Podcast #446
How To Find Yourself and Your Confidence






The need to find yourself, to figure yourself out, to learn to love yourself and how to figure out who you are is part of the journey of being a human committed to self-improvement and positive personal development. This video will teach you how to find yourself again when you feel lost, how to find yourself and redefine yourself after a relationship and how to become the person you want to be in the process. You'll learn 3 simple ways to rediscover who you are, how to know who you are, how to like yourself and how losing yourself will actually help you really find yourself.


 
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're talking about: 



·       How to rediscover who you are if you feel lost, uncertain or rock bottom



·       10 reflective questions to help you figure out who you really are



·       How to get an aerial view and understanding of where you are and where you want to go



·       3 strategies on how to start the process of finding yourself again


 
REVIEW OF THE WEEK:



Hi Ms. Blackwell -



I connected to you on Instagram because I regularly listen to The Confidence Podcast on Google for post of the last year. I know you say at the beginning of each episode that it's made to help women, but your messages have been helping me immensely in my goal of being confident in myself and I thank you for being part of the journey. 



A thousand thank you's for helping to create the roadmap in my journey to define the person that I want to become. 



Michael




 
ASK CHALLENGE - 30 DAYS OF ASKING
 


The Art of Asking. 



Buckle up for a month of coaching that will scale your confidence for sure!



June is "Ask Month."



Yep, together, we are going to master the art of asking. Because, remember, you don't get in life what you hope for, or even what you deserve, you get what you are confident enough to ask for. 



This applies even in your own self-asking and self-reflection. How you ask yourself what you want from life will determine how you design your life and ultimately live it out.



Asking is a powerful thing, but too many of us tip-toe around it. And we end up missing out on what is actually available to us.



I'll be doing some spot coaching throughout the month on the "art of asking," and will be doing it in multiple contexts - relationships, financial, career, sales, and more. Get excited because the more you practice asking, the better you will be at it.



Together, we're practicing 30-Days of Asking with our 30-Day Ask Challenge.



Get involved at www.collegeofconfidence.com


First: know this: you are not stuck where you are standing. 

WHERE ARE YOU, HOW DID YOU GET HERE, WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO? 



 I.         When did you lose yourself?



 II.         Who's voice got you lost?



 III.         What narrative have you used to keep yourself there?






 
10 Questions to Help You Figure Out Who You Are



1.     What do people often tell me about me?



2.     What things do I enjoy doing?



3.     What interests capture my curiosity? 



4.     Who am I not?



5.     Who do I want to be?



6.     How do I want to be remembered? 



7.     What difference do I want to make with my life in this world? 



8.     What is the best compliment people could ever say about me?



9.     What type of work makes my heart come alive?



10.  If I could create anything with my life, what would that be? 






 
5 Resources in the College of Confidence on this topic



1.     How to Know Your Purpose



2.     How to Know Who You Are and What You Want



3.     Getting Beyond Overwhelm 



4.     Transforming Your Trials into Triumphs



5.     How to Train Your Thoughts



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