me. It chronicles the extraordinary emergence from a little black country girl to a black professor’s resilience, self-discovery, and triumph, culminating in the last chapter’s circle of life aspirations."

Through forty insightful chapters, I share an intimate account of navigating life’s formidable challenges and emerging victorious. This book is a testament to my personal fortitude, from my beginnings as a little black girl named Joyce, reared in a sharecropping family in deep Arkansas, to growing into a black woman in America.

This memoir serves as an inspiring guide for anyone facing their own struggles and seeking to carve out a meaningful path in life. It aims to help readers understand their connection to history by blending personal, scholarly, and political narratives.

The recall of dates, events, names, and persons is based on my memory and may sometimes conflict with other people’s recollections or records. To protect the privacy of certain individuals, some names have been changed to pseudonyms.

Chapter 1: Born Against All Odds

The journey begins with a powerful recount of author’s birth, marked by extraordinary circumstances that set the stage for a life defined by overcoming the odds. This chapter lays the foundation for understanding the remarkable resilience that characterizes the author’s story.

Chapter 2: Surviving Self Discovery

As the author transitions from childhood to adolescence, they delve into the often tumultuous process of self-discovery. This chapter captures the essence of growing pains and the quest for identity amidst external challenges.

Chapter 3: Early Life Exploits

The narrative continues with a vivid portrayal of author’s early adventures and experiences as a black girl child. These formative exploits shape their character and worldview, providing invaluable lessons that resonate throughout the memoir.

Chapter 4: The Back Door 1954

In this chapter, the author navigates the complexities of 1950s, a period fraught with social and cultural change. The Back Door metaphorically represents the unconventional paths and hidden opportunities that the author discovers and seizes through schooling.

Chapter 5: Coming Alive

A pivotal period of awakening and self-realization, this chapter captures the moments when the author begins to truly come into their own, embracing their potential and aspirations with renewed vigor.

Chapter 6: The Country School

Reflecting on educational experiences, the author discusses the impact of attending a country school. This chapter highlights the disparities and challenges faced, as well as the indomitable spirit that drives the pursuit of knowledge.

Chapter 7: Social Change

The author witnesses and participates in significant social changes during their youth. This chapter explores the influence of societal shifts on their personal development and worldview.

Chapter 8: Finding My Voice

Emerging from a backdrop of change, the author finds their voice, both literally and figuratively. This chapter details the journey towards self-expression and advocacy, setting the stage for future activism.

Chapter 9: Echoes of Change

The ripples of social change continue to affect the author’s life, echoing through their personal and professional experiences. This chapter reflects on the long-term impacts of transformative times.

Chapter 10: Segregation: Boycotts, Protests, Sit-Ins

A firsthand account of participating in a sit-in protest against segregation, this chapter is a powerful testament to the author’s commitment to justice and equality.

Chapter 11: The World Opens

With new opportunities on the horizon, the author describes how the world begins to open up, offering chances for growth and exploration that had once seemed out of reach.

Chapter 12: Growing Up Mystique

This chapter delves into the enigmatic aspects of adolescence, exploring the mysteries and challenges that come with growing up and finding one’s place in the world.

Chapter 13: Work Ethics: I Had A Dream

Drawing inspiration from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., the author discusses the development of a strong work ethic and the pursuit of professional and personal dreams.

Chapter 14: My Time: The Movement

Involvement in the civil rights movement becomes a defining feature of author’s life. This chapter recounts the struggles and triumphs of activism and its profound impact on their identity.

Chapter 15: Love Saved Me

Love, in its many forms, provides solace and strength. This chapter explores the pivotal role of love in helping the author navigate and overcome life’s hardships.

Chapter 16: The Wonder Years

Reflecting on the period of life often referred to as the wonder years, the author shares cherished memories and pivotal moments of growth and joy.

Chapter 17: Social Insecurity and Obscurity

The author grapples with feelings of social insecurity and the challenges of obscurity, shedding light on the internal struggles that accompany external achievements.

Chapter 18: On My Terms

Determined to live life on their own terms, the author takes decisive steps towards autonomy and self-determination, illustrating the power of personal agency.

Chapter 19: Becoming Me: I Remember

A reflective chapter that looks back on the journey so far, emphasizing the importance of memory and the process of becoming one’s true self.

Chapter 20: Motherhood Begins

Entering the realm of motherhood, the author shares the joys and challenges of raising children, highlighting the transformative power of parenthood.

Chapter 21: Freedom Journey

The quest for freedom continues, with the author exploring what it means to live a life free from societal constraints and personal limitations.

Chapter 22: Marriage

Marriage brings its own set of adventures and lessons. This chapter delves into the complexities of partnership and the growth that comes from shared life experiences.

Chapter 23: Teaching

As an educator, the author reflects on the impact of teaching and the reciprocal nature of learning. This chapter celebrates the transformative power of education.

Chapter 24: Pursuing Dreams: Embracing Growth, Parenthood And Wanting More

A restless spirit drives the author to seek more from life, pushing the boundaries of what is possible and striving for greater fulfillment and purpose.

Chapter 25: Figuring It All Out

The journey towards understanding and clarity is ongoing. This chapter captures the author’s attempts to make sense of life’s complexities and find a coherent path forward.

Chapter 26: Embracing Life

Fully embracing the richness of life, the author discusses the importance of living authentically and passionately, seizing each moment with purpose.

Chapter 27: Weathering Storms

Life’s storms continue to test the author’s resilience. This chapter is a testament to enduring adversity and emerging stronger on the other side.

Chapter 28: Starting Over

New beginnings offer a chance for renewal and reinvention. The author reflects on the courage required to start over and the opportunities it brings.

Chapter 29: 1979 Ends

As the decade comes to a close, the author takes stock of lessons learned and the milestones achieved, setting the stage for the next chapter of life.

Chapter 30: New Era Begins

The dawn of a new era brings fresh challenges and possibilities. The author looks ahead with hope and determination, ready to embrace what comes next.

Chapter 31: Back To School

Returning to education, the author discusses the significance of lifelong learning and the pursuit of new knowledge and skills.

Chapter 32: Road Tripping

Exploring the open road, the author finds freedom and adventure in travel, discovering new places and perspectives along the way.

Chapter 33: Feeling Empowered

Empowerment becomes a central theme, as the author harnesses inner strength and external support to achieve personal and professional goals.

Chapter 34: Daring Dreams

Dreams take flight as the author dares to imagine and pursue a future filled with possibilities, overcoming fears and obstacles along the way.

Chapter 35: Exploring Truth

The search for truth becomes a guiding principle, with the author delving into deeper understanding and seeking authenticity in all aspects of life.

Chapter 36: Seeing Light

Moments of clarity and enlightenment illuminate the author’s path, providing guidance and inspiration during challenging times.

Chapter 37: Single Parenting Life

Navigating the complexities of single parenthood, the author shares the struggles and rewards of raising children alone, highlighting resilience and love.

Chapter 38: Corporate Experience

The author reflects on their experiences in the corporate world, discussing the challenges and triumphs of navigating a professional career.

Chapter 39: Embracing Family Bonds

Family becomes a central theme, with the author celebrating the importance of familial connections and the support they provide within a circle of life aspirations.

Chapter 40: Achieving Harmony: The Journey Towards Future Life Balance

The memoir concludes with a circle of life aspirations (COLA) discussion focused on achieving balance and harmony in life, integrating the lessons learned and looking forward to a future filled with hope and possibility.

Against All Odds I Did This! is my honest and inspiring memoir that offers readers a heartfelt and authentic look at my journey through life’s trials and triumphs. It is a testament to the human spirit’s capacity for resilience and growth, reminding us all that we have the strength to overcome whatever challenges we face.

The ideal audience for Against All Odds, I Did It! would be individuals who appreciate deeply personal narratives that dive into themes of resilience, identity, and personal growth. This book appeals to readers who enjoy stories that are both introspective and inspirational, offering insights into overcoming adversity and finding strength in the face of challenges. Given the wide range of themes explored throughout the book, the audience could include:

1. Readers interested in personal development and self-discovery: This book offers valuable insights into navigating life’s challenges, embracing one’s identity, and finding purpose and meaning.

2. Individuals interested in African American history and experiences: The memoir touches upon themes of racial segregation, activism, and societal shifts, making it relevant to readers interested in understanding the historical and cultural context of the African American experience.

3. Educators and students: The author’s journey as a professor and educator provides valuable lessons and perspectives for those working in or studying education, particularly in the context of diversity and inclusion.

4. Those seeking stories of resilience and triumph over adversity: With its narrative of overcoming obstacles, facing personal turmoil, and finding empowerment, this book resonates with readers who appreciate stories of resilience and triumph.

Introduction

Allow me to speak truthfully, as a young black woman growing up for decades on Oakwood Bayou dirt roads outside the nearest city of Dumas, Arkansas and never knowing what it was like to wear a store bought dress until I was into my teens, I never thought I’d write a book about me. First, I am not a writer. I am a scholar. Frankly, years ago I didn’t consider my life all that interesting or worthy of sharing with the world. Then, out of nowhere so it seemed, I started getting more calls and emails than usual for interviews about my life and career journey as news traveled that I was retiring from my career in higher education.

Many interviewers resounded with the same question: So when are you writing your book? or why are you retiring? What legacy do you leave behind that you are most proud of? My go-to response was always, I’m working on the answers to all those questions. Oh, I have several professional and academic books ¹to my credit, but not a book about my life. I even wrote and published a family recipe vanity book and recently a book of poetry, Poems From My Heart: A Spiritual Journey now available online. The Ward Family Recipes was a collection of favorite recipes from family members, sisters, parents, grandparents and of course my own.

Reflecting back to 1993, I remembered a book that I started, Stretchin’ Til It Fits about the lives of my sisters and our experiences growing up as 11 black sisters in the South. I never finished it because I struggled to navigate my own stretching and fitting story not to mention the lack of consensus about the story we wanted to tell. So, I decided to figure out who I am and how I got here before attempting to tell their stories. The original 1993 story was presented as a play at Iowa State University for a qualitative research course credit while I was working on my doctorate during a film and arts festival. The play attracted standing room only for over 200 attendees! Reviews indicated that the audience wanted more than a play, they wanted a book about our lives.

The title of this book didn’t come to me until after it was finished. I tried many different titles, but Against All Odds I Did It perfectly captured the themes of my spirituality, resilience, personal growth, and global leadership that I aimed to convey including the fortitude to finish this imperfect book with the encouragement, support and efforts of friends, colleagues and family. You know who you are. I omitted names for fear I might forget someone. This book only hints at the formidable challenges I faced during my formative years and how they propelled me to survive becoming a black woman in America, a world leader, and a professor of education in a system never designed for me or those like me.

This book is a personal story woven together as a testament to the extraordinary nature of my everyday existence that some people find fascinating in an ever-changing world. Within these unfolding pages, you’ll find my inside and up-side down stories of triumph, resilience, love, heartbreak and self-discovery.

I hope this book will help others who find themselves looking for strength when the going gets tough. Each chapter unfolds a precious memory, revealing the remarkable adventures and experiences that shaped my journey toward becoming the accidental professor who is me, myself and I with all my