On this New To You show from March 2, 2007, Monica, Lian and Lian focus on what they have learned about civility from Dr. Forni. Plus remember the days before Uber and Lyft? Monica tells a tale of a taxi ride gone horribly wrong in Santa Monica.  In the world before Uber or Lyft, Monica has a bad experience with Taxi Taxi in Santa Monica. Remember those bad old days?  Calm. Spring. Kind. Those are the three elements of Dr. Forni’s definition of civility. We are doing our best to live up to his challenge.  Lian has a bullying problem with her son that balloons into a political semi-scandal in her neighborhood.  Liz wants to know if you can ever tell a sick co-worker to go home. Keebler Elf dies. RIP. Lian practices grocery store anthropology to figure out how she could have made an egregious mistake.