Listen in behind the scenes of a Voxer message that will change everything for you. On this episode you’ll get access to a private Voxer message between Russell and Matt Maddix about the three questions he asks people that make him a better leader, father, and husband. Here are the three questions to listen for in today’s episode: What can I keep doing? What should I start doing? What should I stop doing? Listen here to find out why these three questions are so important when it comes to making you a better leader, father, husband, and person. ---Transcript--- What’s up everybody? This is Russell Brunson, welcome back to the Marketing Secrets podcast. I have something that I’m really excited to share with you, you guys are in for a treat today. So I’ve been working with Matt Maddix on a really cool project. He and Caleb, they do a lot of really cool work in the streets helping people who are homeless, people who have lost fathers, things like that. And I wanted my kids to have this experience, so I’ve been working with Matt to set up a time for my kids and I to fly out there and literally live in the streets for 3 or 4 days and work with the kids and help and serve. I’m really excited for that, so I’ve been working with him kind of getting that coordinated and scheduled. And at the end of one of our conversations, he voxed me this question that was just like, it kind of caught me off guard and I was like, huh. And I sat there and I thought, for like 15 or 20 minutes I thought about it, and then I responded back and gave him my answers. And as I gave him my answer I was like, “Man, that was like the most effective, efficient questions ever.” And I started thinking, I could use these in so many more situations. I could use them with my wife, with my kids, with people I work with, in all situations. It’s such a powerful thing. So afterwards I messaged him and I was like, “Can you vox me the story behind those three questions because that was amazing and I think this is something that everybody in our community needs to understand and to learn and to utilize.” So basically the questions he asked me, I’ll go through them really quick, and then we’ll jump into the actual episode. So the first question he said, “Hey, if you could answer three questions for me. The first question is what do you wish I would keep doing? Number two, what do you wish I would stop doing? Number three is what do you wish I would start doing?” He told me, “I used to ask Caleb that question as a kid, you know every..” I can’t remember, every week or every month, and he’s like, “The way I became a great dad is because Caleb taught me how to be a great dad by answering those questions consistently. And I was like, “Oh my gosh.” If I want to become a great leader, I gotta learn how to ask those questions and my people will teach me how to be a great leader. If I want to be a great spouse, I need to ask my spouse, my wife those questions, and she’ll teach me how to be a good spouse. And if I want to be a good father….I was like, oh my gosh. This is so powerful and so cool. So that’s the three questions, we’re going to queue up the theme song, and when we come back you guys are going to have an intimate listen in on a vox back from Matt Maddix, explaining the three questions, how he used it, and how it’s transformed his life. I hope this tool is something you can use. I’m so excited about it. I’m going to be using it literally every day of my life from now on. And I want to thank Matt Maddox for sharing it with me. And hopefully this tool will be beneficial to you as well. Matt: Good morning. What’s going on, my friend? Congratulations on yesterday, I prayed God’s blessing and favor. Caleb and I took a trip and we had a long chat about you, and just love you guys. I was actually sharing with him, because I actually asked him, it was something I did as a dad and it just kind of came from me. I just, I asked Caleb a lot of questions, so when he was younger I said