While 'T's away in europe, 'A' interviews her insightful friend 'Richard' who looks back on his marriage of just under 20 years to share his key takeaways of what exactly went wrong and shares the major pitfalls and what he would have done to avoid them.  It's always hepful to learn from our mistakes, and the mistakes of others!  And Richard's story is no exception.  A great episode to hear for any human being who might ever be in reationship with any other human being.