Choosing Our Family Over Ourselves

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Choosing Our Family Over Ourselves

FromLegacy Dads with Dave and Dante

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Nov 9, 2020

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Lance and Dante discuss being sensitive to the needs of our wife and family and using empathy to realize when we might need to change directions. How to realize the key moments when our family needs us most and be there for them in these crucial moments. https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest

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Nov 9, 2020

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Real men with authentic faith. Legacy Dads is a community of Christian men focusing on issues such as marriage, parenting, and leadership. We equip men who are trying to balance faith, our modern lives, and leading our families to a lasting legacy.

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Legacy Dads Episode #14 - Are You A Lone Ranger?: Are you walking in faith as a lone ranger? Why do we need other men, accountability, and mentorship. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #12 - Foundation and Stages of Effective Parenting: Lance and Dante talk about setting a solid foundation and the stages of effective parenting. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Logs, Specks, and Being "Judgy": Dante and Lance discuss Matthew 7 and judgmental attitudes. Dante and Lance also discuss racism and how dehumanizing thoughts and language can lead people to do unimaginable things. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #1 - Beginnings: The Beginning - How we went from clueless men to 60,000+ followers and becoming better Christian men, husbands, and fathers. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #25 - Walls: Dante and Lance talk about breaking down walls and how Christians should respond on social media. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #9 - God Wants You To Eat Meat: Discipleship, Walking With Men, and Moving From Milk to Meat by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 21 - Who Are the Nones?: Lance and Dante talk about how the church can engage the "nones" and why the church led to creating some of the "nones" by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 5 - #ThoughtsandPrayers - When I Was An Atheist - Part 1: #ThoughtsandPrayers - When I Was An Atheist - Part 1 by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Podcast #17 - 4 Barriers to a Healthy Marriage: 4 Barriers to a Healthy Marriage by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #18 - Unusual Soldiers and The Great Commission: Lance's son talks about missionary training with Unusual Soldiers and Caleb Bislow, author of Dangerous, and why fulfilling the Great Commission is not always easy. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #28 - Salt, Light, and Civility?: Lance and Dante talk about how to maintain civility and be the salt and light on social media and when discussing highly charged topics. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #15 - The Law of the Lid: Lance and Dante talk about elite performance, combat, and how it relates to your faith. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #20 - Decisive Leadership: Leading in Life and at Home by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 8 - Creating Faith That "Sticks" With Our Kids: How to create faith that endures with our children through college and into adulthood. The latest research from the Fuller Youth Institute on youth ministry and "sticky faith". by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #26 - Toxic Masculinity?: Legacy Dads talk about "toxic masculinity" and why this was never God's plan for men. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #27 - Who's Your Daddy? Gender Roles: Dante and Lance discuss a NY Times article where the author tries to imply that being a good dad means you're taking on the role of a mother. Gender Roles and Biblical Roles. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 22 - Biblical Masculinity and Doc and Devo 2018: Live from Doctrine and Devotion 2018 - Lance and Dante talk about Biblical masculinity and reflections on keynotes from Joe Thorn and Doug Logan, Jr. #docanddevo2018 by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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