What you should do if you start thinking and feeling like you should break the no contact rule and contact your ex if you have walked away with the intention of never looking back after a breakup.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails. The first email is from a viewer whose ex-girlfriend cheated on him and left him for another guy. He has spent the past several weeks watching my videos, reading my articles and book. He is fearful and starting to second-guess himself and is contemplating contacting his ex again because he is blaming himself for the fact she cheated on him after he turned her off. The second email consists of some questions from a client whom I did a phone session with this past week and he’s wrestling with walking away and never looking back, and the desire to prove to his ex that he has changed. This is the definition of weak beta male approval seeking behavior. Both of these men are mistakenly under the influence of the illusion of action thinking doing something will change their situation.