Ruby Ryder tells us how she discovered her joy for pegging at the age of 50 and became the go-to expert. She addresses pegging apprehension that stems from the societal notion that it's a threat to masculinity. We learn how to talk to your partner about your interest in pegging; how to have pegging induced multiple and full body orgasms; the difference between prostate, anal, and penile orgasms; plus the striking similarities between the g-spot and the p-spot. Ruby also covers concerns for givers including building stamina with exercises designed for better thrusting in the bedroom. We go over the best toys and harnesses, the myth of the strapless strap-on, why orgasms for givers aren’t always desirable, how to determine the sensitivity of your prostate and why it’s important, pegging for people that don't have prostates, and more. Whether that scene in Deadpool simply piqued your interest or if you're an old pro looking for new inspiration, this episode has it all! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 91 Links  Pegging Paradise Podcast iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ruby-ryders-pegging-paradise/id569410141 Stitcher https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/ruby-ryders-pegging-paradise Ruby Ryder Patreon - Support Ruby’s Work http://patreon.com/RubyRyder Luxury Sex Toys - Support Ruby’s Work https://www.enticeme.co/s/rubyryder/ Pegging Paradise http://peggingparadise.com/ Pegging 101 http://pegging101.com/ Email Ruby@PeggingParadise.com Ruby Ryder Instagram https://www.instagram.com/therubyryder/ Ruby Ryder Twitter https://twitter.com/Ruby_Ryder Ruby Ryder MeWe https://mewe.com/join/rubyryderspeggingparadise Ruby Ryder FetLife https://fetlife.com/users/365662 Ruby Ryder Reddit https://www.reddit.com/user/RubyRyder/ Ruby Ryder Facebook https://www.facebook.com/PeggingParadise/ Ryan Reynolds Pegging Video https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2016/06/ryan-reynolds-you-rascal/ Pegging Paradise Podcast #102 – All About Equipment https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/04/podcast-102/ Pegging Paradise Podcast #112 – For the Ladies https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/ Hard Times At The Hotel Erotic Story https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2011/02/hard-times-at-the-hotel/ Tantus doubles/strapless strapon article https://www.tantusinc.com/blogs/sexed/33853700-the-truth-about-strapless-strap-ons-ruby-ryder American Sex Sounding Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/urethral-sounding-john-c-luna-podcast/ American Sex Sex Toys for Vulvas Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ Njoy Pure Wand  (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=9030 We-Vibe Rave (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=34852 We-Vibe Sync (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=36858 Lelo Mona 2 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHjs Lelo Mona Wave 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHju Lelo Gigi 2 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHjo Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast (come on by & start a g-spot thread!) **Some of the above links are affiliate links Episode 9