492: SEXLESS MARRIAGE

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492: SEXLESS MARRIAGE

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Jun 18, 2019

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Sexless marriage is exactly what it sounds like, a marriage in which husband and wife are not having sex for an extended period of time. | "Are you lovers or just roommates?" —Anonymous

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Jun 18, 2019

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind-blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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008 – Eyes Wide Open: Are you able to communicate your desires to your spouse? How do you react when he/she suggests trying something new. In this podcast Tony and Alisa talk about one of Tony's ideas and how it played out in the bedroom. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
35 min listen
031 – Queen Size Bed: This week we are not in the studio aka the garage, but instead podcasting from a rock overlooking Morro Bay. We used our digital recorder and Tony's portion is a bit crackly. Sorry about this and we'll make sure to have this corrected the next time. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
16 min listen
025 – Getting Away: It's time to get away with your spouse and reconnect. Getting away gives you the opportunity to have those deep conversations, to sleep late and explore new places with your one and only.Getting away allows you to refocus your priorities and make your ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
54 min listen
082: ART OF MANLINESS: Husbands, it's time to stand up! - Take a hard look at yourself in the mirror. - Are you taking a stand in your marriage and becoming the man your wife desires? Or are you pulling the "I don't like it card"? - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
48 min listen
004 – Listener Feedback: In this episode we answer a number of questions from one of our listeners about ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Click here to read the email. Some of the questions we answer are: - Who we are? Why we are doing this? Where did ONE come from? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
018 – Interview: Facebook and Your Marriage: We are pleased to have had the chance to interview Jason & Kelli Krafsky authors of Facebook and Your Marriage. - Jason & Kelli have been married since 1994 and been on Facebook since 2008. They have written a number of articles, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
39 min listen
003 – Rejection: Our McDonald’s Theory: Have you ever given any thought to the power the word NO has on your marriage? What might be a minor decision for a wife/husband (do we or don't we make love tonight) can have a larger impact on our marriages, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
37 min listen
007 – Pornography: A Secret That Can Destroy Your Marriage: Are you aware of the destructive force that pornography can have in your marriage? 28,358 individuals are viewing porn every second Internet porn generated $2.84 billion in 2006 70% of porn is viewed between the 9-5 eight-hour workday (LJ INdex, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
61 min listen
024 – When It’s Not On The Radar Screen: What does your marriage look like when intimacy is not on the radar screen? We had a personal case study last week and it wasn't pretty. It is never too late to make intimacy a priority in your marriage, it just takes making a decision and making the e.. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
47 min listen
010 – Can You Admit When You Are Wrong?: Can you admit when you are wrong? Or are you quick to jump on the defensive when your spouse brings up an issue? Listen in as we share our less than perfect week. I (Alisa) was moody and irritable, quick to dismiss anything that Tony had to say. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
34 min listen
019 – God Wants You to Make an Impact: Small acts done with great love can transform the world. -Jill Todd - Do you realize the power that you have? Every day we are presented with opportunities to change someone's life be it through a conversation, a situation, a prayer. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
53 min listen
074 – Don’t Stop: There are times in our marriages when we just don't have the energy or stamina to go on. Between family obligations, kids, work, outside actives, and the like we have nothing left. It's during these times that we need continue on with God as our guide. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
47 min listen
006 – Power of Prayer: The Power of Prayer...change is possible, are you willing to ask for what you want and wait for it to happen? - In our microwave society we want what we want RIGHT NOW! The reality is this: we can't change our spouse or their actions no matter how muc... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
31 min listen
001 – 60 Days of Sex: Eleven years and our marriage had gone through a lot and yet the pain we endured didn't have to be there forever. So on a fateful day Tony & Alisa began an adventure that would forever change their lives. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
34 min listen
021 – All is Fair in Love and Marriage…: Do you feel like things aren't fair in your marriage? Are you busier keeping track of who did what than how you are serving your spouse? - Listen as we respond to a twitter question about whether marriage is fair or can be fair. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
57 min listen
033 – From the Top Down & More…: This is the first of our small group podcast on Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Marriage. Each week we will be coving the different Keys that you can use in your marriage today, tomorrow, and into the future to build passion, romance, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
56 min listen
016 – An Attitude of Service: Do you have an attitude of service in your marriage? You can make a difference in your marriage, in your life, in the world. By choosing to serve, without expectation or requirement of a return, you free yourself to fully enjoy intimacy. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
012 – Fireproof: "Never leave your partner, especially in a fire." - We are a little behind the times but better late than never. This is an amazing movie that will dramatically impact you wherever you are in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
30 min listen
030 – Sex In The Bedroom: Are you able to share your sexual passions and desires to your spouse? What's keeping you from having meaningful conversation about this area of your life? There are so many distractions pulling us in so many directions that we forget that God has give... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
051 – True Friendship: Lessons I learned from watching my kids (Alisa)...This weekend as I watched my son make decisions about his birthday cake based on the fact that one of his best friends was coming. He sacrificed what he may have wanted for what a friend would prefer. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
62 min listen
022 – Is It Safe To Share My Emotions: Have you created a marriage where it is safe to share your emotions-both the good and the bad? Are you willing to let the person, who is supposed to love you the most, in on what is truly going on with you? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
54 min listen
011 – Our Beginning…How the Romance Started: We step back in time to talk about how it all started for us. It was the summer of 1994 when Alisa came to the University of Colorado at Boulder on an internship program. I was a student, cook, and maintenance man around the fraternity house where she ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
50 min listen
045 – Can You Face the Music?: So often in our marriages we fail to take responsibility for our actions. Have you ever not apologized? Just swept the issue “under the rug”? Waited for everything to blow over? STOP IT! It’s does not matter if you get the words right, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
58 min listen
020 – Shaking Things UP!: Has your marriage fallen into a rut? Do you want to break out of the routines both emotionally and sexually? Join us for the 1st Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Today we talk about the details and how this can be transformational for your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
56 min listen
013 – The Difference One Week Can Make in Your Marriage: Can 7 days really make a difference in your marriage? We are placing bets that it can. Decide that for one week your spouse is going to be your number one priority and see what happens. Celebrate as you rediscover the communication in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
37 min listen
027 – The Whole Enchilada: Are you loving your spouse with your whole self, serving them in all areas or are you just giving them a part of yourself? Intimacy involves more than just the physical intimacy we think of most the time. There is emotional, intellectual, recreational, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
52 min listen
017 – Are You too Tired to Try?: Have you worn yourself down? Are there too many "things" demanding your attention? In this weeks podcast we tackle the issue of fatigue in our marriage and how it has the ability to wreak havoc on our marriage and your relationships. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
52 min listen
036 – What If?: What if we had never done the 60 Days of Sex Challenge? Where would our own marriage be today? Where would the ONE Community be? We talk through the last two years and challenge you to stop asking the "what if" question and start doing something today .. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
58 min listen
032 – Home Sweet Home: We spent last week in Morro Bay on our family vacation. We had a lot of fun together and a few not so fun times. Just goes to show that we are still a work in progress and that this thing called marriage takes on-going effort. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
044 – On the Road Again: Can the two of you maintain your intimacy while one is away and the other is at home? You both want to make sure that intimacy stays a priority in your marriage, but how do you make that happen when there is so much to do! - Grab your drink of choice, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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